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"I don't seem to get much luck on here, can someone help please?" I do not wish to be negative but I am surprised that you had a meeting. You need to expand your profile and pictures. If you have no idea where to start, search the 100 other threads requesting advice. Your profile contravenes all suggestions. Good luck. | |||
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"Oh dear, here we go again! Have you actually looked at the Forum pages and taken the time to really look at similar threads? The reason you are having any luck is down to you and you alone! There are thousands of guys on here, all seeking the same. Thus, in effect, in order to stand out, you have to pitch yourself against the others, that is, SELL YOURSELF and make yourself look appealing! With your current Profile, that fails in every way! It is abysmal! Barely one and a half lines of text is woefully inadequate. You have to expand it more, telling people who you are, what you like (and dislike though in moderation). Ditch the cock pic to private viewing only; if you can, get a facial pic up on your Profile, even a body shot too. The only plus point you possess is to admit you are married, but that will go against you though with many people. The fact you cannot accommodate will be a disadvantage too and put people off. You have been on here for only 5 months; you are a mere beginner! It can take months of hard slog to get on in this site. If you thought it would be an "Instant Fix" site, dream on! Get into the Forums; get to socials or clubs in your area - it is all about getting noticed! It takes Patience, Perseverance and a hell of a lot more Patience to get results! Put in the effort, you will get results! But at present, your Profile will be glanced at, and people will move on because it is unattractive, to someone else who has worked at constructing a good profile. Good Luck!" If you don't take above advice then you are a Cock | |||
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"I don't seem to get much luck on here, can someone help please?" You're joking, right? | |||
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"Oh dear, here we go again! Have you actually looked at the Forum pages and taken the time to really look at similar threads? The reason you are having any luck is down to you and you alone! There are thousands of guys on here, all seeking the same. Thus, in effect, in order to stand out, you have to pitch yourself against the others, that is, SELL YOURSELF and make yourself look appealing! With your current Profile, that fails in every way! It is abysmal! Barely one and a half lines of text is woefully inadequate. You have to expand it more, telling people who you are, what you like (and dislike though in moderation). Ditch the cock pic to private viewing only; if you can, get a facial pic up on your Profile, even a body shot too. The only plus point you possess is to admit you are married, but that will go against you though with many people. The fact you cannot accommodate will be a disadvantage too and put people off. You have been on here for only 5 months; you are a mere beginner! It can take months of hard slog to get on in this site. If you thought it would be an "Instant Fix" site, dream on! Get into the Forums; get to socials or clubs in your area - it is all about getting noticed! It takes Patience, Perseverance and a hell of a lot more Patience to get results! Put in the effort, you will get results! But at present, your Profile will be glanced at, and people will move on because it is unattractive, to someone else who has worked at constructing a good profile. Good Luck! If you don't take above advice then you are a Cock " Or will he react like many others of this genre and say they will change things, only to do nowt, then disappear into the blue yonder and are never heard of again? | |||
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"The question I have to ask is how the heck you got a meet with a profile that bad?" Here's another question: why didn't he leave a veri for her? Fake meet? Two fake profiles? More than possible. | |||
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"The op asked for help... The sad thing is he thinks he is......not a chance (Grrrrr)" Even...lol | |||
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"The op asked for help... The sad thing is he thinks he is......not a chance (Grrrrr)" If you dont approve you could allways skip the thread like admin advise. Rather then playing god | |||
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"Well credit to the op He came back ! Some wouldn't let's see if he stays !" He came back, yes, but took absolutely no notice of advice he was given | |||
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"Well credit to the op He came back ! Some wouldn't let's see if he stays ! He came back, yes, but took absolutely no notice of advice he was given " Why bother asking the question | |||
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"I don't seem to get much luck on here, can someone help please?" Why not try filling out your profile more tell people about you your desires and make it attractive to them to the point they are more interested. | |||
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"Can I ask how I can improve my profile and yes I will act on good advise. Many thanks in advance " I don't know why you've put 'no weirdos'. | |||
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"I don't seem to get much luck on here, can someone help please? Why not try filling out your profile more tell people about you your desires and make it attractive to them to the point they are more interested. " This. These types of questions pop up almost every day, so you might like to consider reading some of the answers people give to those. The biggest fail you could do is not act on any advice. | |||
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"Can I ask how I can improve my profile and yes I will act on good advise. Many thanks in advance I don't know why you've put 'no weirdos'. " Right I will remove that thanks. | |||
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"Can I ask how I can improve my profile and yes I will act on good advise. Many thanks in advance I don't know why you've put 'no weirdos'. Right I will remove that thanks. " Haha! That's funny! | |||
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"Can I ask how I can improve my profile and yes I will act on good advise. Many thanks in advance I don't know why you've put 'no weirdos'. Right I will remove that thanks. Haha! That's funny! " What's funny | |||
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"The fact your married will put a lot of people off" Well that's a technicality I can't over come and to be honest honesty is best but thank you for the reply | |||
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"Well credit to the op He came back ! Some wouldn't let's see if he stays ! He came back, yes, but took absolutely no notice of advice he was given Why bother asking the question " Lol, give me a chance please! I do do other stuff apart from hang out on this site all day :p | |||
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