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By *lueWKD OP   Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Why do single guy's ask for a meet when they don't have any pictures on there profile. Would be nice to see who wants to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had a message from someone I've spoken to before and politely said no thanks but guess he forgot asking if I'd like to meet for fun, 3 bareback pics and 2 cock pics, no idea what he looks like!!

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By *he Fab FatherMan
over a year ago

hessle

To many men to many many men....we need some more girls in here .we need some more girls in here

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By *he Fab FatherMan
over a year ago

hessle


"I've just had a message from someone I've spoken to before and politely said no thanks but guess he forgot asking if I'd like to meet for fun, 3 bareback pics and 2 cock pics, no idea what he looks like!! "
mayb it's because hes a dick lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block guys without pics from contacting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"block guys without pics from contacting you"

There was a thread about guys with no pics getting through filters by putting a private pic public to enable them to message then immediately putting it back private. Admin commented that they are aware of this and working on a way to improve that particular filter.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"block guys without pics from contacting you

There was a thread about guys with no pics getting through filters by putting a private pic public to enable them to message then immediately putting it back private. Admin commented that they are aware of this and working on a way to improve that particular filter."

oh well, a wee way to minimise any angst, it ain't perfect

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By *lueWKD OP   Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Thanks _iew just done it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Thanks _iew just done it "

enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I know and the same goes for couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm finding lately a somewhat frustrating increase in female and couple profiles devoid of any pictures.

Some of them also devoid of much text.

Not that this appears to be hindering them in receiving messages though, from some of the comments I see.

It would seem that there are a number of single males who literally jump on any and every new profile.

I can imagine such a response must be quite scary.

Mind you, i've noticed a few profiles that i've messaged that no longer have pictures (although they did to begin with) and I can only assume that pictures have been taken down or moved to private in an effort to stem the flow of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can always ask for a pic !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Mind you, i've noticed a few profiles that i've messaged that no longer have pictures (although they did to begin with) and I can only assume that pictures have been taken down or moved to private in an effort to stem the flow of messages.

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Or, with the advent of tin eye etc. the fake pics on the fake profiles are getting spotted more easily?

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

There's many single guys with pics who ultimately show who they are to fems & cpls. It's just that some people will pic out whatever negative they can about single guys because thats their fix opportunity to kick singles

The amount of times I've been approached for a legitimate meet by a verified fem/couple who dont have any pics and refuse to show themselves is unneal. But when a single guy darez do it feck me it's headline material lmfao.

Lets be real, it's not all single guys that do that and it's not unique to them either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's many single guys with pics who ultimately show who they are to fems & cpls. It's just that some people will pic out whatever negative they can about single guys because thats their fix opportunity to kick singles

The amount of times I've been approached for a legitimate meet by a verified fem/couple who dont have any pics and refuse to show themselves is unneal. But when a single guy darez do it feck me it's headline material lmfao.

Lets be real, it's not all single guys that do that and it's not unique to them either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's many single guys with pics who ultimately show who they are to fems & cpls. It's just that some people will pic out whatever negative they can about single guys because thats their fix opportunity to kick singles

The amount of times I've been approached for a legitimate meet by a verified fem/couple who dont have any pics and refuse to show themselves is unneal. But when a single guy darez do it feck me it's headline material lmfao.

Lets be real, it's not all single guys that do that and it's not unique to them either.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can always ask for a pic ! "

exactly! I don't want to spread my face all over the site. Privacy is a huge thing.....just ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because if I put up a face pic someone will say I'm not discrete enough.

If I don't do a face pic someone will say I'm hiding something.

Cock pic is too vulgar,

No cock pic = small cock.

Basically you can't please everyone and as other people have said here; there are a lot more (percentage wise) single female and couple profiles on here without pics (and I love it when they DEMAND a face pic from u) or little to no text.

These problems are spread throughout this site and should be apportioned correctly

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Why do single guy's ask for a meet when they don't have any pictures on there profile. Would be nice to see who wants to meet you

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If I had a penny each time I was contacted by a couple (or even single female) with no face pic... I wouldn't need the lottery. But am not making a song and dance about - I simply delete and move on.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago


"Why do single guy's ask for a meet when they don't have any pictures on there profile. Would be nice to see who wants to meet you

If I had a penny each time I was contacted by a couple (or even single female) with no face pic... I wouldn't need the lottery. But am not making a song and dance about - I simply delete and move on. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's many single guys with pics who ultimately show who they are to fems & cpls. It's just that some people will pic out whatever negative they can about single guys because thats their fix opportunity to kick singles

The amount of times I've been approached for a legitimate meet by a verified fem/couple who dont have any pics and refuse to show themselves is unneal. But when a single guy darez do it feck me it's headline material lmfao.

Lets be real, it's not all single guys that do that and it's not unique to them either.

