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"cheeky fuckers if u ask me id report them xx" I agree it's ridiculous.....but report them for what exactly? | |||
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"I've heard of people asking for many things such as, split hotel costs, travelling money, pay for refreshments, buffet, club entry, but never childcare costs. What next? Pay for wear and tear on play clothes and shoes! " Laundry bills... | |||
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"We'd love to meet you in Spain as long as you pay our air fares and hotel costs " lol nice 1 xx | |||
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"ive been invited by a couple to a one on one party M.M.F. but have been told that i have to pay child care is this normal or a money making scam for the couple please can i have your views on this... mal " how can asking a stranger to supply child care costs be normal in anyway, i have a young child and i wouldnt dream of asking someone to provide for her in any way at all, they'll be asking you for shoes to walk the child to the minders in next! lol Tell them to sod off, ive never heard of such a thing they probably havnt even got a kid | |||
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"I would never ask anyone we were meeting to pay my childcare costs,if they cant afford babysitters then they shouldnt arrange meets! Sounds like they think a guy should be grateful for a meet and trying to take advantage of it. " Will said child (and babysitter ofcourse) be in the same home when you meet them, or in another? Or will be at home while the three of you are in a hotel (which am guessing you're to pay for, along with their travel costs,... and yours). Essentially - will you get any physical proof said child exists (Kinda like random people with fake photos of random people? who they claim to be, or have as partners) ? Kinda like those adverts that ask you to contribute £2 a month to some random dog in some obscure country that you get a postcard from every Christmas...lol And if they invited you back, would you still be paying for the sitter everytime? Who's choice to have a child? theirs. Who's choice for them to be swingers? Theirs. Who's choice to play? Theirs. Who's to pay for the child... everyone else? Report the cheeky feckers... cite "Seeking financial gain". | |||
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"What a coincidence - their childcare costs are the same as your travelling costs! Who'd have thought it, well I never..." perhaps he should as for his travel costs to be refunded | |||
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"I've heard of people asking for many things such as, split hotel costs, travelling money, pay for refreshments, buffet, club entry, but never childcare costs. What next? Pay for wear and tear on play clothes and shoes! Laundry bills... " Coo...I'd make a fortune | |||
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"You can come and meet us instead bearing in mind that my budgie will need to be in the other room when we play and therefore you will need to pay for his incovenience for the evening by way of compensation to him." Is this an open offer? | |||
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"ive been invited by a couple to a one on one party M.M.F. but have been told that i have to pay child care is this normal or a money making scam for the couple please can i have your views on this... mal " jesus are you serious lol | |||
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"Is it "Bleed Single Guys Dry" week again or what? What next..I'll meet you for a hot date...in Bermuda...but I'll need 2 weeks R&R to get ready for it??? Give it the big miss mate. " How much blood have you got ? | |||
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"hi every one that has made a comment thanks for it and have decided to walk away but thinking of reporting them as well ...mal " Hi Mal. Don't blame ya mate, next thing'll be the kids schooling fee's along with gas, water, leccy and of course help towards the mortgage. Best off blocking them a gud matey. | |||
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"Avoid at all costs. If they are your children then your responsible for paying for them to be elsewhere while your on your meet. But if the children arent yours then stay away and tell them to get stuffed. Total bloody cheek. Take note hun, not a single person on here agreeeing with you paying childcare costs. Thats many years worth of experience. Listen to it x" im a single person and i agree he shouldnt pay, but im going to start charging for wear and tear on my bedding and laundry costs from now on !!!! please take note all couples lmao | |||
