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"Hi I'm new to this site and am looking for meets anyone got any advice on meeting the right people and not people that aren't clean hygienically as my health is most important , thanks " Ask them to go on cam and do the following. 1/look at the background. 2/Fingernails and ingrained dirt check them on cam. 3/Ask how often they change their pants. 4/Be blunt ask if they are a grubby bastard! | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that " It's ok, people who have sti's always wear a scarf so that you know they are "unclean"... Only joking! Lol! leave now. | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that It's ok, people who have sti's always wear a scarf so that you know they are "unclean"... Only joking! Lol! leave now." Why should he leave? You need to get a grip the guy is only asking a question not to be told to leave! | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that It's ok, people who have sti's always wear a scarf so that you know they are "unclean"... Only joking! Lol! leave now. Why should he leave? You need to get a grip the guy is only asking a question not to be told to leave! " Ok you tell him how he will spot people who have an STI. | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that It's ok, people who have sti's always wear a scarf so that you know they are "unclean"... Only joking! Lol! leave now. Why should he leave? You need to get a grip the guy is only asking a question not to be told to leave! Ok you tell him how he will spot people who have an STI. " I am not going to pick on the guy as he isn't a forum regular what are you trying to do join bully club here! | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that It's ok, people who have sti's always wear a scarf so that you know they are "unclean"... Only joking! Lol! leave now. Why should he leave? You need to get a grip the guy is only asking a question not to be told to leave! Ok you tell him how he will spot people who have an STI. I am not going to pick on the guy as he isn't a forum regular what are you trying to do join bully club here! " Well only if you accept my application... | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that It's ok, people who have sti's always wear a scarf so that you know they are "unclean"... Only joking! Lol! leave now. Why should he leave? You need to get a grip the guy is only asking a question not to be told to leave! Ok you tell him how he will spot people who have an STI. I am not going to pick on the guy as he isn't a forum regular what are you trying to do join bully club here! Well only if you accept my application..." You need to try a little harder as that's a poor attempt I guess you must be one of those TV program watchers you are so fond of. Full marks though for picking on a new poster I hope you are proud of your self for goading him its so so so clever of you. | |||
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"Hi I'm new to this site and am looking for meets anyone got any advice on meeting the right people and not people that aren't clean hygienically as my health is most important , thanks " What would you do when meeting people in real life? | |||
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"Hi I'm new to this site and am looking for meets anyone got any advice on meeting the right people and not people that aren't clean hygienically as my health is most important , thanks What would you do when meeting people in real life?" WHAT ! There is a real life outside of here ? Really ? I wish someone had told us sooner | |||
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"Hi I'm new to this site and am looking for meets anyone got any advice on meeting the right people and not people that aren't clean hygienically as my health is most important , thanks What would you do when meeting people in real life?" Oh FFS! I was just going to bloody ask that!!! OP - people on here aren't any different from those you meet in the street/pub/tesco (other supermarkets are available). Use whatever methods to stay safe and assess others as you have so far in your life. There's no other way! A | |||
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" OP - people on here aren't any different from those you meet in the street/pub/tesco (other supermarkets are available). " Just don't shag your best mates mam behind the trolleys in Morrisons. That got one forumite into a right pickle | |||
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"Your could turn up in an Ebola suit " Lmao can't get rid of that pic in my head | |||
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" OP - people on here aren't any different from those you meet in the street/pub/tesco (other supermarkets are available). Just don't shag your best mates mam behind the trolleys in Morrisons. That got one forumite into a right pickle " It wasn't my fault. It was dark, didn't realise I'd picked up a gherkin not a cucumber. You loved it really. | |||
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"I do think the ops opinion reading between the lines is that he considers swingers to be more susceptible to stis than people who don't swing . In truth we are probably more aware and safety conscious therefore he may have the wrong impression from the off " | |||
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"I do think the ops opinion reading between the lines is that he considers swingers to be more susceptible to stis than people who don't swing . In truth we are probably more aware and safety conscious therefore he may have the wrong impression from the off " Have you lot been reading the forums lately? There is a massive amount of misinformation out there. | |||
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"Meet ppl who have been verified more than twice and always use a condom,, no glove no love baby xx " Hi, I have not been verified as I'm very cautious about who do I meet. In fact have not met yet as didn't find right people. Agree with you no glove no love | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that " Never have sex again and you may just be ok | |||
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"Hi I'm new to this site and am looking for meets anyone got any advice on meeting the right people and not people that aren't clean hygienically as my health is most important , thanks Ask them to go on cam and do the following. 1/look at the background. 2/Fingernails and ingrained dirt check them on cam. 3/Ask how often they change their pants. 4/Be blunt ask if they are a grubby bastard!" | |||
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"OP: welcome to the forums As swinging is a past-time that can take up a lot of time and effort, you can bet your boots that most people will have their own sexual health and levels of hygiene high up on their agenda of important things. Make sure you a careful as you'd expect other people to be. Just having a wank on cam is pretty safe - at least I always thought so until my lubed up right hand slipped right off and bopped myself on the chin. " Steve, a big kiss for your sore chin (and don't try the ouch my cock really hurts line coz I'm not falling for it!) OP, like all of us you are responsible for your sexual health. Set your own "standards" as to who you will play with and make sure you protect yourself. Bear in mind that however often someone visits the GUM clinic to be tested, the test results are only good for the day the tests are taken - you have no guarantees as to how those people play between tests so don't be misled into thinking those who test regularly are safe!! Sex is supposed to be fun, if concern for your wellbeing overrides that then maybe this site is not for you - there is no such thing as 100% safe sex but we all take calculated risks in life, this is just one of them x | |||
