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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi i am having a little trouble i seem to be struggling to get in touch with females and couples, i am a real person i am photo verified and use cam too. i really want to go to a club too, i just finding i hard to get my toe in the door.

If anyone has any tips or advice for me that would be great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe bin the nob shots? Put a light on when taking pics? And if you want to go to a club...and get a toe in the door...then put your toe in the door of a club. A good place to meet people!

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Go to one of the socials, there is one held regularly in Wakefield and a new one in Bradford.

Go to a club, nearest are in Leeds and Sheffield, both have nights where single guys are welcome.

I don't give profile advice as if a person hasn't got the ability to know how to do one then they are probably not for me!

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Your profile is confusing.

Initial rant about single men, then you say you wouldn't mind going to a club with one. Not to mention the fact you are looking for TV/TS on your profile.

Then there is the line that reads as if a couple wrote it.

As for your pictures, they are terrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is confusing.

Initial rant about single men, then you say you wouldn't mind going to a club with one. Not to mention the fact you are looking for TV/TS on your profile.

Then there is the line that reads as if a couple wrote it.

As for your pictures, they are terrible.

"

Damn, why did I look whilst eating breakfast, the first pic made me feel ill!!!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Your profile is confusing.

Initial rant about single men, then you say you wouldn't mind going to a club with one. Not to mention the fact you are looking for TV/TS on your profile.

Then there is the line that reads as if a couple wrote it.

As for your pictures, they are terrible.

"

It looks like several profiles spliced into one. The first photo is gross!

Fortunately all the others are almost too dark to see anything.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You've cut and pasted other people's profiles, you have pictures of a woman even though you're single........

You need to write your own profile, get rid of the pictures, basically start again. If you want other people to do all the work for you you're in the wrong place.

You've already been given some good advice but you haven't followed it or come back to respond to any of the responses. I wonder if you thought your post would attract messages from people wanting to meet you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Def looks like you copied and pasted a line from a couples profile! Why would you use the pronoun 'I' in your sentences (albeit lower case even though we have all been taught to start a sentence with a capital) except for one where it starts 'We' with a capital W.

Also, if you're too wimpy and unconfident to go to a social, then maybe potential sex partners might think you're too wimpy and unconfident to get naked and have sex with them which is, socially speaking, needing a little more self confidence than walking through a door - like nobbynobs says, if you can get your toe through the door, just keep going and the rest of your body will follow.

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