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By *herryBlossoms OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester

Hi guys, I'm looking for a meet soon with a lady. Just v nervous about everything as I'm really shy - you can probably tell by my profile information!

Any advice about the club nights too? I'd love to go, can you watch to see if you like it? Help?! B xx

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Your profile is a bit confusing whether you wish to meet with him or just you and a lady?

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"I'm really shy - you can probably tell by my profile information!

B xx"

if you'd like a drink with a "normal" cpl we're free next saturday..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is nervous - it's perfectly normal

Be clear in your profile about what you are looking for and honest about being shy. To be honest your profile is pretty poor and it is your shop window

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By *herryBlossoms OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Your profile is a bit confusing whether you wish to meet with him or just you and a lady?

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Just updated, hopefully it'll make a little sense! Sorry Hun xx

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By *herryBlossoms OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Everyone is nervous - it's perfectly normal

Be clear in your profile about what you are looking for and honest about being shy. To be honest your profile is pretty poor and it is your shop window

"

What do I need to change?

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By *herryBlossoms OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"I'm really shy - you can probably tell by my profile information!

B xx

if you'd like a drink with a "normal" cpl we're free next saturday.. "

Awh Hun, I'm working

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Everyone is nervous - it's perfectly normal

Be clear in your profile about what you are looking for and honest about being shy. To be honest your profile is pretty poor and it is your shop window

What do I need to change? "

Nothing as far as I can see but I'm curious, odd boobs?

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By *herryBlossoms OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester


"Everyone is nervous - it's perfectly normal

Be clear in your profile about what you are looking for and honest about being shy. To be honest your profile is pretty poor and it is your shop window

What do I need to change?

Nothing as far as I can see but I'm curious, odd boobs? "

Haha! They're not very odd - I think they're called tubular or something? I think I'm just comparing them to pornstar boobs too - not a good idea haha! Xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Everyone is nervous - it's perfectly normal

Be clear in your profile about what you are looking for and honest about being shy. To be honest your profile is pretty poor and it is your shop window

What do I need to change? "

Personally I think you need a couples profile if your boyfriend is being included at any point.

Apart from that I would say that it sounds quite negative with regard to your opinion of yourself and you need to say a little more about what you're looking for with another woman.

Good luck

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By *herryBlossoms OP   Woman
over a year ago

leicester

Thanks guys, all means a lot! This is what I needed ^_^ xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it makes you feel better I still get nervous before meeting ...

There are quite a lot of social events coming up in and around the Midlands..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

clubs are fun ,, and you only do what you want to do if thats to watch then fine ,, there is never any pressure to play and a great place to socialise with others ,,

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"clubs are fun ,, and you only do what you want to do if thats to watch then fine ,, there is never any pressure to play and a great place to socialise with others ,, "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are great to meet people, with zero expected of people. There's always clubs too, though they may be a little daunting. Have a look for socials on the forums, or at clubs - I know xtasia do them from time to time

Sure you'll be fine when you meet the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone gets nervous. When I am i gibber on and on

Nerves are a good thing though. Embrace them and enjoy the excitement

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nerves are a good thing - it's a sign you are human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous too

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Hi guys, I'm looking for a meet soon with a lady. Just v nervous about everything as I'm really shy - you can probably tell by my profile information!

Any advice about the club nights too? I'd love to go, can you watch to see if you like it? Help?! B xx"

You can go to clubs and just watch if you want to there is no rule that says you have to play. Just have a drink at the bar and socialise with people on your first visit and then i'm sure it will get easier from there. Good luck.

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