FabSwingers.com forum: Asian man

By *uilty pleasurers OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

It's feels difficult for a Asian man to be approached, I have tried to talk to people in clubs. But get looks and dismissed. I am soclaible and out side the world of swinging no issues at all.

I know Asian people are not evenyones cup of tea, but to be ignored is makes me feel like I don't belong

I m British born and Britain is my home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's feels difficult for a Asian man to be approached, I have tried to talk to people in clubs. But get looks and dismissed. I am soclaible and out side the world of swinging no issues at all.

I know Asian people are not evenyones cup of tea, but to be ignored is makes me feel like I don't belong

I m British born and Britain is my home "

I know from personal experience that a few single Asian men let the side down by not respecting boundaries. I also have noticed that in some cases that people stick to their own i.e. Polish with polish, Asian with Asian. I'd hope it's nothing personal as judging by your photos your both good looking

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By *uilty pleasurers OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Thank you it's the few that think sex and woman are meat, my skin is my sin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is a white woman on his profile picture. Hm?

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By *uilty pleasurers OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

White woman with a Asian man and as a result if me she gets looks

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"It's feels difficult for a Asian man to be approached, I have tried to talk to people in clubs. But get looks and dismissed. I am soclaible and out side the world of swinging no issues at all.

I know Asian people are not evenyones cup of tea, but to be ignored is makes me feel like I don't belong

I m British born and Britain is my home "

I have no personal problem with Asian people, however when I'm hosting GBs I always ask is there anyone you don't want there. This covers age, body type and race, when it comes to sex we all have our own preferences and it's better not have someone at a 'do' who will be turned down by the lady or ladies. One of the main things I've had is 'no Asians.' The majority of women who've said this give the reason that they find Asian guys too 'pushy.'

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By *uilty pleasurers OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

I agree they are, we have had a few Asian guys trying to get pushy

I also agree that should not judge the few by the actions of many

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I agree they are, we have had a few Asian guys trying to get pushy

I also agree that should not judge the few by the actions of many "

I personally don't, but it is up to others to decide who they want to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's feels difficult for a Asian man to be approached, I have tried to talk to people in clubs. But get looks and dismissed. I am soclaible and out side the world of swinging no issues at all. "

How do you know being 'dismissed' had anything to do with you being Asian? Maybe they just didn't fancy you, as happens to many a white and black man.

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By *uilty pleasurers OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

That's true, although I have had comments like bloody Taliban

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By *ornstudMan
over a year ago

alnwick

"I agree they are, we have had a few Asian guys trying to get pushy

I also agree that should not judge the few by the actions of many "
if i was down your way id happyly come over and talk to you both no problam at all with Asian people .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's true, although I have had comments like bloody Taliban "

In that case you need to complain to the owners, that's not acceptable in anyway, just keep smiling continue to be friendly and chatty.

The people that care don't matter and the people that matter won't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your skin is not your sin.! It's other people's problem. If they don't like you for being who you are, it's their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people have problems with others for whatever reason it's their problem not you. To be honest I would say to you they are not the people you would wish to meet anyway. People are what they are big small black white. It's what's inside that counts . We have some fantastic friends so they are out there

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By *uilty pleasurers OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Thank you all for reassuring happy swinging

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"That's true, although I have had comments like bloody Taliban "

I have come across some people on the scene who can be very prejudiced regarding others. These prejudices have included race, skin colour and sexuality, to be honest I find it sort of funny given that the scene is something quite a lot of society would find weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find SOME white guys pushy tbh then when I have to say No a lot don't like it and say I'm being racist and sulk. Yes there's bad in all races. We heard about a club opening in Leicester soon which were looking forwards too. You say my skin is my sin not sure if you were quoting, but for me my skin is my pride

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"It's feels difficult for a Asian man to be approached, I have tried to talk to people in clubs. But get looks and dismissed. I am soclaible and out side the world of swinging no issues at all.

I know Asian people are not evenyones cup of tea, but to be ignored is makes me feel like I don't belong

I m British born and Britain is my home "
. If you have no problems socialising outside this site this is nothing to worry about . It can be difficult on occasions for people regardless of colour to interact in some swingers clubs . Different people like different tthings . As your pictures look good , don't think your are being treated any differently because of your race .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree they are, we have had a few Asian guys trying to get pushy

I also agree that should not judge the few by the actions of many "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's feels difficult for a Asian man to be approached, I have tried to talk to people in clubs. But get looks and dismissed. I am soclaible and out side the world of swinging no issues at all.

I know Asian people are not evenyones cup of tea, but to be ignored is makes me feel like I don't belong

I m British born and Britain is my home . If you have no problems socialising outside this site this is nothing to worry about . It can be difficult on occasions for people regardless of colour to interact in some swingers clubs . Different people like different tthings . As your pictures look good , don't think your are being treated any differently because of your race . "

Just to add to that I've chatted to few ladies in the past got on well when I send them pics they are fine with me being cuddly as I mention that first but soon as they see I am of Asian background bam no more chatting or even blocked so does happen where you get judged purely because of you skin so to speak which is sad.

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood

"White woman with a Asian man and as a result if me she gets looks "

have had the same the other way round when out, more so in more asian areas...

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We look for mixed race guys usually black and white mix but tend to find a lot of Asian men in this category, it does feel misleading when it becomes apparent.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"I find SOME white guys pushy tbh then when I have to say No a lot don't like it and say I'm being racist and sulk. Yes there's bad in all races. We heard about a club opening in Leicester soon which were looking forwards too. You say my skin is my sin not sure if you were quoting, but for me my skin is my pride

well said mate...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

There is a bar opening, owned by a swinging couple on here but it's open to everyone and is just a bar.

If you type 'Leicester' in the forum search facility, you'll see a thread about it.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

Don't worry about it, the people with your skin colour being a problem aren't worthy of your time, fuck em! None of us float everyone's boats, stick to the boats you do float and ignore the ones you don't...focus on the positives of you being Asian as it's very easy to dwell on the negatives...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the comment above! For us the swinging lifestyle is a "fantasy world" where we can escape reality for a few hours a week. When we go to clubs we see people we wouldn't want to play with but in no circumstance would we be disrespectful or rude to anyone. Maybe that's just our upbringing! We have been places where we've had the looks and my wife and I have looked at each other and laughed and had our own little joke.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"Don't worry about it, the people with your skin colour being a problem aren't worthy of your time, fuck em! None of us float everyone's boats, stick to the boats you do float and ignore the ones you don't...focus on the positives of you being Asian as it's very easy to dwell on the negatives...

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