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Updated my profile and not so sure!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, thought it was high time I updated my profile and I've been sitting for a while trying to get it right, us chaps are alway criticised for not using our imagination so I've done my best. I'm now worried I've gone over the top! I'm in the process of getting some new pics but if anyone Would be willing to take a look at the other bits and offer an opinion is be grateful.

I'll warn you it's a long one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thumbs up from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine. Not too long at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read your Profile and I think it's great. 10/10 for the big effort. Good luck, hope you get some good meets now x

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Great text . A lot of guys could learn from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really good profile text. Was a good read

Miss Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile. The force is strong with this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think your profile is too long, Toby, you've put into it possibly everything a potential new friend needs to know and, to me, you've used your intelligence to condense the information.

Your lucky to be hoping to meet up with ladies too, Toby, because I know most women DO take time to read what someone has cared enough to write.

I'm certain your words will intrigue and interest most readers.

(by the way, if you want the definition of 'long profile......' Mine slowly evolved into the epic it is today...!!!)

Best wishes to you, Toby.

Eva X

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is long lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh itsva good profile. Just get a variety of pics and your sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent progress my young Padwan. You have learned much during your time here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for your help and kind words! Its a relief it's ok actually!!

Any idea for the pics? I know that cock ones can be boring!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all very well set out, plain English and putting straight what people might be curious about. I even read right to the end, which entitles me to the patience of a saint award (NB "patience").

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heck....sorry Toby, I completely forgot to add....(I was half asleep earlier..!)....

"I think you'll do well to post two or three more (tasteful) pictures to your public gallery"

Yes...DO avoid the boringly ubiquitous 'willy' pics, I cannot understand why there's so many profiles with them.....

Most ladies know pretty well what one looks like..!!

Plus....I should think you'd be be well to leave something so personal to your ladies imagination...yes??

Take care, best of......luck...?

I think it's a little more than mere luck, Toby, this site is as successful as one wants it to be, in my honest opinion.

Eva XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone for your help and kind words! Its a relief it's ok actually!!

Any idea for the pics? I know that cock ones can be boring!!"

Personally - suit pics, chest, back and bum. Noooooo cock pics but set to private if people ask. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good effort young man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see a thread from a male that's not getting ripped to bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good read op your light sabre is not to far off young Jedi !!! The way to success I've found in this site is network network network I've just been on holiday had great wifi at hotel spent the whole day by the pool messaging women that interested me wrote a well worded message and from my week away I've come back with 7 new friends and 3 meets this week ( no I'm not bragging ) good luck fella you should do ok on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's all very well set out, plain English and putting straight what people might be curious about. I even read right to the end, which entitles me to the patience of a saint award (NB "patience"). "

Thanks for the advise and support everyone. Stay tuned for the pics, I'll have them up soon. I've had 47 profile views since I started this thread (I'm sure a lot of those are thanks to people reading this!) and a handful of winks so it has worked!! I'll be sure to check my spelling a bit better, it never has been my strong point haha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice to see a thread from a male that's not getting ripped to bits "

It's also quite refreshing to see a single male actually taking onboard some of the advice.

Nothing worse than the countless repeat threads that ask for advice, get given some good tips to ignore and ask the same question a few days later. They deserve being ripped

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo

Grabbed a coffee and the biccies, sat down ready to read your version of War & Peace.

Pleasantly surprised.

I loved the reference to being tied to your desk, it put very sexy images in my mind. Then as I reached the end of your profile, and your link back to the 'tied up' point, it definitely made me smile.

Very well thought out and composed.

There's only one MAJOR error .... you are way too young otherwise I would definitely have been winking and PMing you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Grabbed a coffee and the biccies, sat down ready to read your version of War & Peace.

Pleasantly surprised.

I loved the reference to being tied to your desk, it put very sexy images in my mind. Then as I reached the end of your profile, and your link back to the 'tied up' point, it definitely made me smile.

Very well thought out and composed.

There's only one MAJOR error .... you are way too young otherwise I would definitely have been winking and PMing you "

Why thank you _ussypuss, again that's another thing I'm coming up against, that and distance! I guess it's just people's personal preference. Love your pics by the way xx

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo

Awwww thank you Toby.

We all have the age and distance issues, but everything else about your profile was excellent (even with one or two spelling mistakes)

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

It looks good to me! Tells anyone reading it what they need to know. Should be more then enough info to decide if they want to meet or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read it, sorry but you're still not tempting me

Jokes aside though, all is better than average profiles

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By *inglecuckoldMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think too short is bad...maybe bullet points lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Awwww thank you Toby.

We all have the age and distance issues, but everything else about your profile was excellent (even with one or two spelling mistakes) "

oops need to get them sorted haha. Thank you though!!

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By *ilyflo1Woman
over a year ago

Horsham

Great smiling pic. Enjoyed the text too. Gold star from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok pics up, think I've got all the ones that were advised except a boxers and a bum one. I'm working on those now. What does everyone think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, thought it was high time I updated my profile and I've been sitting for a while trying to get it right, us chaps are alway criticised for not using our imagination so I've done my best. I'm now worried I've gone over the top! I'm in the process of getting some new pics but if anyone Would be willing to take a look at the other bits and offer an opinion is be grateful.

I'll warn you it's a long one!!!"

Think its brill and straight to the point xx perfect..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you! Really a confidence boost

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