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"I'm absolutely full of cold at the moment. And despite being horny I doubt anyone would want to me meet add I'm a bit of a snot fest and probably contagious! " I have had the same problem and been putting things off for the last few weeks. Looking forward to resuming my social life very soon though. People have real lives as well as Fab lives and sometimes real life has to take precedence. | |||
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"Occasionally, I look to meet men on here. With a supposed 20:1 ratio you'd think it'd be easy…not so! I've just looked at all the men within my age range within 20 miles of me. One line profiles, a sad cock pic and a grumpy status! You really do yourself no favours! " Sounds like my home page! | |||
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"Wow 6 cock pics and a whole line in your profile? You know how to spoil the ladies don't you?!! I'm amazed that anyone talks to you anything more than bugger off" Nothing like a long profile to read through oh and some thighs pics | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x" The simple numbers game means that women can be choosy - YOU are the one that has to do the work. It's very unlikely women are going to single you out based on your profile description. It doesn't work like that IMHO. | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x The simple numbers game means that women can be choosy - YOU are the one that has to do the work. It's very unlikely women are going to single you out based on your profile description. It doesn't work like that IMHO. " Well I'm sorry to say you are totally wrong, I work very hard to ensure the meets I have are the right ones for me. Wading through the dross on this site is more work than you think dear And yes I do go looking for what I want and I do single out profiles based on their content | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x" Have you tried putting googly eyes over your penis. Worked for me | |||
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"Well, in my opinion, your not really helping yourself!" | |||
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"OP - you missed one word off your thread title. Me. " .... Ouch, but | |||
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"Have you tried putting googly eyes over your penis. Worked for me " actually laughed out loud on that one! | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x The simple numbers game means that women can be choosy - YOU are the one that has to do the work. It's very unlikely women are going to single you out based on your profile description. It doesn't work like that IMHO. Well I'm sorry to say you are totally wrong, I work very hard to ensure the meets I have are the right ones for me. Wading through the dross on this site is more work than you think dear And yes I do go looking for what I want and I do single out profiles based on their content " | |||
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"To be blunt, your profile is crap! Thats probably why. Fill it out and change your photos." No it's the lack of googly eyes. | |||
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"I am having a good time on here. Lots of chats and messages. I have had quite a few meets and all jave gone well. Why ? I am in it for the long haul. A friendly word here, a fab there, the odd wink, and a couple of social meets at clubs. I choose who I message but am always polite to those that message me. No magic needed...just effort, interest and good humour. " Bang on!! God I'm agreeing with you on a forum lol | |||
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"OP - you missed one word off your thread title. Me. A" Exactly! Why do so many guys on here assume that their problem is shared by all other single guys? | |||
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"OP actual advice...probably just a tad overdone on ur todger shots..not saying dont have any...but I'm sure u have more than a cock..." | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x" Maybe they had a look at your bedroom floor and decided to pass? bareback pictures on a single male profile are often off putting too... We know lots of single females around here who meet... | |||
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"I am having a good time on here. Lots of chats and messages. I have had quite a few meets and all jave gone well. Why ? I am in it for the long haul. A friendly word here, a fab there, the odd wink, and a couple of social meets at clubs. I choose who I message but am always polite to those that message me. No magic needed...just effort, interest and good humour. Bang on!! God I'm agreeing with you on a forum lol " Nwxt thing you will be asking me out | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x The simple numbers game means that women can be choosy - YOU are the one that has to do the work. It's very unlikely women are going to single you out based on your profile description. It doesn't work like that IMHO. " Jus also like to add, that I do not meet.. no not ever | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x" your profile pic screams tramp cloths and crap everywere and ur profile says nothing we wouldnt touch u and i know for a fact my partner wouldnt on her profile | |||
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"As for advice as the OP asked for, write a proper profile, why you're here, what you're looking for and what you can offer etc. Maybe try a better selection of pics, torso, bum, suited, in underwear leaving something to the imagination or similar and change the bareback profile pic, I can't speak for every woman on here but I'd imagine many would delete a message from you without even reading it based on it. Finally, don't rely solely on this site for meets, get to organised socials and clubs, it shows you're real and willing to make an effort to get known. Easy really!!" It was the profile pictures that we though were off putting but the O.P. is getting ladies to talk to him so it must be something else putting them off? | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x" I meet - and many other women do! But your profile does you no favours hun. No face pic, almost all cock pics - and v little profile text. I look for intelligence, personality and a sense of humour as well as a good face and body- and there's nothing on your profile to make most women want to meet you love. If you need help - pm me. Xx | |||
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"I find these threads fascinating. It's plainly obvious from the OP's profile that people are unlikely to want to meet him. OP - would you walk up to a stranger in the street, or a bar with your penis out like that and not even introduce yourself? You have to make an effort to garner some interest from people in the flesh, so why not on here? It's glaringly obvious - no offence. Personality is more important than simply owning a penis." Spot on! | |||
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"Of course I don't meet. All my veris are fake " That means one of mine must be fake as well | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x" Women don't meet? Yes we do, I'm finding men wuss out of meeting lately | |||
