FabSwingers.com forum: I need help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Struggling with interacting with people can anyone help?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Struggling with interacting with people can anyone help?"

How?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you have the answer to the question

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just people not replying when I'm only genuinely looking for a chat with new people

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How can anyone get someone to answer your messages if they don't want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just people not replying when I'm only genuinely looking for a chat with new people"

They obviously aren't interested.

Do you reply to junk mail saying you're not interested? Thought not!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Just people not replying when I'm only genuinely looking for a chat with new people"

What do you mean by 'new'? If you only want to chat to people who have just joined, then they will be few and far between. If people don't reply to you it means they are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Put some effort in....your profile is shite and you have one dark pic of your cock! Unfortunately, I wouldn't reply either, sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would you recommend to for my profile changes?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult

Well, it depends what you're saying...if you say something like "yo, bitch, drop 'em and open 'em" it might not get the reaction you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult

Well, it depends what you're saying...if you say something like "yo, bitch, drop 'em and open 'em" it might not get the reaction you want. "

No I'm genuinely saying a simple hello and giving out compliments where they are deserved. Nothing creepy at all

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What would you recommend to for my profile changes?"

Ah.....would you change your profile according to what she says?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Your profile says nothing! Talk about what you are looking for, what do you have to offer? You need some pics....NOT cock ones. ...there are a lot of ladies who will delete a message from a guy with only cock pics!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No but I'm looking for advice not to be put down

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult

Well, it depends what you're saying...if you say something like "yo, bitch, drop 'em and open 'em" it might not get the reaction you want.

No I'm genuinely saying a simple hello

and giving out compliments where they

are deserved. Nothing creepy at all

Ok....are you reading the profiles and only contacting those you think might be interested or doing a cut n paste job to everyone within, say, 39 miles?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"No but I'm looking for advice not to be put down "

You're being given advice.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult

Well, it depends what you're saying...if you say something like "yo, bitch, drop 'em and open 'em" it might not get the reaction you want.

No I'm genuinely saying a simple hello

and giving out compliments where they

are deserved. Nothing creepy at all

Ok....are you reading the profiles and only contacting those you think might be interested or doing a cut n paste job to everyone within, say, 39 miles? "

I firstly tried with people closer to me. Then I've just tried people that maybe interested along with my interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but I'm looking for advice not to be put down "

Send your cock picture to 100 ladies. 1 replys. Your onto a winner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but I'm looking for advice not to be put down "

I wasn't putting you down at all!! Putting you down would be calling you ugly, which I didn't.

You need to grow a thicker skin, man

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult

Well, it depends what you're saying...if you say something like "yo, bitch, drop 'em and open 'em" it might not get the reaction you want.

No I'm genuinely saying a simple hello

and giving out compliments where they

are deserved. Nothing creepy at all

Ok....are you reading the profiles and

only contacting those you think might

be interested or doing a cut n paste job

to everyone within, say, 39 miles?

I firstly tried with people closer to me.

Then I've just tried people that maybe

interested along with my interest.

And what is your interest?

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

These kind of posts are getting so boring now.

It's a learning curve, do your research, you have to sell yourself and be interesting to others.

I don't have this problem, I go to a local club to find playmates

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP: you didn't answer my question about you saying you only want to chat to new people and haven't answered my question about how to help you. If you think your profile is the very best you can do, then leave it. If you think it needs improving, then change it. Get some hints and tips from other forum threads from people asking for profile advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok thanks for the advice. Sorry about posting this if its repeat ive I didn't know what else to do. All replies appreciated

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Some of the replies you will receive on this thread will come across as negative put downs. Others will appear as constructive criticism, try and take the positives from both.

Ya need a thick skin on here sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok thanks for the advice. Sorry about posting this if its repeat ive I didn't know what else to do. All replies appreciated

Post whatever you like. Its a public forum. If ppl dont like a thread they can just pass it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Ok thanks for the advice. Sorry about posting this if its repeat ive I didn't know what else to do. All replies appreciated

Post whatever you like. Its a public forum. If ppl dont like a thread they can just pass it.

Though it's a pity people say things like 'bums' then go to bed and not post anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These kind of posts are getting so boring now.

It's a learning curve, do your research, you have to sell yourself and be interesting to others.

I don't have this problem, I go to a local club to find playmates

oi, I do the blunt but honest posts round here

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

So your main selling point is your cock? Good luck with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and seen as you work in engineering op it should really be 225mm not 9 inch on your profile

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

"These kind of posts are getting so boring now.

It's a learning curve, do your research, you have to sell yourself and be interesting to others.

I don't have this problem, I go to a local club to find playmates

oi, I do the blunt but honest posts round here

Just sayin - lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read numerous posts with guys claiming that loads of women reply to messages and actually show interest. I'm finding things difficult

They do reply and meet if:

Your profile stands out/catches the eye....does yours?

Your messages are polite, funny, interesting etcetera....are yours?

You have face pics or decent body shots...a cock pic is normally seen as a turn off

Think you need to look at some of the hundreds of previous threads on exactly the same topic. Generally from guys who have not taken the advice given and continue to complain about their lack of success. Take the advice and act on it. Then you can join those of us who do have success.

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

"No but I'm looking for advice not to be put down

I wasn't putting you down at all!! Putting you down would be calling you ugly, which I didn't.

You need to grow a thicker skin, man"

Yup , man up princess, get to a club, a social, take part in forums other than whingey threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put fab down and chat with your closest loved ones. Ffs

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Just people not replying when I'm only genuinely looking for a chat with new people

They obviously aren't interested.

Do you reply to junk mail saying you're not interested? Thought not!"

Personally I send Company A's junk mail back to Company B in their pre paid envelope.

But only when I'm really, really bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Struggling with interacting with people can anyone help?"

Patience young padwan.

And take some interesting photos rather than one cock pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how do i change my account from m to mf couple ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how do i change my account from m to mf couple ???

You become a UNLOS and start again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok thanks for the advice. Sorry about posting this if its repeat ive I didn't know what else to do. All replies appreciated

You only have one pic of your cock and that's public. Take some different ones and have face pics on private so you can send them. main thing though would be your age for some people. Good luck

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