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"ive been invited by a couple to a one on one party M.M.F. but have been told that i have to pay child care is this normal or a money making scam for the couple please can i have your views on this... mal " this can be a 2 sided story, did you contact the couple and ask for a meet? Did their profile say they need childcare arrangements so cant do short notice meets? This is only one example!! Without knowing both sides of members its easy to jump to conclusions!! Our profile clearly says have family so short notice or outside our free time is not possible, and willing to travel 30 - 40 mins or so, but we still get messages from profiles hundreds of miles away saying i can accom tonight llf, and we so fed up with it can send mail saying "yes no probs will hop on plane and be there in an hour" or for those who say " are you up for fun today cos i'm availible today " shall we put the out to pasture" For some people mail can get the best of them and their reply mail might be a sarcastic responce!! Now we said might be!! without knowing both sides and circumstances we tend not to judge | |||
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"ive been invited by a couple to a one on one party M.M.F. but have been told that i have to pay child care is this normal or a money making scam for the couple please can i have your views on this... mal this can be a 2 sided story, did you contact the couple and ask for a meet? Did their profile say they need childcare arrangements so cant do short notice meets? This is only one example!! Without knowing both sides of members its easy to jump to conclusions!! Our profile clearly says have family so short notice or outside our free time is not possible, and willing to travel 30 - 40 mins or so, but we still get messages from profiles hundreds of miles away saying i can accom tonight llf, and we so fed up with it can send mail saying "yes no probs will hop on plane and be there in an hour" or for those who say " are you up for fun today cos i'm availible today " shall we put the out to pasture" For some people mail can get the best of them and their reply mail might be a sarcastic responce!! Now we said might be!! without knowing both sides and circumstances we tend not to judge " Didn't sound over complicated to me - they wanted to meet the guy - they wanted him to pay for child care - what other side of the story can there be? | |||
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"ive been invited by a couple to a one on one party M.M.F. but have been told that i have to pay child care is this normal or a money making scam for the couple please can i have your views on this... mal this can be a 2 sided story, did you contact the couple and ask for a meet? Did their profile say they need childcare arrangements so cant do short notice meets? This is only one example!! Without knowing both sides of members its easy to jump to conclusions!! Our profile clearly says have family so short notice or outside our free time is not possible, and willing to travel 30 - 40 mins or so, but we still get messages from profiles hundreds of miles away saying i can accom tonight llf, and we so fed up with it can send mail saying "yes no probs will hop on plane and be there in an hour" or for those who say " are you up for fun today cos i'm availible today " shall we put the out to pasture" For some people mail can get the best of them and their reply mail might be a sarcastic responce!! Now we said might be!! without knowing both sides and circumstances we tend not to judge Didn't sound over complicated to me - they wanted to meet the guy - they wanted him to pay for child care - what other side of the story can there be?" their side? there is always 2 sides to a story thats why name and shame aint allowewed!1 judging without the facts!! | |||
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"ive been invited by a couple to a one on one party M.M.F. but have been told that i have to pay child care is this normal or a money making scam for the couple please can i have your views on this... mal this can be a 2 sided story, did you contact the couple and ask for a meet? Did their profile say they need childcare arrangements so cant do short notice meets? This is only one example!! Without knowing both sides of members its easy to jump to conclusions!! Our profile clearly says have family so short notice or outside our free time is not possible, and willing to travel 30 - 40 mins or so, but we still get messages from profiles hundreds of miles away saying i can accom tonight llf, and we so fed up with it can send mail saying "yes no probs will hop on plane and be there in an hour" or for those who say " are you up for fun today cos i'm availible today " shall we put the out to pasture" For some people mail can get the best of them and their reply mail might be a sarcastic responce!! Now we said might be!! without knowing both sides and circumstances we tend not to judge Didn't sound over complicated to me - they wanted to meet the guy - they wanted him to pay for child care - what other side of the story can there be? their side? there is always 2 sides to a story thats why name and shame aint allowewed!1 judging without the facts!! " lol- not any one i know would know would charge any one for childcare in ANY situation! Name & shame? No way - not fair! | |||
