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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't." maybe but Iv a bad habit off engaging mouth before brain or opposite over thinking lol . | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't.maybe but Iv a bad habit off engaging mouth before brain or opposite over thinking lol . " I see, maybe set yourself a target and always send the third draft of any message  | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't." you can't tell what a person's personality is from a text message sorryyou just can't ,how often have you read a message then read it a second time and thought oh he could mean that  | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't. you can't tell what a person's personality is from a text message sorryyou just can't ,how often have you read a message then read it a second time and thought oh he could mean that "that was my point but I couldn't get it in to words lol | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't. you can't tell what a person's personality is from a text message sorryyou just can't ,how often have you read a message then read it a second time and thought oh he could mean that "Yea, sorry I meant messages plural, after three or four messages you can get an idea of someone's personality. | |||
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"It is not so easy messaging people for the first time when they have very little on their profile....those ones tend to be a bit generic. Usually something crazy that makes people laugh works well...then if they look at your profile they get some idea of your personality.... "Armadillos | |||
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"Intonation doesn't come over in text. I write quite soberly at times,whereas in person I'm an idiot. I don't act my age and can be a bit childish. I'm more fun than I sound "you look fun | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't. you can't tell what a person's personality is from a text message sorryyou just can't ,how often have you read a message then read it a second time and thought oh he could mean that
Yea, sorry I meant messages plural, after three or four messages you can get an idea of someone's personality."yes but even after four messages,look some people are good with the written word and come over really well but in person they are educated geeks with no personality ,others are also really good at messaging and have great personalities my frustration would be I like to put content in a message but would say 50-60% of messages I send don't get read or replied to ,so tend to send smaller messages ,I think even you would admit when the messages are coming at you 300 at a time you bulk delete or delete without reading | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't. you can't tell what a person's personality is from a text message sorryyou just can't ,how often have you read a message then read it a second time and thought oh he could mean that
Yea, sorry I meant messages plural, after three or four messages you can get an idea of someone's personality. yes but even after four messages,look some people are good with the written word and come over really well but in person they are educated geeks with no personality ,others are also really good at messaging and have great personalities my frustration would be I like to put content in a message but would say 50-60% of messages I send don't get read or replied to ,so tend to send smaller messages ,I think even you would admit when the messages are coming at you 300 at a time you bulk delete or delete without reading "this is very true . Also the way u say somthing when u talk comes across different then when u type it down . If that makes sence ? | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't. you can't tell what a person's personality is from a text message sorryyou just can't ,how often have you read a message then read it a second time and thought oh he could mean that
Yea, sorry I meant messages plural, after three or four messages you can get an idea of someone's personality. yes but even after four messages,look some people are good with the written word and come over really well but in person they are educated geeks with no personality ,others are also really good at messaging and have great personalities my frustration would be I like to put content in a message but would say 50-60% of messages I send don't get read or replied to ,so tend to send smaller messages ,I think even you would admit when the messages are coming at you 300 at a time you bulk delete or delete without reading "We don't get 300 at a time
It's only my opinion but for me (us) there are tells in the written word that the author isn't even aware of no matter how brief or copied and pasted a message is. I could be wrong but we have so little to go on that we have to use what there is.
