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"Best thing to do is talk to him . Explain that you've never been with another man. If your interested maybe tell him you are but take it at your pace. If your not just tell him out straight (no pun intended) . " Liking the unintentional pun tho | |||
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"I have a new neighbour who just moved next door. He looks a bit unfriendly shaved head tattoo a bit stocky. So when he came on to me last week it was shocked. He's been living there about 4 months and we would give each other the nod how you doing mate. I have a boxing bag in my back yard and I'm usually thumping it when I can't get to the gym. One day when he walked past the hedge he asked how long I'd been boxing he said he had always fancied giving it ago. I've been boxing a while now and I've got all the gear so I said if he wanted we could do a bit of 1-1. I've been teaching him to box now for about 3 weeks. Last Saturday he said if I weren't busy I should come over for a drink. I popped round and we was just chatting having a few drinks. Then he dropped a bomb that he was gay and he fancied me. I've never done owt with another bloke before but the next thing I know we where locking lips and up the stairs. I wimped out before owt to serious happened and now I've been avoiding him like the plague. But I can't get it off my mind. What do you thinks the best thing to do?" How non serious did it get then? The fact you kissed him and went upstairs denotes you may have hidden feelings for men! I don't know of any 100% straight men who would kiss a guy back who came onto him, and then go upstairs with him!!! But that's just my honest opinion! X | |||
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"1) Buy lube 2) Let me watch please " Bend over and brace yourself, you might like it!! | |||
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"1) Buy lube 2) Let me watch please Bend over and brace yourself, you might like it!!" From experience; he'll love it. I do | |||
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"Yeah maybe your right tbh. I just got abit caught up in it. It got as far as getting ours cloths off hand all over each other. " So did you stroke each other? | |||
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"Yeah maybe your right tbh. I just got abit caught up in it. It got as far as getting ours cloths off hand all over each other. So did you stroke each other?" Lol. Everyone is slowly teasing out the details | |||
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"Yeah we was stroking and grinding on each other " So how did this not go further, did you stop it? | |||
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"Yeah maybe your right tbh. I just got abit caught up in it. It got as far as getting ours cloths off hand all over each other. So did you stroke each other? Lol. Everyone is slowly teasing out the details " I think that's what the op wants x | |||
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"Haha yeah I wimped out. It's a big thing once you cross that line you can't go back lol you've done it. " Sounds like you've crossed a line you don't want to go back to. Welcome Now you can really enjoy life | |||
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"oh let him fuck ya silly n enjoy a nice hands free orgasm oh n don't forget to scream like a bitch " Scream? That's where I keep going wrong. I just breathe really heavily and beg them to fuck me even harder | |||
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"oh let him fuck ya silly n enjoy a nice hands free orgasm oh n don't forget to scream like a bitch Scream? That's where I keep going wrong. I just breathe really heavily and beg them to fuck me even harder " oh darling I never beg | |||
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"I have a new neighbour who just moved next door. He looks a bit unfriendly shaved head tattoo a bit stocky. So when he came on to me last week it was shocked. He's been living there about 4 months and we would give each other the nod how you doing mate. I have a boxing bag in my back yard and I'm usually thumping it when I can't get to the gym. One day when he walked past the hedge he asked how long I'd been boxing he said he had always fancied giving it ago. I've been boxing a while now and I've got all the gear so I said if he wanted we could do a bit of 1-1. I've been teaching him to box now for about 3 weeks. Last Saturday he said if I weren't busy I should come over for a drink. I popped round and we was just chatting having a few drinks. Then he dropped a bomb that he was gay and he fancied me. I've never done owt with another bloke before but the next thing I know we where locking lips and up the stairs. I wimped out before owt to serious happened and now I've been avoiding him like the plague. But I can't get it off my mind. What do you thinks the best thing to do?" Hold the centre of the ring and gradually wear him down with your left jab. When his arms tire work on the rib cage and kidneys.... | |||
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"Haha yeah I wimped out. It's a big thing once you cross that line you can't go back lol you've done it. " How big is big? Seriously though, it sounds like you're curious but just scared to take it further. Talk to him, explain that you've never done anything with a man before and if you're confused about it all, tell him. He's probably feeling a bit confused too so you need to clear the air. Good luck | |||
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"I have a new neighbour who just moved next door. He looks a bit unfriendly shaved head tattoo a bit stocky. So when he came on to me last week it was shocked. He's been living there about 4 months and we would give each other the nod how you doing mate. I have a boxing bag in my back yard and I'm usually thumping it when I can't get to the gym. One day when he walked past the hedge he asked how long I'd been boxing he said he had always fancied giving it ago. I've been boxing a while now and I've got all the gear so I said if he wanted we could do a bit of 1-1. I've been teaching him to box now for about 3 weeks. Last Saturday he said if I weren't busy I should come over for a drink. I popped round and we was just chatting having a few drinks. Then he dropped a bomb that he was gay and he fancied me. I've never done owt with another bloke before but the next thing I know we where locking lips and up the stairs. I wimped out before owt to serious happened and now I've been avoiding him like the plague. But I can't get it off my mind. What do you thinks the best thing to do?" lol you've made all this up aint ya | |||
