FabSwingers.com forum: How to get back into it

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey, I (female) have fallen out of love with swinging...was wondering how anyone who has been through this got themselves well back into the swing of things xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hey, I (female) have fallen out of love with swinging...was wondering how anyone who has been through this got themselves well back into the swing of things xx"

I can't answer your question but I will pose another. If you have fallen out of love why do you want to get back in to it?

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Hey, I (female) have fallen out of love with swinging...was wondering how anyone who has been through this got themselves well back into the swing of things xx"

Have a rest. Maybe in time you will get the urge to return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you need a break away from it to know if you miss it and want to remain part of it. I've hear the "once a swinger always a swinger" saying a lot on the scene and heard many stories of how people have quit and came back, however I've also know people who have turned their back on the scene and never looked back.

When I first met Morrigan I made a choice to quit but as she knew I was on the scene when we met she wanted to see what it was all about as a result I was only off scene 2 months but had already started to miss certain aspects of it.

I would suggest taking a small break maybe until after Christmas and see if the desire is there after that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The thing is I want to be into it but hut can't seem to find the buzz it once had....we've taken the break and now talking about getting back into it so that's why I'm asking what will jumpstart the feeling of excitement we had before (btw thanks for the replies) xx

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"The thing is I want to be into it but hut can't seem to find the buzz it once had....we've taken the break and now talking about getting back into it so that's why I'm asking what will jumpstart the feeling of excitement we had before (btw thanks for the replies) xx"

If you feel the need to jumpstart it - maybe you are not ready yet.

Maybe just perve/chat a bit and see if that gets the juices flowing.

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By *unwithus2.Couple
over a year ago

south kent

like the op said,

maybe get chatting to a couple of guys or couples, which ever your into, then have a meet up for a social,

then see if the sparks there and go with your instinct

Good Luck, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't force myself back into it. when you are ready to do it again it will feel right...why hurry it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stick to being social animals for a while then, clubs are great for this because you can drink and chat with like minded people, have a boogie and its not compulsory to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't force myself back into it. when you are ready to do it again it will feel right...why hurry it?"

Yep your still young

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