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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

This is real a call for advice . So do most know if some one they know discovered their fab profile. So on Sat my ex or her new swinging partner discovered my profile and asked for the pics of her to be taken down. We do not get along with each other because we fell out last Oct.

The original reason as to why i started a profile was to forget her and to try and enjoy being single if that was possible.

Oyhrer than blocking her which has already been done what else can be done to avoid her in case she discovers any of my other profiles on my otger sites.

Other than blocking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than blocking, more or less fuck all

This is the internet remember

Not good if you are showing her on your profiles tho

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By *W69Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

If she was your ex and you had her pics on your profile could understand her asking for them to be removed understandably.

If you wanted to make a fresh start as per your post why have her pics on your profile in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have photos of your ex on your profile ? You do know there is a law going through that will make that illegal ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea how other sites work but would assume they also have a means of blocking unwanted attention. What more do you feel you need to do to ensure that she cannot contact you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have pics on your profile but want to forget and get over her then get rid of pics surely did you have her permission to post them we don't it !!

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Well the photos i took down had be init as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she was your ex and you had her pics on your profile could understand her asking for them to be removed understandably.

If you wanted to make a fresh start as per your post why have her pics on your profile in the first place?

"

Exactly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think u will find babe thats its aginst law now to show someone without there permission especialy if an x

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By *W69Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"Well the photos i took down had be init as well. "

You probably don't want to hear it but it doesn't make it acceptable.

If she's found out you've posted images of her on the net it makes sense why she wants to find you/them and have them removed.

Advice - be honest with her, remove the pics from the other sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serves you right if you have pics of her on there without her permission

Bit foolish really

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

I think you got away lightly - with her just requesting you take them offline. I think I would have been well pissed putting pics in the public domain

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Well the photos i took down had be init as well. "

There's a considerable proportion of women who prefer to se pics of the bloke on a single guys profile, not the woman he was banging.

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By *herry n JonesyCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire / Leicester

You are supposed to have the permission of the other person in the pictures to use them on here anyway.

I would be furious if I were here. I know the responses on the thread are what you were expecting but seriously....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought when you posted pictures on here you had to state that other parties consented?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I'm real not sure what you qre actually asking for advice about?

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Take the photos of the internet, any sites you may have put them on, its wrong to post photos anywhere without permission, silly boy.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

You seem to be in the wrong, what do you want advice about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most have said already... You were in the wrong to have pics of her on your profile even if these did not show her face. If all she has done is ask you to remove them then you could consider yourself lucky.

On the other issue though, I have had similar where my ex and I were both on here. You've done the right thing by blocking her but there is always the possibility that she creates another profile you don't know about. But if you're both on here and leave each other alone should it matter??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive breech of her confidence so you should regret using the pictures, as for your other issue, your both adults I'm sure you will be able to avoid each other unless you feel she might stalk you or you may feel inclined to check her out, there shouldn't be an issue.

I'm sure there are plenty of other fab members in the same situation and they cope ok.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

But the pics i used are also on her facebook and my Facebook page they may have been on her fab profile for all i know. all i did was black out the eyes and face.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"You seem to be in the wrong, what do you want advice about?"

Ways avoiding Hassel which seems to always appear things with her come about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, you had no business showing them on your own profile - here or anywhere else without her permission!

Why can't you understand how wrong that was???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the pics i used are also on her facebook and my Facebook page they may have been on her fab profile for all i know. all i did was black out the eyes and face."

Ok so being honest did you ask her permission before you posted them on fab or did you assume that as they are on your Facebook you could use them.

Fab rules state that you need everyone in the pictures permission to post them here.

This is very sticky ground as laws are changing so posting pictures of exes on website could get people into a lot of bother with the law.

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

"The original reason as to why i started a profile was to forget her and to try and enjoy being single if that was possible"

Sorry, If you want to forget her you close the avenues. Why show images on fab, fb etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You seem to be in the wrong, what do you want advice about?

Ways avoiding Hassel which seems to always appear things with her come about."