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"ive been invited by a couple to a one on one party M.M.F. but have been told that i have to pay child care is this normal or a money making scam for the couple please can i have your views on this... mal this can be a 2 sided story, did you contact the couple and ask for a meet? Did their profile say they need childcare arrangements so cant do short notice meets? This is only one example!! Without knowing both sides of members its easy to jump to conclusions!! Our profile clearly says have family so short notice or outside our free time is not possible, and willing to travel 30 - 40 mins or so, but we still get messages from profiles hundreds of miles away saying i can accom tonight llf, and we so fed up with it can send mail saying "yes no probs will hop on plane and be there in an hour" or for those who say " are you up for fun today cos i'm availible today " shall we put the out to pasture" For some people mail can get the best of them and their reply mail might be a sarcastic responce!! Now we said might be!! without knowing both sides and circumstances we tend not to judge Didn't sound over complicated to me - they wanted to meet the guy - they wanted him to pay for child care - what other side of the story can there be? their side? there is always 2 sides to a story thats why name and shame aint allowewed!1 judging without the facts!! lol- not any one i know would know would charge any one for childcare in ANY situation! Name & shame? No way - not fair!" If you read our first response to op then you would have seen it was about the fact that no one knows in what context the meesage was sent to him!! some reply sarcarsim as we do sometimes when we have had enough of perstering mail that obviously having read our profile. If you were to sit on a jury would you convict without hearing both sides and facts?? thats all we are saying. | |||
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"I've heard of people asking for many things such as, split hotel costs, travelling money, pay for refreshments, buffet, club entry, but never childcare costs. What next? Pay for wear and tear on play clothes and shoes! " Dont laugh at that read on a couples profile if the guys want her to dress up they will have to by the clothes she will provide her size | |||
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"hi right for all those that want to know this is what happened saw an add contacted the couple got an invite, but nothing about child care accepted the invite. then told about child care.£35.00 contacted. the forum cancelled the meet " £35, their having a laff mate. Your well rid, get them reported as soon as matey. No need nor place for that on here ! LMAO. | |||
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"I've heard of people asking for many things such as, split hotel costs, travelling money, pay for refreshments, buffet, club entry, but never childcare costs. What next? Pay for wear and tear on play clothes and shoes! Dont laugh at that read on a couples profile if the guys want her to dress up they will have to by the clothes she will provide her size " lmao, exactly the same profile i saw she wanted guys to provide outfits because of wear and tear but funny thing was one of my friends had the same outfit as she had on in her pictures and it was from primark | |||
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"hi right for all those that want to know this is what happened saw an add contacted the couple got an invite, but nothing about child care accepted the invite. then told about child care.£35.00 contacted. the forum cancelled the meet That is ludicurous, if someone is paying £35 for a childminder for a couple of hours think im going to become a child minder. Hope you have reported them " | |||
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"ive been invited by a couple to a one on one party M.M.F. but have been told that i have to pay child care is this normal or a money making scam for the couple please can i have your views on this... mal " cheeky fekkers tell um to piss off ie got kis n certainly wudnt expect a guy to pay my baby sitting costs | |||
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"I've heard of people asking for many things such as, split hotel costs, travelling money, pay for refreshments, buffet, club entry, but never childcare costs. What next? Pay for wear and tear on play clothes and shoes! Dont laugh at that read on a couples profile if the guys want her to dress up they will have to by the clothes she will provide her size " OMG well I want new batteries for some toys.... think it be cheeky to ask? The toys belong to the kiddo tho, it's to keep him quiet during the school hols! | |||
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"Avoid at all costs. If they are your children then your responsible for paying for them to be elsewhere while your on your meet. But if the children arent yours then stay away and tell them to get stuffed. Total bloody cheek. Take note hun, not a single person on here agreeeing with you paying childcare costs. Thats many years worth of experience. Listen to it x im a single person and i agree he shouldnt pay, but im going to start charging for wear and tear on my bedding and laundry costs from now on !!!! please take note all couples lmao " and contribution towards the rent or mortgage for use of the room? | |||
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