FabSwingers.com forum: Advice appreciated

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

A FBuddy I see now and then has asked whether I'd be up for her fucking me for a change. I'm always Dom or at least take the lead in meets and life in general but have to admit I am interested in trying a bit of power reversal for a change.

I haven't done this sort of thing before and neither has she, but I don't want to let her down as she is keen and I find it hot that she's comfortable enough to try it with me, plus I've always wondered "what if?".

There's plenty of articles out there but I'd love to get some real advice and tips from people who have tried it. What's the best way to go about it without it being too painful?

Thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had a fb, so don't know lol

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By *osconangelCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

lots of lube, start small fingers etc then try using toys and be totally relaxed, angel uses a strap on on me and i cum really quick and love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she lets you choose the strapon I'd suggest you go small and slim. Too easy to have eyes bigger than your bottom of you know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha thanks both. We said we'd go shopping for new toys etc together next week so I'll be sure to put my input in on size

How about positions etc? What's the best 'starter' position? I've also heard of these numbing gels that you can use - do they work? Any good ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha thanks both. We said we'd go shopping for new toys etc together next week so I'll be sure to put my input in on size

How about positions etc? What's the best 'starter' position? I've also heard of these numbing gels that you can use - do they work? Any good ones?"

Numbing gels are not a good idea. Pain is there for a reason and whilst it is possible to get past it, it is there as an indicator that something might not be "right".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried numbing hell because, to me, that takes away half the sensation I'm after.

Some anal lubes have a relaxing agent in them, which you might find useful.

I have a dildo that looks a bit like a stack of balls, each a bit bigger. That's quite good for opening you up initially. You could try on your side knees drawn up. Pretty much any position with your knees to your chest should expose and open you.

Go slow. If it hurts push it back out yourself, then slowly take it again.

Have fun

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By *osconangelCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

Doggy is easiest for tou both, i wouldnt use a numbing gel it stops the pain that says too much too soon and can be painfull afterwards. Just relax and use lots if lube, get her to give you a reach round at same time bet you dont last 2 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I like doggy or to sit on what's, er, offered

They keep still and I push myself onto it. Once I'm comfortable then they can take over, grab my heels, spank me. Lol. Whatever

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Haha thanks both. We said we'd go shopping for new toys etc together next week so I'll be sure to put my input in on size

How about positions etc? What's the best 'starter' position? I've also heard of these numbing gels that you can use - do they work? Any good ones?"

Numbing gels would defeat the object surely?

For me there's D/s anal play and "erotic". I'm assuming you're talking the latter so plenty of touching and kissing, plenty of lube and slow and gentle.

I'd advise fingers to start to get you used to the feel, you on your back while she gives you a blow job.

Relax, enjoy and have fun.

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By *osconangelCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

Must admit being on top and riding the strap on is good , get the right angle every time, be careful tho missed her face one time and shot my own pillow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must admit being on top and riding the strap on is good , get the right angle every time, be careful tho missed her face one time and shot my own pillow"

Pmsl

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

"Must admit being on top and riding the strap on is good , get the right angle every time, be careful tho missed her face one time and shot my own pillow"

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