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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here a while here lots of chats but no luck.any help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tweaking the profile might help Fella

Mr Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pic's are good, but ladies do read the profile, so put a bit more info x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just need more detail and a little patience

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

The pics aren't bad, but the profile blurb is very bland and half of it is cliché.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just need more detail and a little patience "

Maybe more text and fewer interests ticked......I prefer to pretend to be reasonably normal until I can lure a victim back to my lair.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is the profile better?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's better, but I'd suggest looking at some of the profiles in the forum. Not to nick anything, as that is infra-dig, but to get an idea as to length and content, as it is rather short. There is no ideal length, but 3-4 lines is a bit on the mini size, to my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 4 months, you're still a relative newcomer.

You have to bear in mind that us single guys massively outnumber women and couples, so, like i've told many other guys who've asked the same question, you need to make yourself stand out.

Your profile text could be improved. At the moment, it shows lack of effort and doesn't really distinguish you from most of the single male profiles.

I'd cut down on the cock pics too.

I'm not saying don't have any, but the subject has been discussed at length and at least 50% of the women (probably more) really aren't interested in seeing such pictures. Certainly not from every conceivable angle.

Out of your 17 pictures, 8 of them are of your cock. That's almost half of your pictures.

By contrast, I have 26 public pictures, only 3 of which show mine - and even then, some may consider that I have too many on show.

Look around the forums at the numerous other threads by single guys looking for advice and see if you can pick up any tips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile reads a bit like an ad you read in the papers - like you are counting the words as they charge per word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your "suck and fuck me now" status would put me off instantly. Sorry.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

What they ^^^^ said!

Plus.....

The status update won't help and listing yourself as straight but looking for TV/TS never seems to go down well.

A

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Sounds young and immature....I can't see any more mature female would be interested!

Manage your expectations and learn how to speak to women politely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could of tidied up your table lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here a while here lots of chats but no luck.any help?"

There are lots of single guys so lots of competition you need to work out how you can make yourself stand out from the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's shit

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire


"It's shit"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm. If you really can't see the problem(s), I would recommend getting some help. Quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same!!! Any advice is much Appriciated!

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