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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it common to have a "no kissing" rule?

They've said once I've had the other guys cock in my mouth they won't kiss me, makes sense, but is that normal MMF etiquette? I'm used to FFMs lol.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Is it common to have a "no kissing" rule?

They've said once I've had the other guys cock in my mouth they won't kiss me, makes sense, but is that normal MMF etiquette? I'm used to FFMs lol. "

To some maybe, others wont mind. Personally, if the other guy hasnt cum in your mouth then I'd kiss you after xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds more like an mfm rather than an mmf! Come to the fun side! Leave those boring straights alone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I absolutely adore kissing, so i am a little disappointed to hear that they won't do it, but i respect their boundaries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha yes it seems I'll be staying in the middle!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Is it common to have a "no kissing" rule?

They've said once I've had the other guys cock in my mouth they won't kiss me, makes sense, but is that normal MMF etiquette? I'm used to FFMs lol. "

I've not had that before. Do they think they'll catch teh ghey or something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it common to have a "no kissing" rule?

They've said once I've had the other guys cock in my mouth they won't kiss me, makes sense, but is that normal MMF etiquette? I'm used to FFMs lol.

I've not had that before. Do they think they'll catch teh ghey or something? "

probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just make sure all the cums away, then I'll kiss lol

to be honest if they are that worried about it its quite unlikely theyd be comfortable in an mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met a guy who wouldn't kiss me after I'd had his own cock in my mouth... Which I didn't find out until after I'd had a bit of a foreplay suck. Killed the mood for me so had to end the meet as I kiss without thinking. I have two suggestions for you... The first is to not suck either cock to keep the kissing going and the second to search for more open minded guys! Both are probably a bit selfish but will you enjoy yourself if you have to consciously stop yourself from going for a kiss?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I respect the fact that they told me beforehand, and i think now that I know i wont try, I love kissing but can do without, my last MMF one was a kisser the other wasn't, and i got used to it. I'll see how it goes i guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be doing with rules like that

Plenty of people that are happy to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see it but not experienced it... we insist that kissing is part of the play.

it was suggested that prostitutes would have a no kissing rule. That I grasp but when playing setting that as a rule because it is 'too personal' just seems strange.

having said all that we think respecting boundaries is basic courtesy and choosing to not meet someone with that rule is a simple solution...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem Kissing Juggs during MMF play whether she's had a cock in her mouth or not, It'd be too stop and start if she had to brush her teeth every 5 minutes.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I don't have a problem Kissing Juggs during MMF play whether she's had a cock in her mouth or not, It'd be too stop and start if she had to brush her teeth every 5 minutes."

I've no problem kissing Fox 'when' she's got a cock in her mouth - let alone had!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't worry me at all - any time including after when a guy's cum. It's all about pleasure for the woman in an MMF (for me) and so whatever she wants is just dandy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a good bye I'll find 2 other willing victims instead if it was me.

Paul's 100% straight we have had MFM with other straight guys who have all been happy to kiss me etc would be a boring meet otherwise. Paul's also had DVP another girl with her husband, who is also straight. The difference is some men are real men and aren't scared of being in close proximity of another cock!

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross


"Is it common to have a "no kissing" rule?

They've said once I've had the other guys cock in my mouth they won't kiss me, makes sense, but is that normal MMF etiquette? I'm used to FFMs lol. "

I have heard of it, usually where kissing is reserved for the couple only and the visitor is barred from kissing.

In your scenario it sounds like the guys are a bit uncomfortable about their own sexuality and nervous about accepting kissing lips that have touched cock.

That seems a shame and a loss for all.

From my own experience I have no sexual attraction to other guys, but I am also at ease with close/intimate contact with a guy when enjoying mfm.

I am guessing they will not be offering you DVP or even DP and numerous other experiences if contact via proxy makes them skittish.

