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By *corpion_King OP   Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

So I've been on fab for about 2 years in all, first year was with my ex where we had some good meets, problem is, now I've gone alone to fulfil some fantasies etc etc, we both keep in touch with the odd people we've met on here, so I wanna keep face hidden for now, I don't have the perfect chest, so as a profile pic, is a bit off putting, and a cock pic is faved by the ladies, so I would like some input as to how and what's best to help me meet females and it always seems my opening messages aren't ideal also, too rude and your doomed, too nice and your doomed as well, so what's the ideal opener??

Thanks for all help in advance!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it simple, say hello, tell people about you and what your looking for. Refer to something unique in their profile that attracted you to show you've read it. Oh and attach a face pic if you're initiating the conversation.

Other than that, there's no magic formula for success. Apply the logic that got you meets as a couple to your single fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op, please bare in mind the number of profile help posts on here cos they mention things like....

good pics

no reference to bareback

make your profile personal

realistic approach

honesty

please bare this in mind before expecting others to help you, you could help yourself loads before asking others on here, as the constructive criticism can be off putting

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By *corpion_King OP   Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Keep it simple, say hello, tell people about you and what your looking for. Refer to something unique in their profile that attracted you to show you've read it. Oh and attach a face pic if you're initiating the conversation.

Other than that, there's no magic formula for success. Apply the logic that got you meets as a couple to your single fabbing."

I always send a face pic when sending a message, as a couple, people wanted the meets as it what was most requested, just as a single it's harder, and those Ive had difficulty contacting people as they've blocked single guys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search previous threads on this, and stay patient.

Very different profile situation you have, though clubs and socials will help you mix.

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