For instance "fancy a fuck?" is three words but speaks volumes. | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't. you can't tell what a person's personality is from a text message sorryyou just can't ,how often have you read a message then read it a second time and thought oh he could mean that
Yea, sorry I meant messages plural, after three or four messages you can get an idea of someone's personality. yes but even after four messages,look some people are good with the written word and come over really well but in person they are educated geeks with no personality ,others are also really good at messaging and have great personalities my frustration would be I like to put content in a message but would say 50-60% of messages I send don't get read or replied to ,so tend to send smaller messages ,I think even you would admit when the messages are coming at you 300 at a time you bulk delete or delete without reading this is very true . Also the way u say somthing when u talk comes across different then when u type it down . If that makes sence ? "Yes it does make sense. You can't see someone's face or hear their tone of voice in a message. | |||
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"I come across as sweet n innocent just like I am in real life so im lucky with my posts n messages on here "Yes Mikki  | |||
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"You only need one word to sum up many on here and that word is : MoodHoover "oh? | |||
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"I come across as sweet n innocent just like I am in real life so im lucky with my posts n messages on here
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"You only need one word to sum up many on here and that word is : MoodHoover
oh?"Yes. | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't. you can't tell what a person's personality is from a text message sorryyou just can't ,how often have you read a message then read it a second time and thought oh he could mean that
Yea, sorry I meant messages plural, after three or four messages you can get an idea of someone's personality. yes but even after four messages,look some people are good with the written word and come over really well but in person they are educated geeks with no personality ,others are also really good at messaging and have great personalities my frustration would be I like to put content in a message but would say 50-60% of messages I send don't get read or replied to ,so tend to send smaller messages ,I think even you would admit when the messages are coming at you 300 at a time you bulk delete or delete without reading
We don't get 300 at a time
It's only my opinion but for me (us) there are tells in the written word that the author isn't even aware of no matter how brief or copied and pasted a message is. I could be wrong but we have so little to go on that we have to use what there is.
For instance "fancy a fuck?" is three words but speaks volumes. "so theirs the answer in a nutshell you Havnt much to go on ,understand about the full on can I get a fuck text but really you don't have a clue wether that guy you just blocked is a lovely guy with a personality or not ,you really don't find that out until you speak on phone or meet | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't. you can't tell what a person's personality is from a text message sorryyou just can't ,how often have you read a message then read it a second time and thought oh he could mean that
Yea, sorry I meant messages plural, after three or four messages you can get an idea of someone's personality. yes but even after four messages,look some people are good with the written word and come over really well but in person they are educated geeks with no personality ,others are also really good at messaging and have great personalities my frustration would be I like to put content in a message but would say 50-60% of messages I send don't get read or replied to ,so tend to send smaller messages ,I think even you would admit when the messages are coming at you 300 at a time you bulk delete or delete without reading
We don't get 300 at a time
It's only my opinion but for me (us) there are tells in the written word that the author isn't even aware of no matter how brief or copied and pasted a message is. I could be wrong but we have so little to go on that we have to use what there is.
For instance "fancy a fuck?" is three words but speaks volumes. so theirs the answer in a nutshell you Havnt much to go on ,understand about the full on can I get a fuck text but really you don't have a clue wether that guy you just blocked is a lovely guy with a personality or not ,you really don't find that out until you speak on phone or meet "You're right of course but there does have to be some method of choosing who to meet and that's one of ours | |||
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"You only need one word to sum up many on here and that word is : MoodHoover
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Yes."care to elaborate? | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't. you can't tell what a person's personality is from a text message sorryyou just can't ,how often have you read a message then read it a second time and thought oh he could mean that
Yea, sorry I meant messages plural, after three or four messages you can get an idea of someone's personality. yes but even after four messages,look some people are good with the written word and come over really well but in person they are educated geeks with no personality ,others are also really good at messaging and have great personalities my frustration would be I like to put content in a message but would say 50-60% of messages I send don't get read or replied to ,so tend to send smaller messages ,I think even you would admit when the messages are coming at you 300 at a time you bulk delete or delete without reading
We don't get 300 at a time
It's only my opinion but for me (us) there are tells in the written word that the author isn't even aware of no matter how brief or copied and pasted a message is. I could be wrong but we have so little to go on that we have to use what there is.