Unfortunately you will get just as much hassle for posting her pictures, the general theme of the responses is you have done wrong, you have dealt with the pictures now so all you need to understand is that you have done wrong.

As far as problems with your ex go, your both on here so what's the issue? She can't use it against you like you can't use it against her, you have both blocked each other so what other problems do you think may occur?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"If she was your ex and you had her pics on your profile could understand her asking for them to be removed understandably.

If you wanted to make a fresh start as per your post why have her pics on your profile in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is real a call for advice . So do most know if some one they know discovered their fab profile. So on Sat my ex or her new swinging partner discovered my profile and asked for the pics of her to be taken down. We do not get along with each other because we fell out last Oct.

The original reason as to why i started a profile was to forget her and to try and enjoy being single if that was possible.

Oyhrer than blocking her which has already been done what else can be done to avoid her in case she discovers any of my other profiles on my otger sites.

Other than blocking?"
if you have pics identifying her then that's not right but other than that she's not your partner anymore and has no say in what you do wether wrong or right ,that's also the beauty of forums because we ALL have a right to voice our thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So on Sat my ex or her new swinging partner discovered my profile and asked for the pics of her to be taken down."

That's perfectly acceptable of her asking you to remove them.


"The original reason as to why i started a profile was to forget her and to try and enjoy being single if that was possible."

This one make absolutely so sense

You want to forget about her yet have pictures of you and her on your profile....

that's quite an astounding statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have photos of your ex on your profile ? You do know there is a law going through that will make that illegal ?"

That isn't quite right. A law maybe passed relating to malicious publication but this is different, albeit I don't want to suggest it is not serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slight twist on this I always remove pics of ex off fab part because to remove from this part of my life plus respect for her.

However i got asked by fab to remove the pics even though none of hervon site also never had face pics anyway.

I was threatened with a ban if not how the hell can you prove there are no pics of the person without giving access to the ex to see pics which would not happen she is ex for a reason lol.

Its open to abuse and think admin should ask for more detail of the pics before the warnings are given say fir example oic number two with detail of pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have photos of your ex on your profile ? You do know there is a law going through that will make that illegal ?

That isn't quite right. A law maybe passed relating to malicious publication but this is different, albeit I don't want to suggest it is not serious"

I would think as she asked for the pictures to be removed and permission was not asked before posting them then that would be malicious. Using a picture of an ex on a swingers site after a bad break up could be classed as revenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remove her pics! Why would you want them on your pofile! I removed all pics of my ex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have photos of your ex on your profile ? You do know there is a law going through that will make that illegal ?

That isn't quite right. A law maybe passed relating to malicious publication but this is different, albeit I don't want to suggest it is not serious"

The proposed law covers the publication of pictures depicting the victim engaged in sexual activity without their consent. Whether this is done on a vindictive basis or for entertainment purposes won't matter at all. The criteria will be is there a lack of consent to publish and does the publication cause the victim distress.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

For starters yes i realise mow it can be perceived as wrong as it was explained by a close freind of both of us. And yes i have just read p-16 of UK copy write laws and the EU laws and the freedom of online anominity.

No i did not perceive she would mind.

No it was not a bad relationship ok i had a problem woth one of her abusive exes aending me death threays but we were best mates for 6 months after we broke up even staying over each others flats. It all came to a head in October.

What i want to know moat is wheather any one else had the same?

Also the the person above who is unclear about my reasons for being on here i just want to exsperence the same freedom she and our mates bang on about. Because i do not feel free being single quite the opposit.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in with a claim form and a bemused

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Why have photos of your ex on your profile ? You do know there is a law going through that will make that illegal ?

That isn't quite right. A law maybe passed relating to malicious publication but this is different, albeit I don't want to suggest it is not serious

The proposed law covers the publication of pictures depicting the victim engaged in sexual activity without their consent. Whether this is done on a vindictive basis or for entertainment purposes won't matter at all. The criteria will be is there a lack of consent to publish and does the publication cause the victim distress."