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"Hi I'm new to this site and am looking for meets anyone got any advice on meeting the right people and not people that aren't clean hygienically as my health is most important , thanks Ask them to go on cam and do the following. 1/look at the background. 2/Fingernails and ingrained dirt check them on cam. 3/Ask how often they change their pants. 4/Be blunt ask if they are a grubby bastard!" Once recieved a pic from a potential meet and it looked as though there was a 3 course meal under finger nails. Needles to say the meet failed somehow to materialise | |||
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" OP I'm not going to say that last night I wasn't d*unk and low on patience because I was exactly that, but I've seen posts like this before and they always tick me off, even when I'm sober. " Then ignore those posts | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that Never have sex again and you may just be ok " Are there people who DO want STIs? | |||
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"Hi I'm new to this site and am looking for meets anyone got any advice on meeting the right people and not people that aren't clean hygienically as my health is most important , thanks " Only you can judge who the right people are for you and only you can be responsible for your sexual health. Treat the site as you would if you were trying to hook up with people in the real world. Be safe, polite, respectful - everyone on here (in the main) in a living, breathing, functioning human being. Just because this is a swingers site doesn't mean you have entered some dark, underground place where rules don't apply. Use your common sense - I'm assuming you've not been locked up in a cellar until you logged onto here. So act sensibly and don't treat this as a knocking shop and you hopefully will be fine. | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that Never have sex again and you may just be ok Are there people who DO want STIs?" Maybe if they're addicted to antibiotics To the OP, there are many people on here who are paranoid about catching STIs. The only thing you can do is use condoms and get tested regularly. Take responsibility for your own sexual health. If you were talking about general hygiene, just hose them down before sex. | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that It's ok, people who have sti's always wear a scarf so that you know they are "unclean"... Only joking! Lol! leave now. Why should he leave? You need to get a grip the guy is only asking a question not to be told to leave! Ok you tell him how he will spot people who have an STI. " I wear clamydia on my head to show i have it so steer clear | |||
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" OP I'm not going to say that last night I wasn't d*unk and low on patience because I was exactly that, but I've seen posts like this before and they always tick me off, even when I'm sober. Then ignore those posts " Where's the fun in that?! | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that Never have sex again and you may just be ok Are there people who DO want STIs?" Must be | |||
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" OP I'm not going to say that last night I wasn't d*unk and low on patience because I was exactly that, but I've seen posts like this before and they always tick me off, even when I'm sober. Then ignore those posts Where's the fun in that?! " | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that " see... someone hit on the point in the thread flippantly by said something... the only way to 100% avoid sti's is to never have sex....... everything else is about risk management.... even condoms if you have ever read the side of a packet are 98% safe... they have been known the split I think the inferance that "swingers aren't clean" is the one that ticked off a lot of people..... but lets go back to "risk management".... for example crossing a road... now, it is never going to be 100% safe crossing a road... but there are places where it is probably safer (lets say a zebra crossing) than others (a 6 lane motorway) it is about judging those risks and acting accordingly... | |||
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"I use my hotlist to keep track of those not to touch with a bargepole. A localish bareback couple frequently post statuses like 'cant play this week should be safe next week ' and 'all cleared up now who wants to play '. Makes me gag! " Maybe she was talking about her period. | |||
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"I just don't want any STI's fuck that " Cleanliness and hygiene have nothing to do with STIs | |||
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"OP: welcome to the forums As swinging is a past-time that can take up a lot of time and effort, you can bet your boots that most people will have their own sexual health and levels of hygiene high up on their agenda of important things. Make sure you a careful as you'd expect other people to be. Just having a wank on cam is pretty safe - at least I always thought so until my lubed up right hand slipped right off and bopped myself on the chin. " Jeez Steve! Sounds painful!! I always thought the knobbly bit on the end was designed to stop your hand flying off! You must have a right arm like Kournikova!! A | |||
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"I use my hotlist to keep track of those not to touch with a bargepole. A localish bareback couple frequently post statuses like 'cant play this week should be safe next week ' and 'all cleared up now who wants to play '. Makes me gag! Maybe she was talking about her period." She's very frequent if so! | |||
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"Your could turn up in an Ebola suit Lmao can't get rid of that pic in my head " don't forget to write your name on the hood..lol | |||
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"I do think the ops opinion reading between the lines is that he considers swingers to be more susceptible to stis than people who don't swing . In truth we are probably more aware and safety conscious therefore he may have the wrong impression from the off " Hahaha | |||
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"Meet ppl who have been verified more than twice and always use a condom,, no glove no love baby xx " | |||
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"I use my hotlist to keep track of those not to touch with a bargepole. A localish bareback couple frequently post statuses like 'cant play this week should be safe next week ' and 'all cleared up now who wants to play '. Makes me gag! Maybe she was talking about her period. She's very frequent if so! " Happens to my wife every month! | |||
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"I use my hotlist to keep track of those not to touch with a bargepole. A localish bareback couple frequently post statuses like 'cant play this week should be safe next week ' and 'all cleared up now who wants to play '. Makes me gag! Maybe she was talking about her period. She's very frequent if so! Happens to my wife every month!" Yeah not every 10 days.. | |||
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