FabSwingers.com forum: blocked after meeting several times

By *inkyblonde69 OP Woman
over a year ago

warrington

Can anyone answer this please? Met a guy of here a few times for outdoor fun , got on great , sex fantastic, came to mine one night this week again great sex or so I thought then just blocked me no explanation nothing what the hell ? Feeling very used to say the least any answers please ?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

His wife found out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

cant understand why you feel used because he no longer wants contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only he knows, but maybe as your profile says you want a regular guy he had other ideas and decided to leg it rather than get into a tricky convo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone answer this please? Met a guy of here a few times for outdoor fun , got on great , sex fantastic, came to mine one night this week again great sex or so I thought then just blocked me no explanation nothing what the hell ? Feeling very used to say the least any answers please ?"
Maybe a dating site would suit your needs better...this is swinging,no room for feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me as well on another site, meet her about 3 times and sex.. I find it funnie, maibe they just wanted to meet few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he thought it was getting a bit too much with regular meets?

Don't feel used,you had a good time too

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over a year ago

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By *inkyblonde69 OP Woman
over a year ago

warrington

Thanks for your replies I know what kind of site this is and understand etc I too have a partner who doesn't know I'm on here he not married but a player I reckon , never mind as they say "next" lol

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By *inkyblonde69 OP Woman
over a year ago

warrington

"Maybe he thought it was getting a bit too much with regular meets?

Don't feel used,you had a good time too

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I did thank you

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By *ana StephanieWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I had a meet then blocked, usual story.

But few months later, he came back to me then we start chatting again and met few times afterwards. Still being blocked though, lol. It doesn't matter to me. We formed good friendship somehow.

Time will tell, maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe your partner does know your on here and had a word with him......

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

family stuff ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the same happened to me it's very confusing and I've put it down to his bad manners

He commented on a thread the other day wasn't nice either so I'm so glad now he's gone xx

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By *r creedyMan
over a year ago

ashington

most people on here are chatting to tons of people at the same time he has probably met another person whom he sees as nicer and hes embarrassed to be associated with you so by blocking you it hides the evidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"he has probably met another person whom he sees as nicer and hes embarrassed to be associated with you so by blocking you it hides the evidence "

You charmer, you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably doesn't want to see you again so blocked you to stop you messeging him again !

People here are often talking to lots of people and he maybe wants to meet others but felt you got a bit to involved !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit that he blocked you with no explanation, don't feel used though you both knew it was just sex. A guy I've already met wants to meet me again but I won't because I know if I sleep with the same person more than a few times I'll start liking them. I'm so shit at not developing feelings for people!

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By *r creedyMan
over a year ago

ashington

"he has probably met another person whom he sees as nicer and hes embarrassed to be associated with you so by blocking you it hides the evidence

You charmer, you

sorry to be blunt but its a fuck site dont take it to heart xxx

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

Uh don't hold back.. lol

Take it with a pinch of salt OP, you might not ever know but as you say you had some great fun and just try to remember it as just that.

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By *inkyblonde69 OP Woman
over a year ago

warrington

"Shit that he blocked you with no explanation, don't feel used though you both knew it was just sex. A guy I've already met wants to meet me again but I won't because I know if I sleep with the same person more than a few times I'll start liking them. I'm so shit at not developing feelings for people!"
yes I agree had feelings for him wrong thing to do I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your replies I know what kind of site this is and understand etc I too have a partner who doesn't know I'm on here he not married but a player I reckon , never mind as they say "next" lol "

Your gonna regret saying your cheating on the forums. The moral police will be out in force.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it as his loss as you say next lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NOT very good mannered but at the end of the day it is a Shag site oops sorry Swing site not a dating site it happens move on plenty of others about that you will enjoy and they wont block. mind you sometimes in chat you go to block someone and the names move and you end of blocking a mate and not reralising it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your replies I know what kind of site this is and understand etc I too have a partner who doesn't know I'm on here he not married but a player I reckon , never mind as they say "next" lol

Your gonna regret saying your cheating on the forums. The moral police will be out in force.

Is that a siren in the distance?