There was no sexule activity in the photos atal.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

P.s. i wanted to improve my chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P.s. i wanted to improve my chances."

As your a single male most women would like to see you and not past play meets or girlfriends

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"P.s. i wanted to improve my chances.

As your a single male most women would like to see you and not past play meets or girlfriends "

Agreed. The 'here's one I fucked earlier' pic isn't great for single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think i would be angry as fuck if someone used my photos without permission.

she has every right to ask them not to be used and i think its against the law to use photos of her if you do not own the copyright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P.s. i wanted to improve my chances.

As your a single male most women would like to see you and not past play meets or girlfriends "

Agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"P.s. i wanted to improve my chances.

As your a single male most women would like to see you and not past play meets or girlfriends

Agreed. The 'here's one I fucked earlier' pic isn't great for single guys. "

this made me laugh I have visions of Valerie Singleton in my head now

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"P.s. i wanted to improve my chances.

As your a single male most women would like to see you and not past play meets or girlfriends

Agreed. The 'here's one I fucked earlier' pic isn't great for single guys.

this made me laugh I have visions of Valerie Singleton in my head now "

Who is vallarie singlton.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"P.s. i wanted to improve my chances.

As your a single male most women would like to see you and not past play meets or girlfriends

Agreed. The 'here's one I fucked earlier' pic isn't great for single guys.

this made me laugh I have visions of Valerie Singleton in my head now "

Blue peter will never be the same again lol

oh and did they use stickyback plastic and a fairy bottle

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"P.s. i wanted to improve my chances.

As your a single male most women would like to see you and not past play meets or girlfriends

Agreed. The 'here's one I fucked earlier' pic isn't great for single guys.

this made me laugh I have visions of Valerie Singleton in my head now

Who is vallarie singlton."

she presented Blue Peter in the sixties

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"P.s. i wanted to improve my chances.

As your a single male most women would like to see you and not past play meets or girlfriends

Agreed. The 'here's one I fucked earlier' pic isn't great for single guys.

this made me laugh I have visions of Valerie Singleton in my head now

Blue peter will never be the same again lol

oh and did they use stickyback plastic and a fairy bottle "

If they did I want to know what they did with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as an ex who's found out an ex has posted sexual content online of mine without my permission it's crushing. Even if you'd previously swung with her before you've still breached her trust to use those photos again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking as an ex who's found out an ex has posted sexual content online of mine without my permission it's crushing. Even if you'd previously swung with her before you've still breached her trust to use those photos again! "

this is it breach of trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly off topic, but on the subject of revenge porn This is snippet from an online publication. I'm pretty sure as per the article they need to be with the intention of causing distress

PLEDGE TO TACKLE REVENGE PORN Those convicted of revenge porn – the distribution of a private sexual image of someone without their consent and with the intention of causing them distress – could face two years in prison under new laws.It will be made a specific offence, covering the sharing of images both online and offline, in the Criminal Justice and Courts Bill, which is currently going through Parliament. It will mean that images posted to social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter will be caught by the offence, as well as those that are shared via text message. Images shared via email, on a website or the distribution of physical copies will also be caught.Victims of revenge porn have previously found it difficult to have pictures removed from the internet.Many sites where the images are hosted are based outside the UK, and requests to remove content are often ignored. In some cases, asking for removal results in more attention being brought to the images.The move to clamp down on 'revenge porn' came after 149 cases, the vast majority of them involving women victims, were reported over two and a half years. Only six led to prosecutions.However, the new rules do not affect the consensual 'sexting' of images by under-18s. This is already illegal – but police cannot monitor mobile photo messages.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Slightly off topic, but on the subject of revenge porn This is snippet from an online publication. I'm pretty sure as per the article they need to be with the intention of causing distress

