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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so I m meeting a female fabber at her place for an early morning meet .I was wondering should I bring a present and if so what..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, just bring condoms lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it was me...a bacon roll and a cappucino!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody buys me anything, just hinting like in case any of my friends reads this.

Idk, up to you if you get her something or not, if that's what you like doing. She'll probably expect one every time if you do though.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

condoms

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Good personal hygiene and your own stash of condoms are sufficient in my book.

Yes a hostess gift is nice but it's not necessary.

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

A small bottle of perfume is always handy... If she smells like an old kipper then you have it to hand.. If not she's pleased at the thought !!

Win Win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just turning up would be present enough........is it a first time meet? Someone you've met before? Many times?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never expect a gift. If you meet again she may expect one every time

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never expected a gift but its lovely when you receive one

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've never expected a gift but its lovely when you receive one"

Depends what it is. A moldy cabbage isn't very nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it uncomfortable when a guy gives me a gift to be honest.....unless it's someone I'm friends with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Golly gosh guys so much good advice I may just cancel the meet save the money have that breakfast roll and coffee get some niceafter shave for myself make balloon animals out of all my condoms and go home and boil that mouldy cabbadge for dinner.....lol

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Golly gosh guys so much good advice I may just cancel the meet save the money have that breakfast roll and coffee get some niceafter shave for myself make balloon animals out of all my condoms and go home and boil that mouldy cabbadge for dinner.....lol"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it uncomfortable when a guy gives me a gift to be honest.....unless it's someone I'm friends with"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Golly gosh guys so much good advice I may just cancel the meet save the money have that breakfast roll and coffee get some niceafter shave for myself make balloon animals out of all my condoms and go home and boil that mouldy cabbadge for dinner.....lol"

I've taken cakes and roses chocs before as they were accommodating me, I thought it was something I should do. They were my gift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice bunch of flowers? Anything over the top and she'd be uncomfortable I think hun. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never expect or give gifts. One man did bring me a box of chocolates, which was lovely, but it was due to a conversation we'd had during our social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys thanks for all the advice I am meeting Monday ..so I will update you all ...thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys thanks for all the advice I am meeting Monday ..so I will update you all ...thanks again"

Good luck and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I m meeting a female fabber at her place for an early morning meet .I was wondering should I bring a present and if so what.."

Well, you're only meeting her because you're going to fuck her from a sex site so one way of looking at it is if a gift is given to the woman then is it not a form of payment for sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a fwb I've been meeting at least once a week for the last 18 months and we're always buying each other daft little gifts.

Just something Small and silly is always appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I m meeting a female fabber at her place for an early morning meet .I was wondering should I bring a present and if so what..

Well, you're only meeting her because you're going to fuck her from a sex site so one way of looking at it is if a gift is given to the woman then is it not a form of payment for sex ?"

Has he mentioned that he is going to fuck her????..... No.....just because it is a sex site ,you should not presume that he will, not every meet means a fuck will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She might also be reading so,, he has to buy something now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She might also be reading so,, he has to buy something now "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She might also be reading so,, he has to buy something now "

Haha never thought of that

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs


"A small bottle of perfume is always handy... If she smells like an old kipper then you have it to hand.. If not she's pleased at the thought !!

Win Win "

This really made me laugh.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took a pint of milk , so I could have a brew at half time

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

In my book flowers never fail to impress if you are going to someone's home. It only seems polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never accept gofts

if they are coming here whatever they are drinkig is fine

but if i go to theirs i usually bring wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never accept gofts

if they are coming here whatever they are drinkig is fine

but if i go to theirs i usually bring wine"

Looks like you have had some wine already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got brought milk once...he wanted a brew half time and I don't drink it..oh and wine too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have planned over nighters which has included us both having a drinky. Then my meets often bring wine. Or vodka. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been surprised with champagne and roses ...

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