Try it again with guys who are comfortable, I think you will find it a more fulfilling experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a problem Kissing Juggs during MMF play whether she's had a cock in her mouth or not, It'd be too stop and start if she had to brush her teeth every 5 minutes.

I've no problem kissing Fox 'when' she's got a cock in her mouth - let alone had!

A"

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Kissing is an essential for us and if there's a taste of cum or pussy on the lips, it adds to the thrill...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is an essential for us and if there's a taste of cum or pussy on the lips, it adds to the thrill... "

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing makes things more sensual and really turns me on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem kissing E after even when had a few in her mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it common to have a "no kissing" rule?

They've said once I've had the other guys cock in my mouth they won't kiss me, makes sense, but is that normal MMF etiquette? I'm used to FFMs lol. "

As long as you didn't have a mouthful of jizz then it wouldn't bother me in the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing makes things more sensual and really turns me on xx "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fully bi but don't enjoy kissing men who are hairy or spikey

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By *alsallstallionMan
over a year ago

walsall

No fun not kissing somr guys need to man up..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing makes things more sensual and really turns me on xx

This "
Thank you xxxx

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

So what are we saying,

Are these the same guys who don't kiss once a cock has been in your mouth, are the same guys who eat the baby cat which has had a cock in there.

Doh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it common to have a "no kissing" rule?

They've said once I've had the other guys cock in my mouth they won't kiss me, makes sense, but is that normal MMF etiquette? I'm used to FFMs lol. "

I share spermy kisses with my wife and its an errotic feeling, leeds onto more naughty fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't be doing with rules like that

Plenty of people that are happy to kiss "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds more like an mfm rather than an mmf! Come to the fun side! Leave those boring straights alone! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't be doing with rules like that

Plenty of people that are happy to kiss

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By *UN TIME COUPLECouple
over a year ago

redditch

Kissing all the way be it if your in mfm mmf mmff etc lol its all good an exciting fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. Tbh do u know where ppls mouths have been? Picking their nose and eating it or scratching their arse and.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a problem Kissing Juggs during MMF play whether she's had a cock in her mouth or not, It'd be too stop and start if she had to brush her teeth every 5 minutes.

I've no problem kissing Fox 'when' she's got a cock in her mouth - let alone had!

A "
That's the spirit tell them, no problem, you prefer kissing so you won't be sucking either of them off. See how they like those apples!

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge

To the op, any guy that wouldn't kiss you needs his head testing

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Is it common to have a "no kissing" rule?

They've said once I've had the other guys cock in my mouth they won't kiss me, makes sense, but is that normal MMF etiquette? I'm used to FFMs lol. "

Only once in a mmf or group situation has a man refused to kiss me.

Plenty of men are more than happy too...

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London & North Wessex Downs


"Is it common to have a "no kissing" rule?

They've said once I've had the other guys cock in my mouth they won't kiss me, makes sense, but is that normal MMF etiquette? I'm used to FFMs lol. "

Spoilsports! I'd be delighted to give you a long passionate snog whatever!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me either you have to go with the flow its fun fun fun kiss me so sexy love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and Etherreal nothing would stop me kissing you beautiful xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope it goes well for you op but theres no way I could have a meet like that, I kiss all the time I wouldn't want to suddenly stop kissing half way through.kissing is a mega turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i met a couple, and she didn't want to kiss me after i'd had her husbands cock in my mouth, that would be a bit off, probably spoil it a bit for me.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I can't be doing with rules like that

Plenty of people that are happy to kiss "

I don't regard it as a 'rule', more a preference? Good to mention things beforehand though.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I have met one couple where the lady didn't kiss full stop. I love to kiss, find it so erotic and a big part of the fun, so that wasn't the best night for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never experienced a rule like that if your having a MMF i would have thought kissing goes with out saying !!! or why not make a rule that kissing is a must then maybe you wont have any guys not wanting to kiss ?

i love kissing its a major turn on ! for me not being able to kiss would ruin the whole experience x

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