PLEDGE TO TACKLE REVENGE PORN Those convicted of revenge porn – the distribution of a private sexual image of someone without their consent and with the intention of causing them distress – could face two years in prison under new laws.It will be made a specific offence, covering the sharing of images both online and offline, in the Criminal Justice and Courts Bill, which is currently going through Parliament. It will mean that images posted to social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter will be caught by the offence, as well as those that are shared via text message. Images shared via email, on a website or the distribution of physical copies will also be caught.Victims of revenge porn have previously found it difficult to have pictures removed from the internet.Many sites where the images are hosted are based outside the UK, and requests to remove content are often ignored. In some cases, asking for removal results in more attention being brought to the images.The move to clamp down on 'revenge porn' came after 149 cases, the vast majority of them involving women victims, were reported over two and a half years. Only six led to prosecutions.However, the new rules do not affect the consensual 'sexting' of images by under-18s. This is already illegal – but police cannot monitor mobile photo messages. "

I think the fact that it's termed "revenge" porn means the intent to cause distress is already established. What other reason has somebody for publishing pictures of an ex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont use her puctures and she wont contact you simple as

how bizarre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slightly off topic, but on the subject of revenge porn This is snippet from an online publication. I'm pretty sure as per the article they need to be with the intention of causing distress

PLEDGE TO TACKLE REVENGE PORN Those convicted of revenge porn – the distribution of a private sexual image of someone without their consent and with the intention of causing them distress – could face two years in prison under new laws.It will be made a specific offence, covering the sharing of images both online and offline, in the Criminal Justice and Courts Bill, which is currently going through Parliament. It will mean that images posted to social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter will be caught by the offence, as well as those that are shared via text message. Images shared via email, on a website or the distribution of physical copies will also be caught.Victims of revenge porn have previously found it difficult to have pictures removed from the internet.Many sites where the images are hosted are based outside the UK, and requests to remove content are often ignored. In some cases, asking for removal results in more attention being brought to the images.The move to clamp down on 'revenge porn' came after 149 cases, the vast majority of them involving women victims, were reported over two and a half years. Only six led to prosecutions.However, the new rules do not affect the consensual 'sexting' of images by under-18s. This is already illegal – but police cannot monitor mobile photo messages.

I think the fact that it's termed "revenge" porn means the intent to cause distress is already established. What other reason has somebody for publishing pictures of an ex?"

The reason I posted this is because it has been suggested above that the mens rea is irrelevant which I don't believe to be the case

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Slightly off topic, but on the subject of revenge porn This is snippet from an online publication. I'm pretty sure as per the article they need to be with the intention of causing distress

PLEDGE TO TACKLE REVENGE PORN Those convicted of revenge porn – the distribution of a private sexual image of someone without their consent and with the intention of causing them distress – could face two years in prison under new laws.It will be made a specific offence, covering the sharing of images both online and offline, in the Criminal Justice and Courts Bill, which is currently going through Parliament. It will mean that images posted to social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter will be caught by the offence, as well as those that are shared via text message. Images shared via email, on a website or the distribution of physical copies will also be caught.Victims of revenge porn have previously found it difficult to have pictures removed from the internet.Many sites where the images are hosted are based outside the UK, and requests to remove content are often ignored. In some cases, asking for removal results in more attention being brought to the images.The move to clamp down on 'revenge porn' came after 149 cases, the vast majority of them involving women victims, were reported over two and a half years. Only six led to prosecutions.However, the new rules do not affect the consensual 'sexting' of images by under-18s. This is already illegal – but police cannot monitor mobile photo messages.

I think the fact that it's termed "revenge" porn means the intent to cause distress is already established. What other reason has somebody for publishing pictures of an ex?

