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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this is a swinger site full of couples and women looking meets but when asked none meets whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be very hard lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like "

Change your expectations and view of what this site is for starters.

It's not a sex site, it's a swingers site, sex is only one part of swinging. And because you've signed up, did you expect women to come flocking to your feet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is a swinger site full of couples and women looking meets but when asked none meets whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like "

they might be looking for someone with a bit of personality to their profile? and maybe pics of other bodyparts, not just cock shots!

sometimes threads like this can put folk off aswell, use the search feature and see what works for others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I knw theres more to swinging than sex but in general no one meets for drinks ngts out or anything over here there doesn't seem to be many geniune people over here to b honest

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"So this is a swinger site full of couples and women looking meets but when asked none meets whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like "

Get lucky

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I meet for sex and I meet for social only gatherings. However, I'm attracted to profiles with a little something about the person not a whinge and also to decent photos.

Make of that what you will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like

Change your expectations and view of what this site is for starters.

It's not a sex site, it's a swingers site, sex is only one part of swinging. And because you've signed up, did you expect women to come flocking to your feet?"

Well said. .we're new and found a lot talk the talk but could be numerous reasons why they aren't flooding towards you..just chilax and they will come eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I knw theres more to swinging than sex but in general no one meets for drinks ngts out or anything over here there doesn't seem to be many geniune people over here to b honest"

You're looking in the wrong places then.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I knw theres more to swinging than sex but in general no one meets for drinks ngts out or anything over here there doesn't seem to be many geniune people over here to b honest

You're looking in the wrong places then....."

Exactly! Lol. This is a swinging site and not a sex site. ..sex is a very naughty bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Exactly! Lol. This is a swinging site and not a sex site. ..sex is a very naughty bonus "

Hell yes!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Exactly! Lol. This is a swinging site and not a sex site. ..sex is a very naughty bonus

Hell yes!!!!! "

Think we may have found our next victims. .sorry play partners ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is a swinger site full of couples and women looking meets but when asked none meets whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like "

What's 'genuine sex' and how does that differ from sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is a swinger site full of couples and women looking meets but when asked none meets whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like "

You need to realise as a single guy you need to make your profile stand out due to the huge volume of sinjke guys.

I'm afraid yours doesn't. It just seems desperate that you want to shag anyone from 18-99!!! And the fact you have just ticked everything on the likes list and not really written much doesn't help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I add that actually only couples are swingers, single men and women use this as a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Exactly! Lol. This is a swinging site and not a sex site. ..sex is a very naughty bonus

Hell yes!!!!!

Think we may have found our next victims. .sorry play partners ha "

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrr..... am I missing something here?!

You've been on for 4 weeks and had 3 veri's I think it's safe to say you are doing pretty well.

If you want to improve on that ratio then up your game by bulking out your profile text more & maybe have a variety of pictures in public.

For me tho and this is only my opinion ~ your username & current avatar would result in a deleted message in my inbox.

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford


"I knw theres more to swinging than sex but in general no one meets for drinks ngts out or anything over here there doesn't seem to be many geniune people over here to b honest"

Well stop whining and move on then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah okay you've changed your avatar lol!!

well that's a much better pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Exactly! Lol. This is a swinging site and not a sex site. ..sex is a very naughty bonus

Hell yes!!!!!

Think we may have found our next victims. .sorry play partners ha "

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Last I heard they were all locked up in funky monkeys cellar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I add that actually only couples are swingers, single men and women use this as a sex site "

So couples meet other couples for sex or whatever and that's swinging but because someone's single they're just looking for sex and not swinging? What about single people who meet couples, or couples who want single men or women, are they not swinging then??!! If I want a pointless shag, its much easier to just go to a night club on a Saturday night but I want more than that. I suppose everyone has differing views of what swinging is but I believe the single guys who look at this site as more than a sex site are on the whole, more successful.

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville


"So this is a swinger site full of couples and women looking meets but when asked none meets whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like "

Make friends with the Single Ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I knw theres more to swinging than sex but in general no one meets for drinks ngts out or anything over here there doesn't seem to be many geniune people over here to b honest"

You are joking right?! People meet all the time. Maybe just not with you.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Can I add that actually only couples are swingers, single men and women use this as a sex site "

sorry but this is incorrect in a lot of cases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I add that actually only couples are swingers, single men and women use this as a sex site "

Um - er - so if I play with a couple, then they're swinging but I'm not...?

Something slightly approaching Heisenberg there.....

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"So this is a swinger site full of couples and women looking meets but when asked none meets whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like "
. Meets require considerable effort and a well written profile that highlights your hobbies and interests . Some of the more interesting topics on the forums have nothing to do with sex.Just because member are on this site , it does not necessarily mean they want to meet people .

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sorry, but if you want to be successful you have to make an effort!

1 line for your profile? Do you really think you have done enough?

If you messaged me, I would ignore it, as it wouldn't interest me in the slightest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like

Change your expectations and view of what this site is for starters.

It's not a sex site, it's a swingers site, sex is only one part of swinging. And because you've signed up, did you expect women to come flocking to your feet?

"

problem is hot couples like you not meeting single men haha.

