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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was determined never to post out like this , but I need to face facts now I was on a couple of years back and had over twenty meets ! But struggling now , any advice or constructive critiscm appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl you ain't alone we hit very dry patch was planning party for Saturday evening then tonight see half those attending were posting meets elsewhere lol waste time to many time waster on here now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bang the shit out of a blow up dolly..

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Where do you want to start ??

Your profile pics are next best thing to useless.

Limited time you can meet.

Can't accommodate.

Limiting the age group a lot.

You are married.

Can only use fab at home so its awkward to organise things(your description)

And you're a "sales manager"!

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By *ilkChocManMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Your a single guy....

We dont get meets (unless super lucky!!)

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Where do you want to start ??

Your profile pics are next best thing to useless.

Limited time you can meet.

Can't accommodate.

Limiting the age group a lot.

You are married.

Can only use fab at home so its awkward to organise things(your description)

And you're a "sales manager"!

"

Mostly this mate

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Bang the shit out of a blow up dolly.."

Fucking hilarious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Its a cock fest for women

*its an desert for men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your a single guy....

We dont get meets (unless super lucky!!)"

Absolute bollocks......we get plenty meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep same here but only im very patience so I can wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a wank "

brilliant!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

You're a sales manager? ?

Sell yourself then!!!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I was determined never to post out like this , but I need to face facts now I was on a couple of years back and had over twenty meets ! But struggling now , any advice or constructive critiscm appreciated "

Do what you did two years ago....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feed back gonna take a rain check for a few days now .

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire


"You're a sales manager? ?

Sell yourself then!!!

"

Love it !!

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"Your a single guy....

We dont get meets (unless super lucky!!)"

Don't we? Really?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Your a single guy....

We dont get meets (unless super lucky!!)

Don't we? Really? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was determined never to post out like this , but I need to face facts now I was on a couple of years back and had over twenty meets ! But struggling now , any advice or constructive critiscm appreciated "

Don't hide your profile would be a decent starting point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Its a cock fest for women

*its an desert for men

"

Plenty single guys get meet!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're expecting 18-35 yr olds to show interest in you?

Your profile is void of any personally and appeal.

You do need to revamp it and energise yourself too.

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By *ifeRockChickWoman
over a year ago

Dunfermline

50 and can't accomodate, married comes to mind immediately

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Righto, here we go again. To the OP, if you had apparent success a couple fo years go as you state, surely you should try to repeat what you did did then.

But if not, look at the following.

Your Profile is one line, One line says nothing about you. You have to entice people to look at you, to discover who you are, what you seek, what you desire, whom you seek, etc.

You are up against 100's of other guys where you are, all seeking the same thing, so you need to "SELL" yourself, in order to stand out.

The pics are appalling; at the very least, you have to get a facial pic sorted out on your Profile as potential meets will want to see you straight off!

You state you cannot accommodate, but won't say why; that is off-putting to a lot of people and makes them jump to incorrect conclusions!

You need to get out to Clubs or Socials in your region or get onto the Forums as it is all a case of getting yourself "noticed".

At present, your Profile is wholly negative and isn't attractive to draw people in to want to consider contacting you initially let alone wish to consider meeting up!

The more you put in, the more you get out, but it takes time, patience, perseverance and even more patience.

Good Luck.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Anyone can tell fibs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No new information then. you need to tell women why you can't accommodate them. It may put them off, it may not. and new pics needed also as others have said. good luck

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

You only want to meet 18-35 year olds? Why do you think 18-35 year olds are going to want to meet you??? What do you have to offer them? Not much according to your profile! Sorry, but I think you may be living in hope there mate....but good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubbish profile so you are getting the results you deserve.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Your profile:....."Just ask me ? And il tell you anything you would like to know!...."

My answer: leave it as it is, yours makes mine look better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks again of like to end thread now my profile is empty now as I'm having a rethink due to the comments that I do appreciate

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You only want to meet 18-35 year olds? Why do you think 18-35 year olds are going to want to meet you??? What do you have to offer them? Not much according to your profile! Sorry, but I think you may be living in hope there mate....but good luck! "

I'm not sure why the OP stating what age group he's looking for is a problem. I'm on here to meet younger, taller blokes so that's what I put on my profile. We are all on here with a preference, so why shouldn't the OP have one?

As for the rest of the profile though....

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My 2p'

You're married playing away (I saw your original profile)... Some won't entertain that.

You're looking for 18-35 year old females the smallest demographic and as you're older (at the younger end old enough to be their grandad) again it's a small percentage that will be looking for your age..

I don't think it's impossible. There will be someone out there you'll need a great deal of patience and a good bit of luck to find her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice taken , more realistic profile now

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

See you've blocked us now, that will teach me for being honest !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair point unblocked

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Fair point unblocked "

Not totally unrelated but use some time to clean the black mould off your bath behind the taps in photo 1. Reason being is a lot of people check the backgrounds of photos and if they think it's dirty or grubby, they will go elsewhere. Photos need to be top notch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More competition means more variety for women/couples.

Stand out from the rest.

Or. ...

Go to a club.

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

You are going about this completely the wrong way.

Firstly, where are the cock pics? Around 20-25 are usually enough. Make sure they are erect and from several different angles. If you have a sky remote or beer can handy for scale that's always good however a deodorant can should suffice.

You are too vague on age range, 18-20 year old, blonde slut will attract far more interest for you. And you are too polite.

'I want to ruin your pussy and destroy your arse' are essential in attracting possible meets.

You can't accomodate and therefore need to make it clear that hotel meets are the way forward but make sure to explain that she will be paying and you have to leave before 9.30 to read the kids their bedtime story.

Works everytime mate. Feel free to give me a shout if you want anymore advice, I have plenty.

Ha ha, sorry mate, I'm just messing. Couldn't resist.

Seriously just be yourself, never be pushy, always be polite even when you get knocked back and patience is the name of the game.

Best of luck fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always love it when I am at a club and some guy that `only meets 18 - 30 year olds' spends the evening pestering me - until I remind him that he doesn't meet women his own age! If you think of us as people, rather than age ranges, you will find you may get more attention. Personally, I don't meet married men .... unless their wives are with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was determined never to post out like this , but I need to face facts now I was on a couple of years back and had over twenty meets ! But struggling now , any advice or constructive critiscm appreciated "

Have a few more pictures maybe?

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