The reason I posted this is because it has been suggested above that the mens rea is irrelevant which I don't believe to be the case"

I see, I didn't read the rest sorry.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

The reason I posted this is because it has been suggested above that the mens rea is irrelevant which I don't believe to be the case"

Strict liability?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"dont use her puctures and she wont contact you simple as

how bizarre"

Maybe the photos were used to get her to contact him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slightly off topic, but on the subject of revenge porn This is snippet from an online publication. I'm pretty sure as per the article they need to be with the intention of causing distress

PLEDGE TO TACKLE REVENGE PORN Those convicted of revenge porn – the distribution of a private sexual image of someone without their consent and with the intention of causing them distress – could face two years in prison under new laws.It will be made a specific offence, covering the sharing of images both online and offline, in the Criminal Justice and Courts Bill, which is currently going through Parliament. It will mean that images posted to social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter will be caught by the offence, as well as those that are shared via text message. Images shared via email, on a website or the distribution of physical copies will also be caught.Victims of revenge porn have previously found it difficult to have pictures removed from the internet.Many sites where the images are hosted are based outside the UK, and requests to remove content are often ignored. In some cases, asking for removal results in more attention being brought to the images.The move to clamp down on 'revenge porn' came after 149 cases, the vast majority of them involving women victims, were reported over two and a half years. Only six led to prosecutions.However, the new rules do not affect the consensual 'sexting' of images by under-18s. This is already illegal – but police cannot monitor mobile photo messages.

I think the fact that it's termed "revenge" porn means the intent to cause distress is already established. What other reason has somebody for publishing pictures of an ex?"

Even if it's not revenge it's pretty obvious that sharing her pictures on a swinging site without her consent or knowledge will cause her distress!

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I would be livid if anyone had pictures with me on their profile without aski g me first. She has every right to ask you to remove them. If you are here yo get over her why use her pictures in the first place, regardless if you are in them too or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with everyone stating pornographic material of an ex should be posted, and admittedly I haven't read the whole thread, but didn't he state the pics were on Facebook and he'd blacked her face out? I then thought this was just an innocent pic of the couple, where maybe he thought he looked nice and wanted to use. I've seen a lot of pics like this, as long as she's not recognisable and its not anything sexual, I don't she the problem. She probably was just upset because she knew it was her or just wanted to deliberately irrate him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were out.of order for using photos with her in them with out her permission.

just block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree with everyone stating pornographic material of an ex should be posted, and admittedly I haven't read the whole thread, but didn't he state the pics were on Facebook and he'd blacked her face out? I then thought this was just an innocent pic of the couple, where maybe he thought he looked nice and wanted to use. I've seen a lot of pics like this, as long as she's not recognisable and its not anything sexual, I don't she the problem. She probably was just upset because she knew it was her or just wanted to deliberately irrate him. "

** pornographic pics SHOULDN'T be posted. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just like to clarify that I am not saying I agree with it, and yes it is in an invasion of privacy and also an issue of intellectual property but it is unlikely to come under the new laws.

For the record I don't agree with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh but I do agree she has the right to ask fir them to be removed regardless of the content, just that he's done nothing wrong if its as I stated above x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with most on here but however i don't think it would be against the law even if this new law came in if she allowed it. If the person knew you were putting up the photos and she allowed you to do it and then changed her mind for example 2 months down the line unless she told you that she could change her mind i very much doubt she can do anything about it as at the time it was posted she allowed it. However best to have evidence of this otherwise it be your word against hers and the way the law is the women will always win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree with everyone stating pornographic material of an ex should be posted, and admittedly I haven't read the whole thread, but didn't he state the pics were on Facebook and he'd blacked her face out? I then thought this was just an innocent pic of the couple, where maybe he thought he looked nice and wanted to use. I've seen a lot of pics like this, as long as she's not recognisable and its not anything sexual, I don't she the problem. She probably was just upset because she knew it was her or just wanted to deliberately irrate him. "

in that case cut her out of the picture its easily done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree with everyone stating pornographic material of an ex should be posted, and admittedly I haven't read the whole thread, but didn't he state the pics were on Facebook and he'd blacked her face out? I then thought this was just an innocent pic of the couple, where maybe he thought he looked nice and wanted to use. I've seen a lot of pics like this, as long as she's not recognisable and its not anything sexual, I don't she the problem. She probably was just upset because she knew it was her or just wanted to deliberately irrate him.

in that case cut her out of the picture its easily done"

I thought he had done that, that's what he put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally agree with everyone stating pornographic material of an ex should be posted, and admittedly I haven't read the whole thread, but didn't he state the pics were on Facebook and he'd blacked her face out? I then thought this was just an innocent pic of the couple, where maybe he thought he looked nice and wanted to use. I've seen a lot of pics like this, as long as she's not recognisable and its not anything sexual, I don't she the problem. She probably was just upset because she knew it was her or just wanted to deliberately irrate him.

in that case cut her out of the picture its easily done

I thought he had done that, that's what he put."

