FabSwingers.com forum: Drinking at meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

what do people think about drinking at meets ? I suppose it's not a good thing to get pissed up ? has anyone had a meet ruined by people getting too d*unk,or do some people need to drink to beat the nerves ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, anyone arriving smelling of booze or pissed wouldn't get in!

Who wants some slobbering d*unk near them...yuk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont mind having a drink but would expect the person to know their limits and not get d*unk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like having a drink but would never drink before a meet and neither would I expect the person I was meeting to turn up pissed. If we were in a social setting then having a few drinks is fine....but not getting roaring d*unk!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like having a drink but would never drink before a meet and neither would I expect the person I was meeting to turn up pissed. If we were in a social setting then having a few drinks is fine....but not getting roaring d*unk!"
yeh i'd have to agree with that.seems a bit stupid to spend time arranging a meet only to have crap d*unken sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like having a drink but would never drink before a meet and neither would I expect the person I was meeting to turn up pissed. If we were in a social setting then having a few drinks is fine....but not getting roaring d*unk!yeh i'd have to agree with that.seems a bit stupid to spend time arranging a meet only to have crap d*unken sex lol "

Especially if you couldn't remember it afterwards

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Especially if you couldn't remember it afterwards

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yeh been there done that lol

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Alcohol has never played a part in meets apart from the odd glass of wine. However we once met a very nervous couple who drank a bottle of vodka in a couple of hours, suffice to say the evening didn't go anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said above a few drinks is nice while getting to know the other people you are meeting a little better and to ease into the fun. But not too much.

Our first meet as a couple involved us travelling 200+ miles only to arrive to meet 4 people 3 of which had been constantly drinking for about a day and a half and one of them finally being so d*unk she passed out (after roughly pushing herself on me until I physically had to move away from her to get her to stop touching me -Ella-) After this the only other male at the meet passed out and I was left virtually untouched by anyone but Grai (a blessing really as I don't swing for d*unken fumbling). Also the only other sober person (fem) there had gone to bed at about 10pm due to the other fem that wasn't passed out making her feel uncomfortable because she had had fun with Grai before her.

Anyway there is more but I think I should stop before I rant too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyones different, but we like a drink, we enjoy the social side of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive no objection to the odd drink, for nerves maybe but ive been to a meet where the couple drank constantly, hard stuff not wine like me, it ended up with the woman constantly in the lounge drinking and smoking, and me almost passed out in the bedroom with the husband as im not used to drinking

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I dont drink at meets because I always want the option to be able to leave and drive home if the need arises. Safety first and all that.

Plus I dont need to have a drink to be sociable, relaxed, or enjoy myself, cos Im a floozy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I'll happily drink socially if

a) I already know whoever I'm drinking with.

b) I don't have to drive.

Even then we're talking 3 drinks maximum...drinking is less fun than sex, so if I'm choosing....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i need a damm good drink to last longer lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"i need a damm good drink to last longer lol

If I said that I lastest longest when d*unk, and stayed hard, I'd get

a lot.

So please, disregard this post, it's a complete fabrication.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Having to take Levitra to help me perform knocks out any thoughts of having alkyhole anyway!

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Arrived at meet once to find the couple well pissed wasnt sure how to make an exit couldnt wait to get out of there

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

Italy

Mrs new got a bit d*unk at a meet once but never again, she prefers to remember the events rather than have to rely on pics..

Mr new is the designated driver,,,

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i have had some meets in the past where one person had been rather d*unk and it kills the night....

also have seen some people d*unk as skunks in clubs.... and that can get really really hairy and dangerous......

when i am in a club I don't drink at all......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I no longer need alcohol to make me relax before or during a meet, and do not mind if the other person has one if it makes him more relaxed.

Too much booze would ruin the meet for me though.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I get d*unk at socials i do NOT get d*unk on meets in fact rarely drink on meets. If you cant do it sober you shouldnt be doing it at all

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

everything in moderation as they say !

well apart from hot ,passionate sex lol !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"everything in moderation as they say !

well apart from hot ,passionate sex lol !!!

