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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How often do you meet?

Always a social first or just straight into it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It varies with no discernible pattern, sometimes a social, sometimes a social then sex same day, sometimes a social then sex at a later date or just a sex meet. Almost all involve a period of time chatting on here beforehand except one lady who sent me a fancy a fuck message to which I said yeah then she sent me her address.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight into it if a social came up though I wouldnt turn it down, it depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this year's anything to go by, an average of once every six months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as spear time allows or how horny we both are and what takes our fancy ,but always meet for a drink before piling straight in but what suits us is not suited to all

Enjoy one and all xx

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Usually socially first, but have been known to indulge in play after only chatting for a small while.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm lucky if I meet every 3 months, but always involves a social meet first after putting myself in a venerable situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social and chats all im good for. The only play is with my right hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe once a month maybe less,depends on whats going on in real life

All meets are a social to start with,theres never any promise of guaranteed play whether the meet starts in a coffee shop,a hotel bar or a swinging club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As often as spear time allows or how horny we both are and what takes our fancy ,but always meet for a drink before piling straight in but what suits us is not suited to all

Enjoy one and all xx"
Spear time? Not heard it called that before, very apt though

Sarah x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm lucky if I meet every 3 months, but always involves a social meet first after putting myself in a venerable situation "

Venerable is a good adjective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As often as spear time allows or how horny we both are and what takes our fancy ,but always meet for a drink before piling straight in but what suits us is not suited to all

Enjoy one and all xxSpear time? Not heard it called that before, very apt though

Sarah x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight into it, that's why I'm here lol.

I was having loads of meets (several a night, and not just from this site) but I calmed it down a bit to less than 5 a week, and right now I don't feel like meeting anyone, which is weird coz I like and want a lot of sex still, I don't understand what's going on with myself right now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Straight into it, that's why I'm here lol.

I was having loads of meets (several a night, and not just from this site) but I calmed it down a bit to less than 5 a week, and right now I don't feel like meeting anyone, which is weird coz I like and want a lot of sex still, I don't understand what's going on with myself right now."

Oh good I'm not alone with the straight into it multiple meets thing!!

I'm still fairly new to this site, though have began to calm down a little with the frequency

Having so much fun though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight into it , rarely if ever a social that doesn't end up as a play .

We get out 3 times a week , and have anything between one and six meets a night , depending on whether we are dogging or at a club .

Tonight we went dogging and met 3 guys from fab ( separately ) and 2 that weren't on here .

A cracking night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me straight into it, the same day preferable shag meet and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Oh good I'm not alone with the straight into it multiple meets thing!!

I'm still fairly new to this site, though have began to calm down a little with the frequency

Having so much fun though "

No not just you.

Nothing wrong with either way, whatever suits yourself really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nearly every week. No socials as they waste sex time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight into it, that's why I'm here lol.

I was having loads of meets (several a night, and not just from this site) but I calmed it down a bit to less than 5 a week, and right now I don't feel like meeting anyone, which is weird coz I like and want a lot of sex still, I don't understand what's going on with myself right now."

Have you fucked all thats worth fucking in Chorley then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight into it, that's why I'm here lol.

I was having loads of meets (several a night, and not just from this site) but I calmed it down a bit to less than 5 a week, and right now I don't feel like meeting anyone, which is weird coz I like and want a lot of sex still, I don't understand what's going on with myself right now.

Have you fucked all thats worth fucking in Chorley then? "

Doubt it. Most of them were from liverpool, bolton and preston anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Always a social first, no exceptions.

We meet quite rarely for one reason and another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight into it, that's why I'm here lol.

I was having loads of meets (several a night, and not just from this site) but I calmed it down a bit to less than 5 a week, and right now I don't feel like meeting anyone, which is weird coz I like and want a lot of sex still, I don't understand what's going on with myself right now.

Have you fucked all thats worth fucking in Chorley then? "

Also it's really rare that i meet with anyone who is actually from chorley, coz one guy wanted a relationship with me and i kept bumping into him everywhere so that put me off meeting anyone local.

Lol, also one of my dads mates wanted to hook up, that was creepy as well. Think im staying well clear of locals...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually do a 30 minute "social" chat just to make sure the chemistry is right for both. Then if both parties still up for it off to the bedroom.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Straight into it, that's why I'm here lol.

I was having loads of meets (several a night, and not just from this site) but I calmed it down a bit to less than 5 a week, and right now I don't feel like meeting anyone, which is weird coz I like and want a lot of sex still, I don't understand what's going on with myself right now.