This is what the o.p. posted.

But the pics i used are also on her facebook and my Facebook page they may have been on her fab profile for all i know. all i did was black out the eyes and face.

What he should have done was cut her out all together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no he blacked out her eyes... bit weird wgy you'd not completely take her out the picture youre promoting you not her...

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"no he blacked out her eyes... bit weird wgy you'd not completely take her out the picture youre promoting you not her... "

I see just thought it would improve my chances as it was really the photo that was in any way could be considered sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no he blacked out her eyes... bit weird wgy you'd not completely take her out the picture youre promoting you not her...

I see just thought it would improve my chances as it was really the photo that was in any way could be considered sexy."

personally im not bothered for the pics with other girls in does note for me n potentially makes me consider theyre attached

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"no he blacked out her eyes... bit weird wgy you'd not completely take her out the picture youre promoting you not her...

I see just thought it would improve my chances as it was really the photo that was in any way could be considered sexy.

personally im not bothered for the pics with other girls in does note for me n potentially makes me consider theyre attached"

I see.then what do you expect from a single mans profile?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"no he blacked out her eyes... bit weird wgy you'd not completely take her out the picture youre promoting you not her...

I see just thought it would improve my chances as it was really the photo that was in any way could be considered sexy.

personally im not bothered for the pics with other girls in does note for me n potentially makes me consider theyre attached

I see.then what do you expect from a single mans profile?"

Pictures of the man.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"no he blacked out her eyes... bit weird wgy you'd not completely take her out the picture youre promoting you not her...

I see just thought it would improve my chances as it was really the photo that was in any way could be considered sexy.

personally im not bothered for the pics with other girls in does note for me n potentially makes me consider theyre attached

I see.then what do you expect from a single mans profile?

Pictures of the man."

No but other than that seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no he blacked out her eyes... bit weird wgy you'd not completely take her out the picture youre promoting you not her...

I see just thought it would improve my chances as it was really the photo that was in any way could be considered sexy.

personally im not bothered for the pics with other girls in does note for me n potentially makes me consider theyre attached

I see.then what do you expect from a single mans profile?

Pictures of the man.

No but other than that seriously?"

pictures of a man without his ex?

or pics where all parties in it are happy with it being on??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with most on here but however i don't think it would be against the law even if this new law came in if she allowed it. If the person knew you were putting up the photos and she allowed you to do it and then changed her mind for example 2 months down the line unless she told you that she could change her mind i very much doubt she can do anything about it as at the time it was posted she allowed it. However best to have evidence of this otherwise it be your word against hers and the way the law is the women will always win."

Thanks for a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what else do imagine single men put pictures of?...their cat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what else do imagine single men put pictures of?...their cat?"

just make sure its your own cat

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"what else do imagine single men put pictures of?...their cat?"

I do not know otherwise i would not have asked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no he blacked out her eyes... bit weird wgy you'd not completely take her out the picture youre promoting you not her...

I see just thought it would improve my chances as it was really the photo that was in any way could be considered sexy.

personally im not bothered for the pics with other girls in does note for me n potentially makes me consider theyre attached

I see.then what do you expect from a single mans profile?

Pictures of the man.

No but other than that seriously?

pictures of a man without his ex?

or pics where all parties in it are happy with it being on?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your trying to sell a car what would you post a picture of?

Your trying to sell yourself so what would the best picture you could post be of?

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"If your trying to sell a car what would you post a picture of?

