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By *he one in the middle OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I have been on fab a while now and do not seem to be getting meny meets I think it's more down to my age that puts people off

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I can think of at least one thing that's more likely putting people off than your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the fact your cheating on your wife have anything to do with it lol

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By *he one in the middle OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Please tell me then

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Please tell me then "

I do believe that the poster above just did tell you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Please tell me then "

You being married will put a lot of people off..not all by any means.

Maybe remove some of your cock pictures and if you can get a long to a club.

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By *he one in the middle OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Yes I had thought about that but thare are other people doing to when I have looked at profiles

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Yes I had thought about that but thare are other people doing to when I have looked at profiles "

And they're likely to be the ones not meeting as often as truly single blokes. Anyway, you've had meets. One quite recently too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes I had thought about that but thare are other people doing to when I have looked at profiles "

But its your profile that's important to you not other peoples.

Be truthful, message people and as I said try and get to a club

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

I really dont think its your age thats off putting here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 53 and doing ok thanks. But then again I am single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have actually done a lot better than some of the single guys on here. A lot of women won't meet attached men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid marrieds and attached if i can and im 59 but have great fun on fab but prefer singles

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Yes I had thought about that but thare are other people doing to when I have looked at profiles

And they're likely to be the ones not meeting as often as truly single blokes. Anyway, you've had meets. One quite recently too."

It's funny how the ladies cheating on their hubbys have no such problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont look at womens profiles do they say they are married then most men dont they just pop it in if a meets arranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really is difficult when someone admits they are playing away .

On the one hand , they are being honest like the op .

On the other one risks the wrath of the innocent partner if they find out !

As we have met plenty of singles ? we know many are probably not single , and may be in the same position as the op . Not our problem tbh ,and perhaps we are helping them stay together by enjoying genuine NSA sex ?

Who knows ? What I would say is that none of us know each and every circumstance , and it's not for us to judge others . We applaud those who are honest , so at least choices can be made by those whose moral judgement may be offended , are aware of the facts

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I have been on fab a while now and do not seem to be getting meny meets I think it's more down to my age that puts people off "

You've had a dozen OP.

Why blame you're age? It could just as easily be something else - 9/10 of your pics being cocks, the points raised above - it could be anything.

You choose to blame your age. Others may have chosen something else.

A

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Yes I had thought about that but thare are other people doing to when I have looked at profiles

And they're likely to be the ones not meeting as often as truly single blokes. Anyway, you've had meets. One quite recently too.

It's funny how the ladies cheating on their hubbys have no such problems "

I wouldn't know. Although I wouldn't meet a married woman either.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Yes I think it's your age, I'm fast approaching 65 too and I haven't had a meet since Wednesday.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes I think it's your age, I'm fast approaching 65 too and I haven't had a meet since Wednesday. "

You're slipping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nicecouple

Beautiful profile ????

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Yes I think it's your age, I'm fast approaching 65 too and I haven't had a meet since Wednesday.

You're slipping "

I know, it's my age I think.

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By *lack rob in hoodMan
over a year ago

London

Your age can be an issue if you make it an issue. My advice is for you to hit the clubs and parties to develop relationships. Your physical presence counts. Use FS to augment and improve your real world experiences.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nicecouple

Beautiful profile ????"

Thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes I think it's your age, I'm fast approaching 65 too and I haven't had a meet since Wednesday.

You're slipping

I know, it's my age I think. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yawnnnnnn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really is difficult when someone admits they are playing away .

On the one hand , they are being honest like the op .

On the other one risks the wrath of the innocent partner if they find out !

As we have met plenty of singles ? we know many are probably not single , and may be in the same position as the op . Not our problem tbh ,and perhaps we are helping them stay together by enjoying genuine NSA sex ?

Who knows ? What I would say is that none of us know each and every circumstance , and it's not for us to judge others . We applaud those who are honest , so at least choices can be made by those whose moral judgement may be offended , are aware of the facts

"

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By *iuliettaWoman
over a year ago

DEVIZES

well since you have a verification from a 23 year old, age doesnt seem to be the issue!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"yawnnnnnn"

are we keeping you up?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"yawnnnnnn

are we keeping you up? "

You can keep me up anytime.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"yawnnnnnn

are we keeping you up?

You can keep me up anytime. "

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I have been on fab a while now and do not seem to be getting meny meets I think it's more down to my age that puts people off "
As you have seven verifications , I am uncertain as to how many meets you are expecting. What is your target number .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PSML !!!!!!!!

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"i dont look at womens profiles do they say they are married then most men dont they just pop it in if a meets arranged"

Some of us are upfront about it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your age does put me off.

and the married thing.

but i do like your profile, think the pics are good and the honesty on it makes you seem very sincere and i'm sure people will find that attractive as part of your whole package.

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By *antonkid1955Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I'm 59...also married...I haven't had a meet since Friday..sigh..and I choose not to be veried..age and status has nothing to do with not getting meets..it must be something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really dont think its your age thats off putting here."

ouch

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"your age does put me off.

and the married thing.

but i do like your profile, think the pics are good and the honesty on it makes you seem very sincere and i'm sure people will find that attractive as part of your whole package. "

Is this for the OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your age does put me off.

and the married thing.

but i do like your profile, think the pics are good and the honesty on it makes you seem very sincere and i'm sure people will find that attractive as part of your whole package.

Is this for the OP?"

sorry for any confusion but yes it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good, honest profile - we all have our different reasons for being here.

I thought that one of the ideas of swinging was to break away from what are seen as traditional taboos and enjoy sex and sensuality with other like-minded souls?

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"your age does put me off.

and the married thing.

but i do like your profile, think the pics are good and the honesty on it makes you seem very sincere and i'm sure people will find that attractive as part of your whole package.

Is this for the OP?

sorry for any confusion but yes it was."

That's OK. I wasn't sure if you were talking about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your age does put me off.

and the married thing.

but i do like your profile, think the pics are good and the honesty on it makes you seem very sincere and i'm sure people will find that attractive as part of your whole package.

Is this for the OP?

sorry for any confusion but yes it was.

That's OK. I wasn't sure if you were talking about me. "

no worries, yeah it was right underneath your comment now i look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I had thought about that but thare are other people doing to when I have looked at profiles

And they're likely to be the ones not meeting as often as truly single blokes. Anyway, you've had meets. One quite recently too.

It's funny how the ladies cheating on their hubbys have no such problems "

I do have such problems. You would be surprised how many men wont meet up. Plenty look but never message, so I am assuming my marital status is offputting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont look at womens profiles do they say they are married then most men dont they just pop it in if a meets arranged"

My profile states im married. When ive asked men, whose profile states cannot accommodate if they are married, they invariably say yes and its not in their profile.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"Yes I had thought about that but thare are other people doing to when I have looked at profiles

And they're likely to be the ones not meeting as often as truly single blokes. Anyway, you've had meets. One quite recently too.

It's funny how the ladies cheating on their hubbys have no such problems

I do have such problems. You would be surprised how many men wont meet up. Plenty look but never message, so I am assuming my marital status is offputting "

You also have an age restriction that has prevented me from sending you a message. That could be the main reason for men looking with no message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll probably be pushing up daisies at 65 - much less fucking 23 year olds, OP - so could be worse, eh?

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