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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

can any of you give me advice on my profile please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can any of you give me advice on my profile please "

It is two sentences long. Express yourself.

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

What would you suggest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile name is probably not the best for a site where you are looking to meet people online. People will think you are fake

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Not a fake mate that's me in the pic how can my profile name make me a fake confused dot com? Thanks for the replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you suggest?"

I did. Express your individulaity. I am not going to dictate it for you. Surely you have some selling points. As it stands, I do not see any.

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

I'm good at selling but I normally sell things to cheap I'm a sucker for puppy dog eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need at least 5 cock pics preferably alongside a SKY remote.

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

No not cool and I haven't got sky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos all the same ..you can't accommodate but you don't say why? ...Most will think you're attached. .also you're not selling yourself .

Apart from that a good looking guy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could do with putting more information in your profile about you.

Also maybe why you cannot accommodate as some may think you're married and that would put them off, unless you are of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also catfish nick name doesn't do you any favours ...ever seen a programme called catfish? ...

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Thanks Your pretty hot yourself

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Not a fake mate that's me in the pic how can my profile name make me a fake confused dot com? Thanks for the replies "

Catfish is the name of a TV programme that exposes fakes on dating sites.

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Sorry not married not going there again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Your pretty hot yourself "

Dam right !!!...fucking smoking hot

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Not a fake mate that's me in the pic how can my profile name make me a fake confused dot com? Thanks for the replies

Catfish is the name of a TV programme that exposes fakes on dating sites.

"

I never knew that

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Thanks Your pretty hot yourself

Dam right !!!...fucking smoking hot "

You are

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"can any of you give me advice on my profile please "

bit more about yourself might be useful....... but looks ok... if a little short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a fake mate that's me in the pic how can my profile name make me a fake confused dot com? Thanks for the replies "

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=catfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok...genuine advice from a well verified guy (check em all if you like)

Profile is 2 lines long. Sounds a bit desperate.

Your one pic is a good one....but why 4 of the same?

There are loads of guys here for every woman (I've heard it's anything from 100 to 200 but personally wouldn't know, nor do I care. It's never bothered me)

You need to make yourself stand out. You DO need to sell yourself rather than make a joke of the suggestion. You obviously have some sense of humour ... So show it in your profile. Say something about yourself...including why you can't accommodate. The most common/obvious reason is attached/married. If you are...then be honest. If you're not then say why.

Pics....some variety please....clothed, boxers, outdoor...whatever. It doesn't actually matter...just some variety would help you.

Get a few meets under your belt before you go looking for fb..... They are not easy to find and WILL need to be local to you or it will never work.

My profile ain't perfect...I reckon it's a bit of a mess tbh. But it does give a flavour of who I am...AND IT WORKS! Yours needs to be yours and individual to you...but you can get ideas from other successful guys.

If you take the advice ...then good luck. If you choose not to then we look forward to you joining the ranks of the UNLOS.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

WOW! That is some effort you have made so far!

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Ok...genuine advice from a well verified guy (check em all if you like)

Profile is 2 lines long. Sounds a bit desperate.

Your one pic is a good one....but why 4 of the same?

There are loads of guys here for every woman (I've heard it's anything from 100 to 200 but personally wouldn't know, nor do I care. It's never bothered me)

You need to make yourself stand out. You DO need to sell yourself rather than make a joke of the suggestion. You obviously have some sense of humour ... So show it in your profile. Say something about yourself...including why you can't accommodate. The most common/obvious reason is attached/married. If you are...then be honest. If you're not then say why.

Pics....some variety please....clothed, boxers, outdoor...whatever. It doesn't actually matter...just some variety would help you.

Get a few meets under your belt before you go looking for fb..... They are not easy to find and WILL need to be local to you or it will never work.

My profile ain't perfect...I reckon it's a bit of a mess tbh. But it does give a flavour of who I am...AND IT WORKS! Yours needs to be yours and individual to you...but you can get ideas from other successful guys.

If you take the advice ...then good luck. If you choose not to then we look forward to you joining the ranks of the UNLOS."