Your trying to sell yourself so what would the best picture you could post be of?"

My body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your trying to sell a car what would you post a picture of?

Your trying to sell yourself so what would the best picture you could post be of?

My body."

someone elses car????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good man, there are plenty of different angles and parts you can get pictures of, with or without clothes. Give the ladies something interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why ask when you can clearly see other peoples pics?...really dont understand what you want to be told....

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"why ask when you can clearly see other peoples pics?...really dont understand what you want to be told...."

I don't neccesraly want to be told anything i just wanted advice.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

We don't always get what we want, but what we might be asking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Bit in all seriousness thanks for your help and advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no he blacked out her eyes... bit weird wgy you'd not completely take her out the picture youre promoting you not her...

I see just thought it would improve my chances as it was really the photo that was in any way could be considered sexy.

personally im not bothered for the pics with other girls in does note for me n potentially makes me consider theyre attached

I see.then what do you expect from a single mans profile?

Pictures of the man.

No but other than that seriously?

pictures of a man without his ex?

or pics where all parties in it are happy with it being on?? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the photos i took down had be init as well.

You probably don't want to hear it but it doesn't make it acceptable.

If she's found out you've posted images of her on the net it makes sense why she wants to find you/them and have them removed.

Advice - be honest with her, remove the pics from the other sites "

I agree, especially with the fresh start thing too. I've deleted mine and my exes dirty pictures as I got over him and just had no reason to keep them x

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Lots of messages above

My view? Unless you have the express permission of any other party to use their image then don't

Interesting posts re Revenge Porn

Move on gracefully as you see plenty of people on the site but I can't see too many new contacts sharing a camera pose with you

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Lots of messages above

My view? Unless you have the express permission of any other party to use their image then don't

Interesting posts re Revenge Porn

Yeah the revenge porn argument is interesting and makes a good ethical discussion.

Move on gracefully as you see plenty of people on the site but I can't see too many new contacts sharing a camera pose with you "

What would make you say that?

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"If she was your ex and you had her pics on your profile could understand her asking for them to be removed understandably.

If you wanted to make a fresh start as per your post why have her pics on your profile in the first place?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why have photos of your ex on your profile ? You do know there is a law going through that will make that illegal ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of messages above

My view? Unless you have the express permission of any other party to use their image then don't

Interesting posts re Revenge Porn

Yeah the revenge porn argument is interesting and makes a good ethical discussion.

Move on gracefully as you see plenty of people on the site but I can't see too many new contacts sharing a camera pose with you

What would make you say that?

"

as you blatantly have no respect and use photos without permission.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

I do have respect

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

I was just Naive that was all.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Lots of messages above

My view? Unless you have the express permission of any other party to use their image then don't

Interesting posts re Revenge Porn

Yeah the revenge porn argument is interesting and makes a good ethical discussion.

Move on gracefully as you see plenty of people on the site but I can't see too many new contacts sharing a camera pose with you

What would make you say that?

as you blatantly have no respect and use photos without permission.

"

Thats a bit harsh, he did take them down and he has seemed to realise the error of his ways since his original posts, whatever happened to giving someone the benefit of the doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair i would say it is common sense not to use other peoples pics without permission.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do have respect"

You said earlier you had them on to improve your chances your words no one elses so how you can honestly say you have respect beggars belief.

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As long as face and visible markings are removed shouldn't be a problem. However if you are trying to forget her. Naked pictures isn't going to help

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

The thread that wouldn't die

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Take the photos of the internet, any sites you may have put them on, its wrong to post photos anywhere without permission, silly boy."

Not entirely true. Pictures taken in public/your own private land. It's acceptable should it not be for profit or or 'offend'.

You don't have to always have permission but does help.

I don't know too much about the new law. So everything I said could now be redundant

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Take the photos of the internet, any sites you may have put them on, its wrong to post photos anywhere without permission, silly boy.

Not entirely true. Pictures taken in public/your own private land. It's acceptable should it not be for profit or or 'offend'.

You don't have to always have permission but does help.

