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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Just accept it.... you're doomed.

Unless you bum a guy or cut a bit of your cock off.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

offer to allow her to shove something the same size up your arse first, and then see how you relax and share the tips?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow really friendly and helpful, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"offer to allow her to shove something the same size up your arse first, and then see how you relax and share the tips?"
.

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not every woman wants a cock shoving up her arse. Deal with it.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Find a porn star then? If you've seen it in porn it must be good for the lady concerned...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow really friendly and helpful, thanks."

use the forum search op, its nothing personal towards you, everyone that starts posts like this gets similar treatment

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I hate anal and if anyone tried it on me would get me extra large dildo up their arse and see how they like it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to be gentle and persuasive and caring.

Start slowly with your finger. When she is used to that, insert your tongue.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the award for look at me goes to lol

You could try the reverse of all the tricks to make your cock look bigger, keep it cold, don't trim the bush, leave it well alone before you whip it out, take a pick of it next to something massive lol, not that I use dirty tricks, but then with one my size I rarely get refused entry through the traidsmans entrance, goes having a big dick working out for ya now old pal lol

The above was intended as purely a joke, and I mean no offence, and hope none was taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she wants it you have to slowly stretch the anal sphincters inside her. It can take time. Lube and a finger then add more fingers. Always go very slowly and let her be in control. She has to really want it. Having a couple of alcoholic drinks can help too but don't let her get d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find a porn star then? If you've seen it in porn it must be good for the lady concerned... "

I'm not a porn star and I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find a porn star then? If you've seen it in porn it must be good for the lady concerned...

I'm not a porn star and I love it. "

Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you billy big bollox

Her

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Find a porn star then? If you've seen it in porn it must be good for the lady concerned...

I'm not a porn star and I love it. "

with the right person, I enjoy it too... however someone that states I've seen lasses take bigger in porn are perhaps going at it with the wrong attitude...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've taken bigger

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J "

Pssst, pornstars do a lot of sex in various positions and holes, and so are used to it. Us average women don't get 10" in our bumhole every other day to stretch us out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've taken bigger "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find a porn star then? If you've seen it in porn it must be good for the lady concerned...

I'm not a porn star and I love it.

with the right person, I enjoy it too... however someone that states I've seen lasses take bigger in porn are perhaps going at it with the wrong attitude..."

i agree, Anal is great with the right person but I wouldn't want a big cock up there with ssomeone who's porn star shagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"offer to allow her to shove something the same size up your arse first, and then see how you relax and share the tips?"

Pmsl hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find a porn star then? If you've seen it in porn it must be good for the lady concerned...

I'm not a porn star and I love it.

with the right person, I enjoy it too... however someone that states I've seen lasses take bigger in porn are perhaps going at it with the wrong attitude..."

I saw it as an observation. It can be done type of comment. Porn is how I learnt about deepthroating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you billy big bollox

Her"

Hahahahahahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clearly meeting the wrong women cause I've taken much bigger than that up my butt...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J "

I quite like anal.

A different kind of orgasm....phew anyway.

What were we talking about?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I approached an escort And asked her "how much for anal,?" she said "that it'd be £75,!" I said "that's a bit rich for me thanks "

She said "tight Arse!! "

I said "well in that case......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J "

Ok - it can be done with patience. She'll need to be very relaxed and turned on for starters. Try massaging the area with oil first. Use toys - small first then gradually getting bigger. Make aure you're VERY well lubricated - insert the tip first then wait until she's ready and relaxed - then let her move herself slowly back onto you as and when she's comfortable. Then keep your movements slow and deliberate - ready to pull out immediately if she wants you to. Only ever ' bank away' in her anus if she ASKS you to!

Good luck! Xx

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J "

Personally I find when someone is that bit bigger (I've had close to 10", lets leave it at that) that it can be an amazing feeling, really intense as it pressures your g-spot, but in a good way.

When it comes to doing it, there is only one way really, and that is the obvious. Lots of foreplay with plugs and fingers.. lots of lube and ensuring she is comfortable and turned on (as soon as she relaxes, there shouldn't be an issue).