Thanks sounds like good advice to me

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

How can I find out my old password I've forgotten it so can't change my user name

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"WOW! That is some effort you have made so far! "
Give me a chance I'm a newbie Liking your pics and the Tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need your password to change your username, there is an option down the left hand side you can click on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a catfish is either an internet fake or a bottom feeding predator lol, variety of pics and a better thought through blurb would be an improvement

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"You don't need your password to change your username, there is an option down the left hand side you can click on"
I need my password to change my username have a look.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"WOW! That is some effort you have made so far! Give me a chance I'm a newbie Liking your pics and the Tattoos "

So you can see I have a profile, I have a variety of pics that show's the truth about what I look like (bar face of course, but will swap)

What did you think you were signing up to that you thought 2 lines were adequate? Just wondering, as I have never had a 2 liner profile, my wants, desires and what I am here to offer, have always been on my profile!

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"a catfish is either an internet fake or a bottom feeding predator lol, variety of pics and a better thought through blurb would be an improvement "
I do like bottoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol at catfish

Her

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"WOW! That is some effort you have made so far! Give me a chance I'm a newbie Liking your pics and the Tattoos

So you can see I have a profile, I have a variety of pics that show's the truth about what I look like (bar face of course, but will swap)

What did you think you were signing up to that you thought 2 lines were adequate? Just wondering, as I have never had a 2 liner profile, my wants, desires and what I am here to offer, have always been on my profile!"

Understood thanks for the advice

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Changed my intro feedback please

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Changed my intro feedback please "

It's very......generic, sorry, still nothing that stands out or would entice me to reply, just my opinion of course.

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Changed my intro feedback please

It's very......generic, sorry, still nothing that stands out or would entice me to reply, just my opinion of course."

I'm dying here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Changed my intro feedback please "

you are asking for a fb to accompany you, what can you offer the said lady? and car and outdoor meets might not suit lots of single ladies, sell yourself, its an advert that you need to make yourself look like everyones first choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Changed my intro feedback please

It's very......generic, sorry, still nothing that stands out or would entice me to reply, just my opinion of course.I'm dying here "

Lol.....like I said. I have 200+ meet veris. Take a peek. Nick some ideas...whatever. Sort some more pics too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for anything... Didn't read the rest as that put us off straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Changed my intro feedback please

It's very......generic, sorry, still nothing that stands out or would entice me to reply, just my opinion of course.I'm dying here

Lol.....like I said. I have 200+ meet veris. Take a peek. Nick some ideas...whatever. Sort some more pics too!"

ha ha, has anyone else noticed nobbys 200 meets lol, its a bit of a talking point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may have mentioned them a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He may have mentioned them a few times "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"He may have mentioned them a few times

"

I think I may have missed that a few threads back...now I just see blah blah blah

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"He may have mentioned them a few times

I think I may have missed that a few threads back...now I just see blah blah blah "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can any of you give me advice on my profile please "

Its very similar to thousands of other single male profiles you need to make it stand out in a way specific to you.

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Will sort it at the weekend thanks for the advice

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

I have changed it feedback please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it put a smile on my face.

I think it is a special profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but on your pictures you look far too serious. that doesn't match with the text for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I think your title catfish hmm is not trusty people, some work mind risk is a risk the rest fine sweetheart my opinion xxx pamela

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Well I think your title catfish hmm is not trusty people, some work mind risk is a risk the rest fine sweetheart my opinion xxx pamela"
I tried changing it, it wouldn't work It's hard to look good in a selfie lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Catfish is the name of a TV programme that exposes fakes on dating sites.

"

Haha awkward

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Trust me to pick that one And I seriously can't change it what a fooling nightmare

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Fooking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good joke mind you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the new profile is good. Yes not everyone reads them I know but I do amongst others.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How about a photo of you smiling?

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Good joke mind you."

Thanks glad you liked it

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"How about a photo of you smiling? "

I will get one up tomorrow

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"How about a photo of you smiling?

I will get one up tomorrow "

And the picture Lol

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By *icky-disco OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Thanks for all the feedback guys and girls

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