For instance "fancy a fuck?" is three words but speaks volumes. so theirs the answer in a nutshell you Havnt much to go on ,understand about the full on can I get a fuck text but really you don't have a clue wether that guy you just blocked is a lovely guy with a personality or not ,you really don't find that out until you speak on phone or meet
You're right of course but there does have to be some method of choosing who to meet and that's one of ours "I know and appreciate how difficult it is but at last we have the answer which I always in the nicest possible way knew was the cut and thrust ,you block on the basis of a word out of place or one compliment to many etc hey I knew that am a realist but am missing out on good experiences with sexy people because of it | |||
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"it's very difficult isn't it. I think personality does come over in messages even if you feel it isn't. you can't tell what a person's personality is from a text message sorryyou just can't ,how often have you read a message then read it a second time and thought oh he could mean that
Yea, sorry I meant messages plural, after three or four messages you can get an idea of someone's personality. yes but even after four messages,look some people are good with the written word and come over really well but in person they are educated geeks with no personality ,others are also really good at messaging and have great personalities my frustration would be I like to put content in a message but would say 50-60% of messages I send don't get read or replied to ,so tend to send smaller messages ,I think even you would admit when the messages are coming at you 300 at a time you bulk delete or delete without reading
We don't get 300 at a time
It's only my opinion but for me (us) there are tells in the written word that the author isn't even aware of no matter how brief or copied and pasted a message is. I could be wrong but we have so little to go on that we have to use what there is.
For instance "fancy a fuck?" is three words but speaks volumes. so theirs the answer in a nutshell you Havnt much to go on ,understand about the full on can I get a fuck text but really you don't have a clue wether that guy you just blocked is a lovely guy with a personality or not ,you really don't find that out until you speak on phone or meet
You're right of course but there does have to be some method of choosing who to meet and that's one of ours I know and appreciate how difficult it is but at last we have the answer which I always in the nicest possible way knew was the cut and thrust ,you block on the basis of a word out of place or one compliment to many etc hey I knew that am a realist but am missing out on good experiences with sexy people because of it "No we don't! You're assuming an awful lot from what I've written...and you're the one who said you can't.  | |||
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"You only need one word to sum up many on here and that word is : MoodHoover
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care to elaborate?"MoodHoover, pretty self explainitary. | |||
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"When did I say that ? "you wrote "you block on the basis of a word out of place or one compliment to many etc " but we don't...my point is that despite you saying we couldn't assume a person's personality from messages you've managed to make massive assumptions about us from the written word. | |||
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"you block on the basis of a word out of place or one compliment to many etc "
but we don't...my point is that despite you saying we couldn't assume a person's personality from messages you've managed to make massive Iassumptions about us from the written word."no my answer was loosely worded around what you originally said and that was after you corrected it that after 3/4 messages you could tell personality my argument has always been that you can't ,you delete or block someone on the basis of a badly worded text I am not criticising you personally everyone woman / couple on here does it at some point | |||
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"When did I say that ?
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"you block on the basis of a word out of place or one compliment to many etc "
but we don't...my point is that despite you saying we couldn't assume a person's personality from messages you've managed to make massive Iassumptions about us from the written word. no my answer was loosely worded around what you originally said and that was after you corrected it that after 3/4 messages you could tell personality my argument has always been that you can't ,you delete or block someone on the basis of a badly worded text I am not criticising you personally everyone woman / couple on here does it at some point "I see. | |||
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"Intonation doesn't come over in text. I write quite soberly at times,whereas in person I'm an idiot. I don't act my age and can be a bit childish. I'm more fun than I sound "I think you're really funny. In a good way. | |||
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"Intonation doesn't come over in text. I write quite soberly at times,whereas in person I'm an idiot. I don't act my age and can be a bit childish. I'm more fun than I sound
I think you're really funny. In a good way. "I'm glad you added the last sentence | |||
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"I think you can learn a lot about people through what they write and how they word a given subject. Through the forums over time I have been lucky enough to meet and chat with many great people and I have formed my opinion of them by reading what they have written on there profile and within the forums and then decided to make contact. The first message to a new person is always going to be tricky as its almost like a cold call. Try to relate to them via what they have written in there profile or via the forums and start a conversation that way. GL" 
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I wouldn't say my writing voice is inauthentic... but it isn't me. Perhaps it's the little devil on my left shoulder lol Or perhaps it really is me and the rest of me is just catching up with it aggghhh  I feel a bout of fight club coming on | |||
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