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By *habs OP   Man
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

So you've been chatting to a gir you know for some time, and she's made it ckear she wants to meet. Problem is yes you have a good laugh together, but you don't see her as anything more. Question(s):

1. How did you tell the last girl you didnt fancy her/didn't think it was a good idea/just didn't see her that way?

2. How did she take it?

3. As you enjoy chatting with her, are you still in touch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.... A few that way.

Yes still in touch.

Works both ways too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good woman would take it straight on the chin, and carry on having a laugh.

Her

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

you could go psycho mode, you could go unkempt, you could go a bit aloof, a bit distant or unfunny - just generally put her off with your complicated man shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd appreciate it

Honesty

Rather than be strung along

Like lots on here do !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell her straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather have someone be honest with me than have me behave like a twat expecting a meet thats never going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is always the best policy. If they don't like it then fair enough. But it's better than leading someone on.

If someone wasn't attracted to me then I'd expect them to at least tell me so I can move on.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Id rather have someone be honest with me than have me behave like a twat expecting a meet thats never going to happen "

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"1. How did you tell the last girl you didnt fancy her/didn't think it was a good idea/just didn't see her that way?

2. How did she take it?

3. As you enjoy chatting with her, are you still in touch? "

It's difficult isn't it?

I'm sure many on here think all the guys are desperate when not all are.

In answer -

1. I simply told her I didn't think the sexual attraction was there that I was expecting (we had met before sexually 1st time and then again socially a year later).

2. She took it very well - we were both up-front that there's a possibility not meets work out.

3.We're no longer in touch. That's cool.

We're all adults and can take it, can't we?

I get rejected (too often) too and don't dwell.

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By *ust a TeaseMan
over a year ago

Earth

Friend zone this lady.

Next time your having a laugh. Just drop a little line in like, im glad your my friend, i like how we can have a good time like this.

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