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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. I'm looking to meet with a couple for the first time or join parties. Iv tried messaging and looking on meets,to no avail. Could any one help me see the error in my ways please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit me me me from reading it. Perhaps a little more of what a woman can expect or what's in it for them as well as just the things you like and want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will take on board wat you have said. Thankyou. The bit about wat she can expect. That's tricky cuz doesn't that depend on who where when we meet and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will take on board wat you have said. Thankyou. The bit about wat she can expect. That's tricky cuz doesn't that depend on who where when we meet and why? "

You don't have to be that specific but a lady likes to know what she is going to gain from meeting you? Ask yourself, if you were a woman would you pick your profile over the thousands of other single male profiles, what makes you different to all the other guys .... and not all women are blown away just because a guy likes performing oral sex!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit me me me from reading it. Perhaps a little more of what a woman can expect or what's in it for them as well as just the things you like and want. "

Just looked and yes to much about you and not about the people your lookin for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou for ur time and replies. Could u give me some examples please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou for ur time and replies. Could u give me some examples please? "

We can't spoon feed you stuff to write on your profile, it ceases to be your profile then and more a collection of other peoples opinions. Some things have to be worked out for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou for ur time and replies. Could u give me some examples please?

We can't spoon feed you stuff to write on your profile, it ceases to be your profile then and more a collection of other peoples opinions. Some things have to be worked out for yourself."

It takes effort to be successful on here, meets do not generally just "fall into your lap". If you do not make a personal effort with your profile text and pics the general consensus seems to be that you will not make an effort when it comes to meeting either. Your profile should represent/sell you!

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

You've been here 9 weeks and have been verified by a person who says she has met you a few times......you're doing a lot better than many men on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get wat ur saying. I am going to re write later. As to my pictures. A friend took them best out of a bad bunch. Maybe one in a suit. Tbh I'm not photo genic as u can see.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hi. I'm looking to meet with a couple for the first time or join parties. Iv tried messaging and looking on meets,to no avail. Could any one help me see the error in my ways please? "

We can't. Why? Because we don't know what you've been doing so can't tell you if it's right or wrong or indifferent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verified by five women with five meets in nine weeks... I'd say you're not doing too bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've updated my profile. Feed back greatly appreciated x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've updated my profile. Feed back greatly appreciated x"

Proof read it.

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