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By *r creedyMan
over a year ago

ashington

i didnt mean any offence about the comment but us guys are total dicks on here we always want look for something better and never appreciate what we've had in front of us all along xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks for your replies I know what kind of site this is and understand etc I too have a partner who doesn't know I'm on here he not married but a player I reckon , never mind as they say "next" lol

Your gonna regret saying your cheating on the forums. The moral police will be out in force.

well you seem to be doing a good job of policing the moral police

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks for your replies I know what kind of site this is and understand etc I too have a partner who doesn't know I'm on here he not married but a player I reckon , never mind as they say "next" lol

Your gonna regret saying your cheating on the forums. The moral police will be out in force.

and they wont because she's a woman.

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By *inkyblonde69 OP Woman
over a year ago

warrington

Thank you all x will get over it as some have said ignorant but his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moral police will be out in force.

well you seem to be doing a good job of policing the moral police "

Someone has to keep the righteous gits in check

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"The moral police will be out in force.

well you seem to be doing a good job of policing the moral police

Someone has to keep the righteous gits in check

I honestly don't see that people who possibly have a different _iew to others as righteous gits but we're all different I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moral police will be out in force.

well you seem to be doing a good job of policing the moral police

Someone has to keep the righteous gits in check

I honestly don't see that people who possibly have a different _iew to others as righteous gits but we're all different I suppose."

It was a joke. Not funny, maybe, but a joke anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"The moral police will be out in force.

well you seem to be doing a good job of policing the moral police

Someone has to keep the righteous gits in check

I honestly don't see that people who possibly have a different _iew to others as righteous gits but we're all different I suppose.

It was a joke. Not funny, maybe, but a joke anyway

oh! Sorry my mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The moral police will be out in force.

well you seem to be doing a good job of policing the moral police

Someone has to keep the righteous gits in check

I honestly don't see that people who possibly have a different _iew to others as righteous gits but we're all different I suppose.

It was a joke. Not funny, maybe, but a joke anyway

oh! Sorry my mistake

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Can anyone answer this please? Met a guy of here a few times for outdoor fun , got on great , sex fantastic, came to mine one night this week again great sex or so I thought then just blocked me no explanation nothing what the hell ? Feeling very used to say the least any answers please ?Maybe a dating site would suit your needs better...this is swinging,no room for feelings"

No strings doesn't mean no regard for feelings.

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Can anyone answer this please? Met a guy of here a few times for outdoor fun , got on great , sex fantastic, came to mine one night this week again great sex or so I thought then just blocked me no explanation nothing what the hell ? Feeling very used to say the least any answers please ?Maybe a dating site would suit your needs better...this is swinging,no room for feelings"

Are you serious, no one has to have feelings, guess you fuck anyone and everyone who asks coz who needs to "feel" attracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ello ello Ello, moral police here. Due to the number of cheating threads recently , we cannot at this time become involved in another. Thank you for your patience and your continued mocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ello ello Ello, moral police here. Due to the number of cheating threads recently , we cannot at this time become involved in another. Thank you for your patience and your continued mocking.

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Personally I like married women, love the sneakiness of the sex and the explosive orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ello ello Ello, moral police here. Due to the number of cheating threads recently , we cannot at this time become involved in another. Thank you for your patience and your continued mocking.

I blame the cutbacks. In my day you'd see a moral police constable on the corner of every cheating thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ get this totally

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"His wife found out?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ello ello Ello, moral police here. Due to the number of cheating threads recently , we cannot at this time become involved in another. Thank you for your patience and your continued mocking.

I blame the cutbacks. In my day you'd see a moral police constable on the corner of every cheating thread."

Sarah x

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By *inkyblonde69 OP Woman
over a year ago

warrington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I understand nsa but doesn't mean you can't have feeling for someone ?"
You're right, it doesn't mean you can't have feelings - but it does mean you have no right to answers regards your feelings. Harsh yes, but comes with the territory

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ello ello Ello, moral police here. Due to the number of cheating threads recently , we cannot at this time become involved in another. Thank you for your patience and your continued mocking.

