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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I'm looking to meet people especially women, but all the younger girls go for older guys and the older women all go for guys mid 20's any advice for me? To help improve my chances? Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with a search of all the similar threads on young men. You'll do well to read the advice there first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also doesn't help that you are bi either. But yeah young guys and bi guys tend to be no-nos on here with a lot of people.

Not much you can do really, at least you've been honest about your age and sexuality and that counts for a lot, shos you're mature as well (which more people will appreciate).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clicking "I match their age requirements too" on advanced search will solve your problem mate,will only bring up people wanting to meet people in your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toilet cock shot?! Come on! You're better than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Toilet cock shot?! Come on! You're better than that!"

nice

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you wanted to meet a woman on a night out would you sit on the lavatory, pants and trousers round your ankles and cock in hand chatting them up?

It takes time and persistence on here and possibly you were expecting instant

meets.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Ohhhh lovely. ...on the loo with your pants round your ankles! That'll have em queueing round the block! Really??? I mean really did you expect that pic to have a positive effect on anyone???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status really makes me want to meet you too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your status really makes me want to meet you too... "

Me too! Makes you sound desparate OP and other site users like they would fuck anything.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Yea the status is a classic.....

As a woman I would also be put off by the description of what you like men doing to you, you sound like you are looking for men rather than women

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A) I'd like to know which ladies find toilet seat and cock photos sexually arousing. The reason for this is if they get wet at the sight of a toilet, I've got a cess pit / sewer photo which will make them drop their Knicks and come running to me;

B) the status is negative, whiney and immature;

C) ladies don't even get a complete sentence to themselves in your text, but the anonymous back arse fucking you in a carpark gets a whole paragraph;

D) it's not your age......

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By *ornysxcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

If you can't "get fucked" at nineteen an have to join a swingers site thinking that's what it's all about then your doing something seriously wrong. We certainly wouldn't meet someone who puts so little effort Into their profile an only sees this place as somewhere to "get laid"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its easy, the ratio is 100 men to 1 woman, women can get fucked easier lol.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

seems like yr doing ok... 3 verifications in 7 months..some guys have had no meets in a year!

be patient...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status makes me think you're one of those guys who feels like he is entitled to sex from women. Elliot Roger also felt that way. Too many unpleasant people feel that way.

And also your comment about only meeting men outdoors would be a problem for me. I am not a man, but I DO love bisexual men (in fact, I rarely ever have sex with straight men). But why are you so ashamed with them that you'll only meet them outside? What's wrong with your place or theirs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try going a club seen lads ur age in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I'm looking to meet people especially women, but all the younger girls go for older guys and the older women all go for guys mid 20's any advice for me? To help improve my chances? Thanks x"

At 19 probably less its all a matter of what people are comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to know where you get the idea from that ALL young girls go for older and ALL older women go for mid 20's, can you prove that

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By *osabellaWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also doesn't help that you are bi either. But yeah young guys and bi guys tend to be no-nos on here with a lot of people. "
Sadly this is true. I do not judge with regards to you being bi BUT I cannot read very clearly from your profile text what you are actually after here, as a reader of your profile text I am just left confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try going a club seen lads ur age in clubs "
a few years ago in a club I used to go to a 20 year old Army lad became very popular and he kept coming. He always left with a big smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op. Tend to agree with most comments made.

Maybe tone it down a bit.

The status would definitely put us off straight away.

Details in profile maybe a bit much.

Could say that you enjoy meeting men outside and find it a turn on. Then explain when asked via message.

Respect and sincerity go a long way.

Hopefully you don't take this in a negative way?

Good luck.

And definitely agree regards the toilet shot nooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are generalising .. I most certainly am not looking for guys in their 20s.

Many older women don't like guys as young as their kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I'm looking to meet people especially women, but all the younger girls go for older guys and the older women all go for guys mid 20's any advice for me? To help improve my chances? Thanks x"

Too young for us

Bit contradictory seeing as J is only 20 (how he got thru my filters I'll never know ) but that's Fab for ya.

Unrelated Q but why do you only meet guys outside ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't start forums askin questions about anythin at all coz people will not pick about every little detail & make u feel like a dick, best thing to do is just keep trying & hope to find one of the rare people on this site that won't be a complete wanker to you! Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't start forums askin questions about anythin at all coz people will not pick about every little detail & make u feel like a dick, best thing to do is just keep trying & hope to find one of the rare people on this site that won't be a complete wanker to you! Good luck"

Or making statements that just create irresistible opportunities

So, 7th picture in

Are those your shoes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I'm looking to meet people especially women, but all the younger girls go for older guys and the older women all go for guys mid 20's any advice for me? To help improve my chances? Thanks x"

Advice given but not acted upon, sound familiar anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't start forums askin questions about anythin at all coz people will not pick about every little detail & make u feel like a dick, best thing to do is just keep trying & hope to find one of the rare people on this site that won't be a complete wanker to you! Good luck

Or making statements that just create irresistible opportunities

So, 7th picture in

Are those your shoes ? "
haha probably

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By *etallisMan
over a year ago

Massa Carrara (Italy)

most of time it boils down to luck, no matter if you fit their profile description or the body type

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Don't start forums askin questions about anythin at all coz people will not pick about every little detail & make u feel like a dick, best thing to do is just keep trying & hope to find one of the rare people on this site that won't be a complete wanker to you! Good luck"

Ha! If the guy asks a question in the public forum, then I'm gonna answer. If he, or anyone, doesn't like my answers then tough titty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't start forums askin questions about anythin at all coz people will not pick about every little detail & make u feel like a dick, best thing to do is just keep trying & hope to find one of the rare people on this site that won't be a complete wanker to you! Good luck

Or making statements that just create irresistible opportunities

So, 7th picture in

Are those your shoes ? "
actually no just checked, those r ma dads slippers

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