Although if they don't at all feel comfortable, you should just respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bang away even! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if this is any help but there's a numbing lube you can get its amazing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bang away even! xx"

Not immediately

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's very difficult to get speculums so may I suggest raiding the kitchen impedimenta supply for sausage tongs? Open 'er up, nicely, them would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if this is any help but there's a numbing lube you can get its amazing!!"

Could you pm me with details please hun? Xx xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're asking her, then maybe she isn't as keen as you - just see previous threads, there's a wealth of advice on here. Or google.

Just be patient, use lube, be patient, use lube, then try a finger, tongue, toy, etc, before entering on her terms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just need to relax and don't worry I doubt your ass is to big for anal...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very difficult to get speculums so may I suggest raiding the kitchen impedimenta supply for sausage tongs? Open 'er up, nicely, them would. "

Fancy a go with them yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J "

Well - stop asking girls and ask an experienced women....!

It's definitely not "too big" - believe me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J "

She says she doesn't want anal from you...my advice is to accept her choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/11/14 19:38:10]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got it to last month, she said I was to big. It depends how tight their hole is

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Put a balloon in her arse first and start blowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find a porn star then? If you've seen it in porn it must be good for the lady concerned...

I'm not a porn star and I love it.

with the right person, I enjoy it too... however someone that states I've seen lasses take bigger in porn are perhaps going at it with the wrong attitude...

I saw it as an observation. It can be done type of comment. Porn is how I learnt about deepthroating "

Oh hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the problem girth or length?

Length can easily be controlled by only allowing partial penetration (use a position where she is in control).

For girth issues you really need lube, gradual stimulation and relaxation.

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee

whoops i slipped normally works for me. just make sure its wet down there or you might hurt yourself.

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By *asmanian TigerMan
over a year ago

lala land


"I've taken bigger

Me too "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's very difficult to get speculums so may I suggest raiding the kitchen impedimenta supply for sausage tongs? Open 'er up, nicely, them would.

Fancy a go with them yourself? "

Certainly not! I'm an opener not an openee!

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Anal dildo for her to practice on they look like a pyramid at least that's what I think the are called.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's very difficult to get speculums so may I suggest raiding the kitchen impedimenta supply for sausage tongs? Open 'er up, nicely, them would.

Fancy a go with them yourself?

Certainly not! I'm an opener not an openee!

"

How many times have you said this won't hurt,just a little prick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask. Just fire it in. She'll love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two words.

Shoe Stretcher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip for the lads: Spit few times on ur cock and it slides in better

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By *uppy ConquerorMan
over a year ago

dundee


"Tip for the lads: Spit few times on ur cock and it slides in better "
pussy juice does the trick too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tip for the lads: Spit few times on ur cock and it slides in better pussy juice does the trick too"
Yes it does well especially if you just pounded it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to see pictures of this cock that's "too big for anal" pleeease! My ex was just shy of 9" in length and very girthy, I was only ever to have anal in missionary position and that was with a fuck tonne of lube and him easing himself in very gently.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J "

you look thick enough - if anal is on the cards you are going to have to prep, more so than you would their pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect the 'girls' you've asked simply don't want anal with you rather than it being a size problem.

You need to find a girl or woman who wants it and then follow the advice given on lots of similar threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on girth and shape of cock. I find a curved cock more difficult

Lots or foreplay, lube , use analease and I enjoy poppers. Once in. Bang away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock is huge.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

First of all welcome to the forum.

Second... you don't have to search for threads before you post.

Third....please don't be put off , although people will defend themselves when newbies say the forum isn't friendly, as you might have saw before posts were removed, sometimes it isn't.

As this is a swinging site you would think your help with advice would be the right place to post it and some of the time you will get some good advice....so as I say please don't be put off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock is huge."

Or just small hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock is huge.

Or just small hands "

If I had small hands, I'd try and meet ladies for fisting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock is huge."

I'm sure there are some ladies that would manage it anally, even so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"offer to allow her to shove something the same size up your arse first, and then see how you relax and share the tips?"
touche ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock is huge.

I'm sure there are some ladies that would manage it anally, even so. "

Of course, the key to receiving a large penis anally is the same as receiving a large penis vaginally - slowly and gently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"offer to allow her to shove something the same size up your arse first, and then see how you relax and share the tips?touche ??"

Touche...or douche?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock is huge.

