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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Using condoms on meets is non negotiable for me but I'm finding fairly frequently that a lot of men aren't used to using them and seem to loose their erection and can't keep it even if they do get hard again. Any advice please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try using the female condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it happens, maybe its a pressure thing, maybe the condoms too tight....there's loads of reasons. Best to try and put your playmate at ease, get the condom on him early on and get him hard in it, try putting it on with your mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahah putting it on with your mouth will do the trick, normally keeps my guy hard hehe

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

....or just Dont bother!!! There are many safer things you can do other than fucking...use Your

imagination..have fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was suffering with this a bit. I switched to skyns and it improved. I've bought the larger version now and problem solved. I had never thought it might be a condom size issue.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"Sometimes it happens, maybe its a pressure thing, maybe the condoms too tight....there's loads of reasons. Best to try and put your playmate at ease, get the condom on him early on and get him hard in it, try putting it on with your mouth "

This helps a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using condoms on meets is non negotiable for me but I'm finding fairly frequently that a lot of men aren't used to using them and seem to loose their erection and can't keep it even if they do get hard again. Any advice please?"

Try putting them on yourself while making eye contact and talking dirty it works wonders.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I use skyns - I prefer them but not sure why, really...might be thinner and tighter feeling.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Using condoms on meets is non negotiable for me but I'm finding fairly frequently that a lot of men aren't used to using them and seem to loose their erection and can't keep it even if they do get hard again. Any advice please?"
always makes me feel that those who have problems with getting them on / or loosing their hardness, are those who just aint used to wearing them! (Would make me instantly weary.) . Those who are, can get them out the packet and on without a big fuss and no break in play! If they are used often, there is no problem at all ... In my experience! ( mrs )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use skyns - I prefer them but not sure why, really...might be thinner and tighter feeling. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep stay away from pasante fuckIng things...always a letdown find them too small or like putting an lidl bag on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby used to suffer from this. Then is was recomended to use large condoms, they work a treat, no more issues x. Plus it was a bit of a boost for him as he could only use large ones x. I suppose its more a girth than length issue if a condom is choking a willy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had untold issues with condoms over the years, in my youth I was a bit useless at using them (been checked I'm all good). When I did see the importance I couldn't get the things on it would take so long I'd start to lose my erection. It was only after meeting and becoming friends with someone off here that she recommended I use large condoms they were ok but still a little tight and left me sore after. I've since moved to king sized they fit good. Roll on easier and I'm not sore after.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Using condoms on meets is non negotiable for me but I'm finding fairly frequently that a lot of men aren't used to using them and seem to loose their erection and can't keep it even if they do get hard again. Any advice please?

Try putting them on yourself while making eye contact and talking dirty it works wonders. "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Like a lot of men, I struggled getting used to wearing condoms again, but practise makes perfect, and now it's part of the anticipation of the fun lol!

Try having them out, ready to slip on quickly, even have the lady put one on as part of the play. The more you think about the condom, the less your willy wants to cooperate.....

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"I use skyns - I prefer them but not sure why, really...might be thinner and tighter feeling. "

I use them too and never have any problems either, you get a far better feeling from them too

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