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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya all... I've been on here a few months but only had one meet with a sexy lady who has unfortunately nowl left the site. Keep getting looked at, some chat but no one follows-up with a meet. ?. What is wrong with my profile?? I give face pics if requested and I only reply to profiles in line with my wants so is no one really interested in older guys ...... comments/advice please x Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Gimp

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

Nothing wrong with older guys we should know.

However from an older guy I would expect a profile that has capital letters and full stops in the right places.

Also your pics aren't very clear - that coupled with no verifications gives the impression of a fake profile.

Hope this helps

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Not too old, but your profile is bland. Says nothing at all about what you offer or are looking for.

Your pictures are more coupley than a single fella. And lose the cock shot its not flattering.

Also, major creepy - like dogs and dogging - erm, wtf? Really made me cringe, and I'm hoping its an oversight and not a preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only reply to profiles in line with my wants "

Are you also checking that you're what they want?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Personally I dislike photos of women on single men's profiles. I don't want to see you in action with another woman it seems slightly disrespectful.

Your photo with the lacy knickers, is that you or a lady?

It isn't your age, there are many guys on here in their sixties who are very successful.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for your age group but if I was, there isn't much information and the pictures would put me off. As others have said, I dont like to see couple type pics, also you can't accommodate so maybe say why you can't. Good luck

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Hiya all... I've been on here a few months but only had one meet with a sexy lady who has unfortunately nowl left the site. Keep getting looked at, some chat but no one follows-up with a meet. ?. What is wrong with my profile?? I give face pics if requested and I only reply to profiles in line with my wants so is no one really interested in older guys ...... comments/advice please x Tony "
. Don't think age is an issue . Your pictures could be improved and you could elaborate on your interests in motor bikes and photography. Good luck.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hiya all... I've been on here a few months but only had one meet with a sexy lady who has unfortunately nowl left the site. Keep getting looked at, some chat but no one follows-up with a meet. ?. What is wrong with my profile?? I give face pics if requested and I only reply to profiles in line with my wants so is no one really interested in older guys ...... comments/advice please x Tony "

You're the age group I prefer but I'd be put off by how your profile text is written. You may think it doesn't matter but I met my partner on here, an unverified male in his 50s. It was his messages that cracked me up and his profile.

He made an effort...oh, and English is his sixth language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if it's an age issue, it may well be but you are competing with hundreds of other single men for attention.

Personally I'm not keen on women in single men photos either ~ keep them for friends only not your avatar, I want to see you!

You need to sell yourself to me.....a well written concise profile & a few tasteful photos will go a long way in helping to ensure your profile sticks out amongst all the others.

Good luck x

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By *ubybabyCouple
over a year ago

lincoln ish

Your as old as you feel. Some days i feel 20 some days i feel 80 lol but i never let it get me down so chin up and carry on xx i do agree that photos of ladys on profiles of single guys are a waste and do nothing at all to promote you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally seeing women in single guys pics is not something that would interest me along side the 'cannot accommodate' ..... Just my thoughts that's all

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

Oh No not another look at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh No not another look at me"
meowwww lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya all... I've been on here a few months but only had one meet with a sexy lady who has unfortunately nowl left the site. Keep getting looked at, some chat but no one follows-up with a meet. ?. What is wrong with my profile?? I give face pics if requested and I only reply to profiles in line with my wants so is no one really interested in older guys ...... comments/advice please x Tony "
1 month uv done better than a lot on hear !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought , how many people have issues on single ladies profiles that have men in them? Just wondering ... MrsD

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Personally seeing women in single guys pics is not something that would interest me along side the 'cannot accommodate' ..... Just my thoughts that's all "

Does that not work the other way as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a thought , how many people have issues on single ladies profiles that have men in them? Just wondering ... MrsD "

not many I would imagine

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

The "I love dogs and dogging", just sounds so wrong put together. To me it comes across that you are into illegal activities.

I don't mind ladies in men's pics, as long as they are not too graphic or bareback pictures.

Good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just a thought , how many people have issues on single ladies profiles that have men in them? Just wondering ... MrsD "

If we were looking for single women I probably would I don't like seeing my prospective meets in action as it were, I don't enjoy it on couples profiles either. A feels differently.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Hiya all... I've been on here a few months but only had one meet with a sexy lady who has unfortunately nowl left the site. Keep getting looked at, some chat but no one follows-up with a meet. ?. What is wrong with my profile?? I give face pics if requested and I only reply to profiles in line with my wants so is no one really interested in older guys ...... comments/advice please x Tony "

As a man on here - *you* have to do all the work i.e contacting people in the first place - don't expect them to come to you.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Just a thought , how many people have issues on single ladies profiles that have men in them? Just wondering ... MrsD "

We live in a world of double standards...

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

Sorry to be blunt but shit photos and shit profile mines not brilliant but yours is rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with older guys we should know.

However from an older guy I would expect a profile that has capital letters and full stops in the right places.

Also your pics aren't very clear - that coupled with no verifications gives the impression of a fake profile.

Hope this helps"

And unable to accommodate at 59........most people will see this as attached and playing away!

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


" and I only reply to profiles in line with my wants so is no one really interested in older guys ...... comments/advice please x Tony "

In line with YOUR wants????

how about replying in line with THEIR wants??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya all... I've been on here a few months but only had one meet with a sexy lady who has unfortunately nowl left the site. Keep getting looked at, some chat but no one follows-up with a meet. ?. What is wrong with my profile?? I give face pics if requested and I only reply to profiles in line with my wants so is no one really interested in older guys ...... comments/advice please x Tony "

Probably for a lot but not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I removed all references on my profile to my age on advice of a friend. The best way to meet is to attend clubs and actually meet IN PERSON. If you connect socially then that is a good start.

This site has many ladies in the 45 and over age range who are only interested in younger guys, or are economical with the truth. That is life. Accept it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya all... I've been on here a few months but only had one meet with a sexy lady who has unfortunately nowl left the site. Keep getting looked at, some chat but no one follows-up with a meet. ?. What is wrong with my profile?? I give face pics if requested and I only reply to profiles in line with my wants so is no one really interested in older guys ...... comments/advice please x Tony "

You won't meet anybody on this site by going UNLOS

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By *usterMan
over a year ago

worthing

You say "I've been on here a few months" but your profile says you joined over a year ago. Maybe try to be consistent. Others have pointed to your artistic ability and I'm not in a position to comment.

If people make contact and then drop out the conversation, maybe it's your general communication that could do with a bit of honing. Try to listen to what they say and how they phrase it - its more difficult than face to face where you can pick up body language. Having said that, they do it to me 'coz I'm too literary when they want to hear good old fashioned smut, lol.

Just enjoy what contact you do get and don't moan about what you don't.

Grandad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be that you cant accommodate, many women will think your married, most of all you need patience lol.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Hiya all... I've been on here a few months but only had one meet with a sexy lady who has unfortunately nowl left the site. Keep getting looked at, some chat but no one follows-up with a meet. ?. What is wrong with my profile?? I give face pics if requested and I only reply to profiles in line with my wants so is no one really interested in older guys ...... comments/advice please x Tony "

Age is not a major barrier as I'm your age and do fine on the site.

Your photos aren't very clear and your profile text is rather bland and not very engaging.

Make it clear when you message that you have read the profile by specifically mentioning something in it

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