Personally I like married women, love the sneakiness of the sex and the explosive orgasm

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no good telling me love!! I'm not married, on the op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ello ello Ello, moral police here. Due to the number of cheating threads recently , we cannot at this time become involved in another. Thank you for your patience and your continued mocking.

Personally I like married women, love the sneakiness of the sex and the explosive orgasm

no good telling me love!! I'm not married, on the op

*pm the op sorry

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

he got NSA sex....

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

one reason we do not have regular meets, connie xx

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown

"Only he knows, but maybe as your profile says you want a regular guy he had other ideas and decided to leg it rather than get into a tricky convo."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ello ello Ello, moral police here. Due to the number of cheating threads recently , we cannot at this time become involved in another. Thank you for your patience and your continued mocking.

Personally I like married women, love the sneakiness of the sex and the explosive orgasm

no good telling me love!! I'm not married, on the op

*pm the op sorry

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lol I know and yes I did as well

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By *each_PittWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Thank goodness it's not just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your replies I know what kind of site this is and understand etc I too have a partner who doesn't know I'm on here he not married but a player I reckon , never mind as they say "next" lol

Your gonna regret saying your cheating on the forums. The moral police will be out in force.

well you seem to be doing a good job of policing the moral police "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for your replies I know what kind of site this is and understand etc I too have a partner who doesn't know I'm on here he not married but a player I reckon , never mind as they say "next" lol

Your gonna regret saying your cheating on the forums. The moral police will be out in force.

and they wont because she's a woman."

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

maybe he just like one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a sex site

Omg why didn't somebody tell me before now????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps he inadvertently blocked you, still doesn't realise it was him who did it and thinks you have blocked him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you beat me to it - we have often hit block instead of the note thingy - usually realise straight away tho

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Maybe a dating site would suit your needs better...this is swinging,no room for feelings"

smh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit harsh!!

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY

send him a text, ask him outright if you get no answer you know where you stand?

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil

Thank goodness it's not just me.

Nope your not alone I am in this group as well . I made a right fool of my self when I 1st joined over a guy . Now I have a 3 meet max xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he knows your husband and didn't want to keep lying to him, like you do?...

....Better late than never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you're calling him a player??? Kettle.....pot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No strings doesn't mean no regard for feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"send him a text, ask him outright if you get no answer you know where you stand?"

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By *r creedyMan
over a year ago

ashington

Why send him a text he's blocked you for a reason he doesn't want to meet he probably doesn't want to slandered on a site like this were only hearing one side of the story from personal experiences when I don't want to meet they tend to turn rather quickly slagging you off I've a fan club on here of my ex meets if I'm all they can talk about they must have pretty boring lives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone answer this please? Met a guy of here a few times for outdoor fun , got on great , sex fantastic, came to mine one night this week again great sex or so I thought then just blocked me no explanation nothing what the hell ? Feeling very used to say the least any answers please ?Maybe a dating site would suit your needs better...this is swinging,no room for feelings"

Oh I dunno, if I meet someone enough feelings develop and its no bad thing, I've formed close bonds and remain excellent friends with many people I've met off here....sure, I've had a couple of emotional scrapes, sort of comes with the territory though if you leave yourself open to the ability to care for someone.

I like swinging, and I'm friendly and not so great at the 'emotionless robot' thing yet it still seems to be working out ok

but then, that's me and I can't speak for anyone else

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Maybe he thought it was getting a bit too much with regular meets?

Don't feel used,you had a good time too

I did thank you "

move on there are plenty of men that woud be more than happy to meet you on a regular basis.

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY

Replies please??

You say he blocked you! You feel used! He is a player!

You also add that you have a partner who knows nothing of what you do!!!

Hhhmmmm. Scratch my chin here! Who is the player? Who is being used?

Great sex! Maybe! I'm sure your partner would like to hear that you have great sex behind his back.

I thought this was about consenting adults having a little fun not a cheating partners dating site.

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

Perhaps after he visited yours and saw family pics he felt guilty about seeing someone who was attached and decided easiest way was to block?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilt or ran out of new things to try

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