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"I find these threads fascinating. It's plainly obvious from the OP's profile that people are unlikely to want to meet him. OP - would you walk up to a stranger in the street, or a bar with your penis out like that and not even introduce yourself? You have to make an effort to garner some interest from people in the flesh, so why not on here? It's glaringly obvious - no offence. Personality is more important than simply owning a penis." This - absolutely!! | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x I meet - and many other women do! But your profile does you no favours hun. No face pic, almost all cock pics - and v little profile text. I look for intelligence, personality and a sense of humour as well as a good face and body- and there's nothing on your profile to make most women want to meet you love. If you need help - pm me. Xx" It doesnt look like he took you up on your offer | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x I meet - and many other women do! But your profile does you no favours hun. No face pic, almost all cock pics - and v little profile text. I look for intelligence, personality and a sense of humour as well as a good face and body- and there's nothing on your profile to make most women want to meet you love. If you need help - pm me. Xx" Is this a service you offer to others | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x" they do just not u | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x I meet - and many other women do! But your profile does you no favours hun. No face pic, almost all cock pics - and v little profile text. I look for intelligence, personality and a sense of humour as well as a good face and body- and there's nothing on your profile to make most women want to meet you love. If you need help - pm me. Xx" I need help too... | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x Maybe they had a look at your bedroom floor and decided to pass? bareback pictures on a single male profile are often off putting too... We know lots of single females around here who meet..." | |||
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"some just like the attention ..speak on the fone , then you'll find out whos real" I won't speak on the phone and I'm very real. | |||
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"some just like the attention ..speak on the fone , then you'll find out whos real" But not necessarily that they'll meet...see the plethora of threads about no shows when there has been phone contact... | |||
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"some just like the attention ..speak on the fone , then you'll find out whos real I won't speak on the phone and I'm very real." Same, I hate talking on the phone... I'm real and I meet | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x" Make friends and get to know the person so they don't just feel like one of a number . | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 09/11/14 14:26:25]" . You need to list you hobbies and interests and I am not sure if four cock pictures are of any help. Lots of ladies meet but you need to put a substantial effort into marketing yourself . | |||
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"Your profile reads as being desperate!! "Shag" me now aint gonna get you to far..Sounds as if you want to walk in the front door, whip it in...whip it out, wipe it and bugger off!!!!!!!dont think you are going to get very far unless you work on your profile!!!! read all the other single guy posts...and you can see what thousands of replies come up with...." I absolutely love this reply | |||
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"some just like the attention ..speak on the fone , then you'll find out whos real I won't speak on the phone and I'm very real." its rare I give out my number as I have to be careful and have had no shows before, even when speaking the night before | |||
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"It might be the area too there dont seem to be loads around this way" There are plenty in the Boston area......haven't you heard of chunky muffins parties or that chat mod who hosts parties at his home in Boston? | |||
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"It might be the area too there dont seem to be loads around this way There are plenty in the Boston area......haven't you heard of chunky muffins parties or that chat mod who hosts parties at his home in Boston? " Yes ive been to the parties. Chat mod not heard of that | |||
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"All men have got a cock charisma tempts us " And us, but hat good luck with the dink pics..Connie x | |||
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"Occasionally, I look to meet men on here. With a supposed 20:1 ratio you'd think it'd be easy…not so! I've just looked at all the men within my age range within 20 miles of me. One line profiles, a sad cock pic and a grumpy status! You really do yourself no favours! " But Debs your profile says "Sorry, but I'm NOT interested in SINGLE MEN or NEW COUPLES." This is pretty clear. And, correct me if I'm wrong, I don't think I have any of the three criteria you mention above: one line; sad cock pic; grumpy. Jus' sayin' like. | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x" I'd say you are not getting them interested enough then? Or if you're booking their interest then it must be an issue between you and that person? | |||
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"Occasionally, I look to meet men on here. With a supposed 20:1 ratio you'd think it'd be easy…not so! I've just looked at all the men within my age range within 20 miles of me. One line profiles, a sad cock pic and a grumpy status! You really do yourself no favours! But Debs your profile says "Sorry, but I'm NOT interested in SINGLE MEN or NEW COUPLES." This is pretty clear. And, correct me if I'm wrong, I don't think I have any of the three criteria you mention above: one line; sad cock pic; grumpy. Jus' sayin' like." She has to be attracted to you, she ain't gonna shag you if she doesn't fancy you | |||
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"Wow 6 cock pics and a whole line in your profile? You know how to spoil the ladies don't you?!! I'm amazed that anyone talks to you anything more than bugger off" | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x Have you tried putting googly eyes over your penis. Worked for me " Lol | |||
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"I often get a few women interested but nobody ends up meeting or they just put the idea off... Any advice please my fellow fabbers x The simple numbers game means that women can be choosy - YOU are the one that has to do the work. It's very unlikely women are going to single you out based on your profile description. It doesn't work like that IMHO. Well I'm sorry to say you are totally wrong, I work very hard to ensure the meets I have are the right ones for me. Wading through the dross on this site is more work than you think dear And yes I do go looking for what I want and I do single out profiles based on their content " | |||
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"Too many guys on here think this is a meet N fuck site, an that a quick one line message of "nice tits" will get them laid, it wouldn't work in a bar an it won't work for me on here either. Out of 30 odd guys that we've looked at an spoke too only ONE managed to match up with what we wanted. Simple numbers game Elle x" | |||
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"I feel your pain OP. I have been messaging a few over the past two days and almost every message still hasn't been read. At least if they'd been deleted I'd know where I stand, lol Particularly when I've put a lot of effort into composing my messages. Ho hum. Keep plodding on, lol" Delete your sent messages and don't worry about what the recipient has done to it, you'll either get a reply or you won't. | |||
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"I feel your pain OP. I have been messaging a few over the past two days and almost every message still hasn't been read. At least if they'd been deleted I'd know where I stand, lol Particularly when I've put a lot of effort into composing my messages. Ho hum. Keep plodding on, lol Delete your sent messages and don't worry about what the recipient has done to it, you'll either get a reply or you won't." | |||
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