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here here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont drink as meet during the day and it a coffee. but have met at night and no drink was involved so it was all fun and no trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met a cpl once she was sober when they turned up and got so smashed she could hardly stay on the bar stool.we left without any fun....... lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a drink helps to steady the nerves but as the female should deff not get plastered and if someone else turned up pissed then it would b "hit the road Jack...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you need to get d*unk to swing you shouldnt be swinging

thats all im saying on the subject lol

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

"Alcohol has never played a part in meets apart from the odd glass of wine. However we once met a very nervous couple who drank a bottle of vodka in a couple of hours, suffice to say the evening didn't go anywhere."

ditto on that one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't handle my drink so I just don't do it. What's the point in multiple orgasms if you can't bloody remember them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you need to get d*unk to swing you shouldnt be swinging

thats all im saying on the subject lol"

nuf said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tipple is fine, more than that is just a put off.

The trouble is dealing with those who go over the top.

We are clear on our profile, nevetheless we did have one experience when they were both out of their heads. I was on my nerves edge, d*unken people can be so volatile. Never again (I hope) xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me the first time I went to a swinging party, I was sooo nervous I had too many voddies....not good

Now I only drink socially, as I like to keep in control of the situation lol

Lesson learnt

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We tend to get a tad d*unk at clubs, as it's odly the only place I actualy feel relaxed enough to drink, knowing that wiggles isn't likely to get any hastle.

As to how it effects us, meh I never forget what happened and since JD acts like Viagra on me, never had any complaints.

Only tend to have one maybe two drinks on a meet though, or drink .

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

"I dont drink at meets because I always want the option to be able to leave and drive home if the need arises. Safety first and all that.

Plus I dont need to have a drink to be sociable, relaxed, or enjoy myself, cos Im a floozy....

LOL babes...we got mullered

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By *awnpaulCouple
over a year ago

Hounslow

We drink most nights, love a beer and like to have a few at a meet. Kinda makes it more social for us.. We're down as 'regular drinkers' on our profile, only 'cos 'pissheads' wan't an option, lol

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

The people on Fab are far more intoxicating than alcohol!

That said, a nice Chianti does enhance the flavour of a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a single woman who was fine until we went out to a night club.

She then got absolutely legless and turned into Mrs Hyde!

We also met a couple were the guy got so d*unk he became useless and topped it off by collapsing,lol.

XXXX

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I dont drink at meets because I always want the option to be able to leave and drive home if the need arises. Safety first and all that.

Plus I dont need to have a drink to be sociable, relaxed, or enjoy myself, cos Im a floozy....

LOL babes...we got mullered

Bugger, forgot about that...

OK make that I only drink at meets when Fuss leads me astray.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Happened to me the first time I went to a swinging party, I was sooo nervous I had too many voddies....not good

Now I only drink socially, as I like to keep in control of the situation lol

Lesson learnt

i think most people drink to much when they are new, its a very big thing to step into this world for the first time, not knowing what to expect, i remember the first time i went to a club i was so nervous, didnt know what to expect, thought i had to have sex with anyone who touched me, being new i didnt know what i could and couldnt do, i got very d*unk

the next day i wondered what all the fuss was about and the next time i went i didnt have any drink at all as i wanted to have fun after i realised i was allowed to say no, now days i do take a few drinks but not enough to get d*unk, but i do like to have a chat and a drink at the bar while im there same as i would in a pub but just as i dont get d*unk in pubs i have no desire to get d*unk in a club either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I'm not averse to a beer or a wine on a meet, I'm usually the designated driver, so I don't have the option of getting d*unk.

I have had a 3sum with a couple, she doesn't drink and he brought along cans of beer, got a little past his limit and snored on the sofa!

She was really embarrassed & I found it quite amusing, but I also felt for her. I was however really pleased that she didn't need alcohol to get her "in the mood", she was genuinely into it getting together with me.

Sometimes it is nice to loosen up with a few drinks, but it's nice to be able to go without too!

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