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"1) Buy lube 2) Let me watch please " women watching would be the ultimate sexual yes yes | |||
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"I have a new neighbour who just moved next door. He looks a bit unfriendly shaved head tattoo a bit stocky. So when he came on to me last week it was shocked. He's been living there about 4 months and we would give each other the nod how you doing mate. I have a boxing bag in my back yard and I'm usually thumping it when I can't get to the gym. One day when he walked past the hedge he asked how long I'd been boxing he said he had always fancied giving it ago. I've been boxing a while now and I've got all the gear so I said if he wanted we could do a bit of 1-1. I've been teaching him to box now for about 3 weeks. Last Saturday he said if I weren't busy I should come over for a drink. I popped round and we was just chatting having a few drinks. Then he dropped a bomb that he was gay and he fancied me. I've never done owt with another bloke before but the next thing I know we where locking lips and up the stairs. I wimped out before owt to serious happened and now I've been avoiding him like the plague. But I can't get it off my mind. What do you thinks the best thing to do? lol you've made all this up aint ya" | |||
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"oh let him fuck ya silly n enjoy a nice hands free orgasm oh n don't forget to scream like a bitch Scream? That's where I keep going wrong. I just breathe really heavily and beg them to fuck me even harder oh darling I never beg " I can't help it mid shag. Sometimes i whimper too. They seem to like that | |||
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"I have to say initially I thought this belonged in the stories and fantasy section/ or the dear dreary column in the newspaper. Part of me wants to take the role of agony aunt and say bla bla bla contact gay switchboard/don't shit on yr own doorstep etc but the 'swinger' in me is once again shocked that people join an adult site with what sounds like inexperience/naivety of what is surely a basic adolescent experience. I did enjoy the 'story' tho despite being as confused as you with it... " He also put it in the Stories/Fantasy section, so on that basis I believe that is exactly what it is!!! | |||
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"Just take the plunge, you got half way if not three quarters of the way. Take a deep breath buy beers go over with boxing gear have little train and see how it works out " 3/4 of the way, I didn't realise there'd been any penetration at all | |||
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"Just a thought for those doubting if this is a true story; the thought behind it is obvious, surely? This is a guy asking for our advice because he is dealing with a curiosity that he's unsure of. Let's not start another forum assassination, please. " Well said! J x | |||
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"Just a thought for those doubting if this is a true story; the thought behind it is obvious, surely? This is a guy asking for our advice because he is dealing with a curiosity that he's unsure of. Let's not start another forum assassination, please. Well said! J x " hmmm,,well that's lovely but no ones assassinating him over his sexuality although I did see quite a few jokes about bending over n stuff so me thinky its not the best place to seek advice is it. my advice,ya gotta be true to yerself,but as for emerging from the closet, I know nothing ive never been in the closet. | |||
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"It is a story I thought it would be more suited there but no one replied. " Is this part of your book op? (green arrow) | |||
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"Can he beat you in a fight if it all goes pear shaped? " Not wishing to get another forum ban by saying too much but it's surprising how quickly a meet can go pear shaped. I'm strong and know how to defend myself but it still went pear shaped. I'll say no more. | |||
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"1) Buy lube 2) Let me watch please " can i watch too--i can sing ooh to ooh to be ooh to be a gooner with shortie so that should take your mind of things | |||
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"What ever happened, the OP has left the site " His gay neighbour has kidnapped him and is being held a sex slave!! | |||
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"He inboxed me yesterday.. Lol" What did you say to him to make him leave? | |||
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"He inboxed me yesterday.. Lol What did you say to him to make him leave? " He inboxed me as soon as I posted with a pic of himself. Another tgirl pointed out to me how much he looked like the neighbour he described. (He also inboxed her with a pic.). | |||
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"I have a new neighbour who just moved next door. He looks a bit unfriendly shaved head tattoo a bit stocky. So when he came on to me last week it was shocked. He's been living there about 4 months and we would give each other the nod how you doing mate. I have a boxing bag in my back yard and I'm usually thumping it when I can't get to the gym. One day when he walked past the hedge he asked how long I'd been boxing he said he had always fancied giving it ago. I've been boxing a while now and I've got all the gear so I said if he wanted we could do a bit of 1-1. I've been teaching him to box now for about 3 weeks. Last Saturday he said if I weren't busy I should come over for a drink. I popped round and we was just chatting having a few drinks. Then he dropped a bomb that he was gay and he fancied me. I've never done owt with another bloke before but the next thing I know we where locking lips and up the stairs. I wimped out before owt to serious happened and now I've been avoiding him like the plague. But I can't get it off my mind. What do you thinks the best thing to do?" Move! I guess you gave with UNLOS | |||
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"1) Buy lube 2) Let me watch please Bend over and brace yourself, you might like it!!" You know the old saying "BEND OVER AND TAKE IT LIKE A MAN" I love it especially rough and hard mmmmmm | |||
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