"
Yes correct we might be braking news on bbcs headlines soon lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blind date perhaps lol

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Why do single guy's ask for a meet when they don't have any pictures on there profile. Would be nice to see who wants to meet you

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Cause we aren't all hot looking hung studs and some of us are a little self concious about how we look and don't always feel comfortable sending a pic straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do single guy's ask for a meet when they don't have any pictures on there profile. Would be nice to see who wants to meet you

Cause we aren't all hot looking hung studs and some of us are a little self concious about how we look and don't always feel comfortable sending a pic straight away "

I don't mind a guy being shy, but expecting you to agree to a meet when you have no idea what they look like? I get messages from picture-less profiles, with no info in the profile, asking if Is like to meet?

I tend to reply "well, I have no idea, I don't know what you look like and don't know anything about you?"

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Why do single guy's ask for a meet when they don't have any pictures on there profile. Would be nice to see who wants to meet you

Cause we aren't all hot looking hung studs and some of us are a little self concious about how we look and don't always feel comfortable sending a pic straight away

I don't mind a guy being shy, but expecting you to agree to a meet when you have no idea what they look like? I get messages from picture-less profiles, with no info in the profile, asking if Is like to meet?

I tend to reply "well, I have no idea, I don't know what you look like and don't know anything about you?""

I agree with sending a pic for a meet else it is blind date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw c'mon. It's not just single guys. Many many single fems and couples do it too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do single guy's ask for a meet when they don't have any pictures on there profile. Would be nice to see who wants to meet you

If I had a penny each time I was contacted by a couple (or even single female) with no face pic... I wouldn't need the lottery. But am not making a song and dance about - I simply delete and move on. "

Succinctly put!

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo

I've been approached on PM by 3 guys this week asking how they can improve their profiles and approaches, in hopes of improving their chances of getting to meet people.

Simple advice about the type of pics they display, in fact actually displaying some for a start, telling us a little about themselves, not sending 'I wanna fuck u' messages, etc, etc.

I am proud to say that 2 of these 4 guys have been back in touch today saying that they've taken my advice on board and have actually had/arranged their first meet

Just call me your Auntie Sue

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By *ynxMan
over a year ago

Stafford

I've had couples and also single dudes with no pictures message me looking for a meet. I just say politely I'm afraid it's a no from me with out any pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can always ask for a pic !

exactly! I don't want to spread my face all over the site. Privacy is a huge thing.....just ask! "

I'm a munter so hide my face pic anyway

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

What I find baffling... when I ask saud female or couple if they have a face pic, most of the time the response includes the words "job" and "discretion".

To me I interprete that as them suggesting my job is not as important, ir they don't believe me to be discrete (undecided).

When I tell them I'd rather see face pics first, a get a nasty reply featuring the word "arrogant" and blocked. Amazing.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"block guys without pics from contacting you

There was a thread about guys with no pics getting through filters by putting a private pic public to enable them to message then immediately putting it back private. Admin commented that they are aware of this and working on a way to improve that particular filter."

That filter doesn't work for me - it's on, but I still get messages from people without public pics. I will virtually never reply, so it's a very poor strategy on their part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've only had one meet where the other party would not show their face pic and that was a couple. Never again.

We've only really encountered one problem with regards to pics. We have reached an impasse with a few single guys where they won't share a face pic before we do. We've walked away from those guys in case they are pic collectors. Our logic is that a single guy on a sex site isn't as frowned upon as a couple with kids on a sex site. That might be slightly unfair but we are upfront about it.

If a guy, or a couple, want to meet without showing a face pic then they must be setting themselves up for a fair bit of rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do single guy's ask for a meet when they don't have any pictures on there profile. Would be nice to see who wants to meet you

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wow that's a bit revolutionary thinking for us and rather ground breaking to. You mean its not the cock pictures that you really want but a face pic...Glad I read this whilst sitting down

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Why do single guy's ask for a meet when they don't have any pictures on there profile. Would be nice to see who wants to meet you

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Sadly there are lots of people in life who are devoid of any common sense . Completely pointless asking for a meet if you have no pictures on your profile . Some people will never learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've only had one meet where the other party would not show their face pic and that was a couple. Never again.

We've only really encountered one problem with regards to pics. We have reached an impasse with a few single guys where they won't share a face pic before we do. We've walked away from those guys in case they are pic collectors. Our logic is that a single guy on a sex site isn't as frowned upon as a couple with kids on a sex site. That might be slightly unfair but we are upfront about it.

If a guy, or a couple, want to meet without showing a face pic then they must be setting themselves up for a fair bit of rejection. "

That's the mystery, isn't it. Why would someone put themselves at risk of rejection in person. Blind optimism, maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To many men to many many men....we need some more girls in here .we need some more girls in here"

Funny!

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I send a pic attached to my message no profile pics

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Pics available upon request

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