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By *razedcat OP   Man
over a year ago

London / Herts

As a young, single guy, and with a decent amount of time spent on these forums, I have to conclude that this is one of the greatest obstacles to getting meets (that and communicating like a neanderthal).

I completely understand the hesitancy of people, especially single women, to let in an unknown person into their home. But being young, and subject to the financial pressures of the modern day, means I just can't host, and probably won't be able to for quite a few years. It's quite depressing, even setting aside meet issues.

Has anyone else felt these sort of blues? When you just feel like you lack independence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont accom as i value my safety and privacy but i go to clubs or go 50/50 with a hotel

so maybe looking at clubs or booking hotels in advance could help

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By *razedcat OP   Man
over a year ago

London / Herts


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so maybe looking at clubs or booking hotels in advance could help"

Yeah, I've been tempted by the club scene, there's quite a few near me. Hotels aren't a great option, being a student I can't pay out much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Has anyone else felt these sort of blues? When you just feel like you lack independence?"

Yeah. I was in a room in a shared house for past of last year as a student.

I was unhappy with it so I increased the amount of freelance work I took on and moved into my own flat instead.

The power is in your hands etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel for ya.

Its a scary thought when your oldest is also a student. Maybe I should ask how they get by on situations like this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

so maybe looking at clubs or booking hotels in advance could help

Yeah, I've been tempted by the club scene, there's quite a few near me. Hotels aren't a great option, being a student I can't pay out much "

ok how would you meet someone then?

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