I'm sure there are some ladies that would manage it anally, even so.

Of course, the key to receiving a large penis anally is the same as receiving a large penis vaginally - slowly and gently."

This is very true. Best way is for the one receiving to do the moving initially.

I've taken some really huge ones this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an exit. End of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow really friendly and helpful, thanks.

use the forum search op, its nothing personal towards you, everyone that starts posts like this gets similar treatment "

Them girls won't be moaning for the right reasons when they're in the old folks home with their prolapsed bots. Porn has alot to answer for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its an exit. End of "

Mines not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock is huge."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there is something wrong with me,I'm just not obsessed with anal.

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By *ueryMan
over a year ago

london


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J "

Maybe stop trying to shove something up her bum?

Just sayin....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO

I AM TOO BIG FOR ANAL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's obviously so big that the profile couldn't contain its massive size and has had to be hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"offer to allow her to shove something the same size up your arse first, and then see how you relax and share the tips?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cock is huge."

I've seen many on here that are bigger, I wouldn't say it was huge.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Wow really friendly and helpful, thanks."

So, did you manage to give some good advice after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlucky dude .... lol ....... I guess that mine is more like a 4 x4 jeep .... I can go anywhere ..... Which actually means I'm not huge but I'm ok with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe there is something wrong with me,I'm just not obsessed with anal."

Liking anal or wanting to try isn't necessarily an obsession is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's obviously so big that the profile couldn't contain its massive size and has had to be hidden. "

Or maybe it was the uncalled for remarks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see it, but I do like to accommodate gentlemen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J "
Some people are into anal and some are not. If a girl says you're too big its a polite way of saying she doesn't want to do anal with you. It's not all about size...it's how a guy goes about it. I've had small cocks being very painful and bigger ones sliding in easily. Its all about the preparation!!! Do your groundwork....please, tease, make her horny...and talk about it....girls like to talk lol. Well I do anyway lol till you find a way of shutting me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite different, I can take larger things in my ass, my pussy is where I struggle, Tommy is about 7.5 inches and sometimes that can be painful, I couldn't go any bigger in there, but we have toys that I use in my ass that I wouldn't dream about using in my pussy!

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"If she wants it you have to slowly stretch the anal sphincters inside her. It can take time. Lube and a finger then add more fingers. Always go very slowly and let her be in control. She has to really want it. Having a couple of alcoholic drinks can help too but don't let her get d*unk "

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"I'm quite different, I can take larger things in my ass, my pussy is where I struggle, Tommy is about 7.5 inches and sometimes that can be painful, I couldn't go any bigger in there, but we have toys that I use in my ass that I wouldn't dream about using in my pussy! "

once met a lady that was the same, I was surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J "

You could just find one with a looser anus.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J

Or just find a woman who doesn't lie to you to avoid doing anal?

You could just find one with a looser anus. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I keep hearing that I'm 'too big' when I ask a girl to let me do anal, even though I'd be gentle... I'm sure I've seen bigger guys in porn doing it....!?

Any advice on how to relax a girl?

J "

Shove something big up your arse and see how you like it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few cocks I've thought too big. Saying it didn't make me a liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god the problems some people have lol, fortunately im not to big, did anal few months ago with a very sexy lady from Fab, it was amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been told the same you just have to respect the woman its her ass ur invading !!!

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Erm...I trained my bum to take a big cock.... Takes time and lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try taking no for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try taking no for an answer."

Sounds like he has to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman is deferent, whats not big for one is small for another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every woman is deferent, whats not big for one is small for another "

Not big is small isn't it??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every woman is deferent, whats not big for one is small for another

Not big is small isn't it??!"
YEs I think so to, abit confused myself now lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every woman is deferent, whats not big for one is small for another

Not big is small isn't it??!YEs I think so to, abit confused myself now lol."

I think you should have omitted the word "not" then it would make sense!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every woman is deferent, whats not big for one is small for another

Not big is small isn't it??!YEs I think so to, abit confused myself now lol.

I think you should have omitted the word "not" then it would make sense!!"
YEs it would and it makes sense now by taking the not out to, ty

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By *moSexGeeksCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

100th comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"offer to allow her to shove something the same size up your arse first, and then see how you relax and share the tips?"

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