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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips for a new single young guy on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grow thick skin, be polite and patient

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Grow thick skin, be polite and patient "

Yh sort of got that out of 10 messages you'll be lucky if you get 1 a lot of knock backs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience, patience and errrrrrrm

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You guessed it, more patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag Tonight has serious competition there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read profiles and only message people whos preferences you meet (and who meet yours) Otherwise it will waste your time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read more than write on here, and read some more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience, patience and errrrrrrm

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You guessed it, more patience. "

this, and be respectful if you message a couple speak to them as a couple...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its a shame people cast you aside after one message. So much pressure to get it right ha

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

If you're not what they want why should they waste their time allowing you to try change their minds?

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By *yggeCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Write a polite message aim at the profile after reading it and actually interested in it. As no other gents do it you will stand out. Here is an example of how to fail:

hiya, u into fun with u wearing tights/ stockings ? nothing sexier on earth than a woman who wears and i love to play with nylons to like licking pussy through tights as u wear with no knix and fuck through ripped tights. Or u wears stockings and give footwank or roll stocking over cock and wank suck fuck . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a shame people cast you aside after one message. So much pressure to get it right ha "

There is no pressure at all. It's suppose to be fun! Treat people how you would in a pub. Would you go up to a girl and say 'suck my cock luv'? If you are that sort of guy then expect the same success on here. Be polite. It's not rocket science.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a shame people cast you aside after one message. So much pressure to get it right ha "

It's not a case of people casting you aside. Just imagine that you were receiving 80 to 100 messages every single day, now ask yourself would you have time to reply to them all, let alone think of meeting that many people.

Don't take things personally either and every so often you'll get a reply back from someone who likes the look of you, then enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to wanking. Cant go wrong then op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a shame people cast you aside after one message. So much pressure to get it right ha "

Pressure in getting it right?

Surely it just should be right anyway??

A tip would be to read through the hundreds of posts on the same subject posted by loads of guys in a similar position to you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Saying this "Do people ever read profiles anymore?" after 2 weeks sounds a bit weird. The thing is, if you haven't got anything to offer, no one will stop by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shag Tonight has serious competition there!!"
Not serious but kinda lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying this "Do people ever read profiles anymore?" after 2 weeks sounds a bit weird. The thing is, if you haven't got anything to offer, no one will stop by.

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This, you ask if anyone reads profiles like its a criticism.... Your profile is two lines long so wouldn't really matter if they did read yours.

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