I don't know too much about the new law. So everything I said could now be redundant

"

P-16 of the copy right act dictates a bit about photos. On the other hand most of our laws on privacy come from Europe and privacy on the internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morally you are in the wrong here. It is totally wrong to keep the pictures. If Mrs N and I ever split up I will destroy/delete any pictures we ever had of us and other people. It's too pervy and I wouldn't want to cause her any upset or misunderstanding.

I did have pixs of my Ex wife and went to a lot of trouble to make sure absolutely any compromising pictures I had of her were deleted off anything we were ever associated with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair i would say it is common sense not to use other peoples pics without permission.

Her"

THIS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what else do imagine single men put pictures of?...their cat?

just make sure its your own cat "

i like to see others pussies TBF ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as a bit of respect for one another, you will be doing some wrong by putting up her picture on any of your profiles in as much as you both have technically ended your relationship on whateva grounds.

Mind you, it might take some time but you can still have fun just by uploading your pictures or are you discouraged by "no single men" filters on profiles and you wanna beat it......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed. The 'here's one I fucked earlier' pic isn't great for single guys.

this made me laugh I have visions of Valerie Singleton in my head now

Who is vallarie singlton."

Now I feel old!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Agreed. The 'here's one I fucked earlier' pic isn't great for single guys.

this made me laugh I have visions of Valerie Singleton in my head now

Who is vallarie singlton.

Now I feel old!! "

Yes, but very, very nice with it

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Just as a bit of respect for one another, you will be doing some wrong by putting up her picture on any of your profiles in as much as you both have technically ended your relationship on whateva grounds.

Mind you, it might take some time but you can still have fun just by uploading your pictures or are you discouraged by "no single men" filters on profiles and you wanna beat it......"

I do not we to beat the system but be part of it. If some one has no men filters then clearly that means no men. The same procedure applies if they nearly .mention it on their profile but do not have any filters after all i do not want to waist any ones time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just as a bit of respect for one another, you will be doing some wrong by putting up her picture on any of your profiles in as much as you both have technically ended your relationship on whateva grounds.

Mind you, it might take some time but you can still have fun just by uploading your pictures or are you discouraged by "no single men" filters on profiles and you wanna beat it......

I do not we to beat the system but be part of it. If some one has no men filters then clearly that means no men. The same procedure applies if they nearly .mention it on their profile but do not have any filters after all i do not want to waist any ones time."

You must be one of the few to take notice of that from people

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"If she was your ex and you had her pics on your profile could understand her asking for them to be removed understandably.

If you wanted to make a fresh start as per your post why have her pics on your profile in the first place?

"

All of this tbh, I would be pretty p'd off if that had been me for example

Put yourself in their shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see some crazy shit on here so if I go on my social site and get a pic of me and my ex from years back that be ok would it? By writting this you probably frightened a lot of ladies from not meeting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is real a call for advice . So do most know if some one they know discovered their fab profile. So on Sat my ex or her new swinging partner discovered my profile and asked for the pics of her to be taken down. We do not get along with each other because we fell out last Oct.

The original reason as to why i started a profile was to forget her and to try and enjoy being single if that was possible.

Oyhrer than blocking her which has already been done what else can be done to avoid her in case she discovers any of my other profiles on my otger sites.

Other than blocking?"

Sounds like she had good reason to say something if you had her pix up its a bit of a shitty thing to do putting her pix up in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is real a call for advice . So do most know if some one they know discovered their fab profile. So on Sat my ex or her new swinging partner discovered my profile and asked for the pics of her to be taken down. We do not get along with each other because we fell out last Oct.

The original reason as to why i started a profile was to forget her and to try and enjoy being single if that was possible.

Oyhrer than blocking her which has already been done what else can be done to avoid her in case she discovers any of my other profiles on my otger sites.

Other than blocking?

Sounds like she had good reason to say something if you had her pix up its a bit of a shitty thing to do putting her pix up in the first place."
I wouldn't be happy if my ex did that.

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