I sort of agree with what the OP says, i like swinging, is a sad shame the lack of slim, single women on here, most seem to be a size 16+ which does not interest me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like

Change your expectations and view of what this site is for starters.

It's not a sex site, it's a swingers site, sex is only one part of swinging. And because you've signed up, did you expect women to come flocking to your feet?

problem is hot couples like you not meeting single men haha.

I sort of agree with what the OP says, i like swinging, is a sad shame the lack of slim, single women on here, most seem to be a size 16+ which does not interest me"

Im sure there are as many slim women as there is plus size women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A www common ladies what's not hot about ... Ya want the boaby does that just not melt your knickers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I add that actually only couples are swingers, single men and women use this as a sex site "

Exactly.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"I knw theres more to swinging than sex but in general no one meets for drinks ngts out or anything over here there doesn't seem to be many geniune people over here to b honest"

I think the phrase you were looking for is no one meets you!

Plenty of people meet from here on a regular basis, they just have no.interest in meeting you.......ever wonder why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I add that actually only couples are swingers, single men and women use this as a sex site

Exactly. "

What utter rubbish!! Swinging is a lifestyle which has evolved yo include singles. Not all singles on here use it as a sex site - some are actual swingers. I started swinging before some people on here were born. Just because I swing as a single fem now doesn't make me any less a swinger than any couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A www common ladies what's not hot about ... Ya want the boaby does that just not melt your knickers ? "

It doesn't ever melt my edible knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats a man to do to get geniune sex off here like

Change your expectations and view of what this site is for starters.

It's not a sex site, it's a swingers site, sex is only one part of swinging. And because you've signed up, did you expect women to come flocking to your feet?"

couldn't have put it better myself

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By *rench KissesCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *rench KissesCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

You might try using English in your profile instead of txtspk. You're 29 not 19.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

A couple of instances of attempting fabicide so far during this thread. Please be careful gents...it's the wrong time of year to be without Fab's warm embrace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think most are on here to read the entertaining and sometimes crap forums. I would say probably less than 20% of members on here would meet either social or for fun and by the time you take out all the time wasters and fakes you probably get a 15% of members meeting. Then cut it down to your area and thats probably about 1 or 2 % meeting.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

The vast majority of site members hardly know the forums exist. There are thousands upon thousands of people too busy fucking to use these hallowed Forums...crazy fools

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could I suggest they are looking for the 'h' in where's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could I suggest they are looking for the 'h' in where's?"

Love it!!

don't forget the '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A www common ladies what's not hot about ... Ya want the boaby does that just not melt your knickers ?

It doesn't ever melt my edible knickers "

Hang on you wear knickers ....... So who was sitting on my face last ni........ Never mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think most are on here to read the entertaining and sometimes crap forums. I would say probably less than 20% of members on here would meet either social or for fun and by the time you take out all the time wasters and fakes you probably get a 15% of members meeting. Then cut it down to your area and thats probably about 1 or 2 % meeting. "

Where did you get your stats from? They are very precise.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

What's a guy to do to get genuine meets?

Well, other than have an interesting profile which will help attract the ladies it is a good idea to not be a hypocrite and demand a face pic when you don't have one on your public profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a guy to do to get genuine meets?

Well, other than have an interesting profile which will help attract the ladies it is a good idea to not be a hypocrite and demand a face pic when you don't have one on your public profile!"

Honesty is also a good policy.

If you are cheating on someone, make it clear to others.

At least then they can choose if they want to meet a cheat or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think most are on here to read the entertaining and sometimes crap forums. I would say probably less than 20% of members on here would meet either social or for fun and by the time you take out all the time wasters and fakes you probably get a 15% of members meeting. Then cut it down to your area and thats probably about 1 or 2 % meeting.

Where did you get your stats from? They are very precise.

"

Don't forget that only 75% of this post is true and that 84% of made up percentages are unreliable 50% of the time

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And as usual if appears that all of the advise given has been totally ignored.....SURPRISE!!!

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"What's a guy to do to get genuine meets?

Well, other than have an interesting profile which will help attract the ladies it is a good idea to not be a hypocrite and demand a face pic when you don't have one on your public profile!

Honesty is also a good policy.

If you are cheating on someone, make it clear to others.

At least then they can choose if they want to meet a cheat or not."

Not sure where you get the idea the op is cheating but it is good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I add that actually only couples are swingers, single men and women use this as a sex site

So couples meet other couples for sex or whatever and that's swinging but because someone's single they're just looking for sex and not swinging? What about single people who meet couples, or couples who want single men or women, are they not swinging then??!! If I want a pointless shag, its much easier to just go to a night club on a Saturday night but I want more than that. I suppose everyone has differing views of what swinging is but I believe the single guys who look at this site as more than a sex site are on the whole, more successful. "

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I add that actually only couples are swingers, single men and women use this as a sex site

Exactly. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I knw theres more to swinging than sex but in general no one meets for drinks ngts out or anything over here there doesn't seem to be many geniune people over here to b honest"

There's plenty of genuine people here and I've met some, it's just hard for us single fellas as we outnumber the couples and ladies by huge amounts...you just have to try harder to stand out

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