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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi my profile says i wont meet smokers however i dont remember ticking this box. is this an automatic thing because i am not a smoker

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure, but its simple to change by just going to Edit Account and ticking that you will meet smokers.

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By *entboy5Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Don't know why so many people get hung up about the smoking thing what do people expect Jimmy Saville or Hanibal Smith from the A Team turning up, with abig one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

suppose its the smell people dont like

I smoke myself so to be honest dont really notice it on other, however i have met a few guys and its like snogging a week old ash try, so god knows what its like for those who dont smoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally respect non-smokers rights, and totally understand why they would not want to meet smokers, we smell diferent no matter how many mints, how much aftershave/perfume, it antagonises asthma.

But what I do hate is non-smokers who have indicated on thier profiles "wont meet smokers" mailing us, winking us or sending us friends invites.

We simply will not meet anyone who has "wont meet smokers" on thier profile no matter how many mails they send saying

We can make an exception

If you don't smoke in your house it will be ok

We don't mind smokers really

Yet every day I have to send at least a dozen mails to people who have contacted us despite the fact that we are smokers and thier profile says they don't want to meet smokers.

How would they feel if in thier profile they have not indicated that the guy is bisexual and I started sucking his cock or the they have not indicated they like anal but I tried it anyway and said "well I didn't think your profile wishes were 100% your rules ?

Sorry had to get at least one moan off my chest and they are just wasting our time contacting us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you Jed

If someone mails me saying they wont meet smokers on their profile i message back saying sorry but i smoke etc

And like you have said i always get back the reply, oh i will make an exception for you etc

but i still mail back saying no

mainly because even tho you point out you smoke, amd they say thats ok, if you light up infront of them they start with the hand wafting etc which is fair enough if they dont like it, but way say its ok when you mail them if its not!!

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

we have the same problem, people asking for meets etc, but do not like smojkers.

When you point this out, they always say well in this case it be ok.

Just sounds like they got to have a meet?. We always say no thanks.

Mainly when we use to say ok, nearly all the time they cancelled last minute. Yet ones that do not mind smokers are less likely to cacnel.

off for a cig

Ian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"suppose its the smell people dont like

I smoke myself so to be honest dont really notice it on other, however i have met a few guys and its like snogging a week old ash try, so god knows what its like for those who dont smoke"

Your quite right it is the smell that I dont like. And for me the taste makes me feel pretty sick. Thats the reason I dont meet smokers even considerate ones as the smells still linger.

But I am never rude about each to their own and its about personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very 'live and let live about this'. Let people live their life how they want so long as it doesn't impact on others.

I'm giving fags soon for health reasons. But I'm determined not to become one of those fascist ex-smokers. Deffo not going to preach at anyone else.

And yes I will happily continue to meet smokers. One benefit is that you'll be sorted if you fancy a drag during post-coital bliss. :o)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet smokers, and we decide after the first meet whether we are going to play or not, just as they will decide if we are for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both non smokers, so its evryones personal choice who they meet...

we do prefer to meet at a club/party environment that way it takes some pressure off if we dont want to play...

dont get us wrong we have met smokers and cant tell they smoke so we dont label evryone the same...

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