Have you fucked all thats worth fucking in Chorley then?

Also it's really rare that i meet with anyone who is actually from chorley, coz one guy wanted a relationship with me and i kept bumping into him everywhere so that put me off meeting anyone local.

Lol, also one of my dads mates wanted to hook up, that was creepy as well. Think im staying well clear of locals..."

one of our children's mates wanted to hook up that's just one reason we don't meet locals

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Straight into it, that's why I'm here lol.

I was having loads of meets (several a night, and not just from this site) but I calmed it down a bit to less than 5 a week, and right now I don't feel like meeting anyone, which is weird coz I like and want a lot of sex still, I don't understand what's going on with myself right now.

Have you fucked all thats worth fucking in Chorley then?

Also it's really rare that i meet with anyone who is actually from chorley, coz one guy wanted a relationship with me and i kept bumping into him everywhere so that put me off meeting anyone local.

Lol, also one of my dads mates wanted to hook up, that was creepy as well. Think im staying well clear of locals...

one of our children's mates wanted to hook up that's just one reason we don't meet locals "

I don't meet locals either, I've recognised a few people that have messaged me.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"How often do you meet?

Always a social first or just straight into it?"

Not as much as I would like to! And a mix of both straight into it and having a drink and chat first.

When I first signed up to fab I went a bit wild, but it's just not sustainable as I have so much going on in my actual life

Once I get some free time I'm hoping to go a little crazy again for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight into it, that's why I'm here lol.

I was having loads of meets (several a night, and not just from this site) but I calmed it down a bit to less than 5 a week, and right now I don't feel like meeting anyone, which is weird coz I like and want a lot of sex still, I don't understand what's going on with myself right now.

Have you fucked all thats worth fucking in Chorley then?

Also it's really rare that i meet with anyone who is actually from chorley, coz one guy wanted a relationship with me and i kept bumping into him everywhere so that put me off meeting anyone local.

Lol, also one of my dads mates wanted to hook up, that was creepy as well. Think im staying well clear of locals...

one of our children's mates wanted to hook up that's just one reason we don't meet locals "

My kids are all under age, and so are their mates so i'm safe for now, lol.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"For me straight into it, the same day preferable shag meet and go "

"the 4 minute wonder"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me straight into it, the same day preferable shag meet and go

"the 4 minute wonder" "
Yes including foreplay lol.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"How often do you meet?

Always a social first or just straight into it?"

It varies, might be once a year or might be once a month. Depends on our free time and if there's anyone we want to meet.

We are more than happy to play on a first meet if everyone agrees. We meet with no expectations other than to hopefully enjoy each others company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often do you meet?

Always a social first or just straight into it?"

It depends for us. Any meet we have we like to have a cuppa before fun. We don't like to turn up fuckwits and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually do a 30 minute "social" chat just to make sure the chemistry is right for both. Then if both parties still up for it off to the bedroom."

This is my usual, but will do a coffee shop/pub meet on occasion, mainly with guys who won't swap phone numbers or I'm not quite sure of.

As for how often...as often as I can! Have done multiple meets in a day but only tend to do that if I can do one in the day and one in the evening as I don't like to rush meets... Although I have invited a fb round afterwards from time to time for a late night quickie if I'm still horny

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I social if the lady wants to, I prefer to get straight to it.

Meet as often as possible. In perfect world a couple of meets a week would be great.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"How often do you meet?

Always a social first or just straight into it?"

As a bloke; meets come in highs and lows, some months there is nothing at all, other times there is interest constantly. All come down to if you are their type (or they being yours) and if they are actually serious. And at the moment, I am in a cant be arsed phase of messaging.

I have only met socially 3 times - always got it on afterwards. The rest of my meets, first contact has been been at their doorstep. This is the only site too where I have actually met socially. Other sites I have been on have been right to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How often do you meet?

Always a social first or just straight into it?

As a bloke; meets come in highs and lows, some months there is nothing at all, other times there is interest constantly. All come down to if you are their type (or they being yours) and if they are actually serious. And at the moment, I am in a cant be arsed phase of messaging.

I have only met socially 3 times - always got it on afterwards. The rest of my meets, first contact has been been at their doorstep. This is the only site too where I have actually met socially. Other sites I have been on have been right to it. "

Yeah kind of agree with you on that at the moment I'm getting alot of interest but I put that down to putting in the effort messaging the women and couples that interest me and I interest them , I'm not knocking it I'm having the time of my life

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