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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Desperately eager for some naughtiness but no one within 50 miles has checked me out!

I don't want to post facepics as public but have many many photos for friends..

I need some assistance obviously as it's been months now with no joy!

Where are all the cheating wives? Lol looking for someone in a simlar boat...

Sorry if I've offended anyone!

Jake xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Go t' social, down t' pub.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers Steve Although I was unaware Brighton was so far north lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?"

when we were playing scrabble once I waited until A was out of the room and put one of my consonants back in the back and took a vowel instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?

when we were playing scrabble once I waited until A was out of the room and put one of my consonants back in the back and took a vowel instead "

I new it was full of cheaters on here, ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?"

Because plenty of wifes are on here cheating. Same as husbands. And even one half of some couples cheat without the consent of the other half on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?

Because plenty of wifes are on here cheating. Same as husbands. And even one half of some couples cheat without the consent of the other half on fab "

I was on about the way that instead of making the effort to meet people on this site that may be here openly and without secrets, there has been loads of posts looking for cheaters!

some might think that this may be easier and some of the profiles are possibly honeytraps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?

Because plenty of wifes are on here cheating. Same as husbands. And even one half of some couples cheat without the consent of the other half on fab

I was on about the way that instead of making the effort to meet people on this site that may be here openly and without secrets, there has been loads of posts looking for cheaters!

some might think that this may be easier and some of the profiles are possibly honeytraps?"

Are you cheating? Id guess thats just for the cheaters on this site to worry about. If your not cheating why let it concern you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?

Because plenty of wifes are on here cheating. Same as husbands. And even one half of some couples cheat without the consent of the other half on fab

I was on about the way that instead of making the effort to meet people on this site that may be here openly and without secrets, there has been loads of posts looking for cheaters!

some might think that this may be easier and some of the profiles are possibly honeytraps? Are you cheating? Id guess thats just for the cheaters on this site to worry about. If your not cheating why let it concern you "

its far from a concern clit! its an observation, there are quite a few posts searching for cheaters trending currently

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?

when we were playing scrabble once I waited until A was out of the room and put one of my consonants back in the back and took a vowel instead

I new it was full of cheaters on here, ha ha"

theres some one for every body on here its just finding them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?

Because plenty of wifes are on here cheating. Same as husbands. And even one half of some couples cheat without the consent of the other half on fab

I was on about the way that instead of making the effort to meet people on this site that may be here openly and without secrets, there has been loads of posts looking for cheaters!

some might think that this may be easier and some of the profiles are possibly honeytraps? Are you cheating? Id guess thats just for the cheaters on this site to worry about. If your not cheating why let it concern you

its far from a concern clit! its an observation, there are quite a few posts searching for cheaters trending currently "

more fool them then. Once trust as gone so as the relationship in my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess he feels that a cheating wife will be less likely to say "I don't meet married/attached men".

Probably as simple as that. Also she's more likely to be available at the same times as him.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?

when we were playing scrabble once I waited until A was out of the room and put one of my consonants back in the back and took a vowel instead "

Let it be known; the only way I will ever play you two at Monopoly is with the electronic credit card version and when I go for a poo Im taking the machine with me but leaving the cards at the table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Desperately eager for some naughtiness but no one within 50 miles has checked me out"

Your wife's very local

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?

when we were playing scrabble once I waited until A was out of the room and put one of my consonants back in the back and took a vowel instead

Let it be known; the only way I will ever play you two at Monopoly is with the electronic credit card version and when I go for a poo Im taking the machine with me but leaving the cards at the table"

ok, but I want the hat

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

it's been months now with no joy!

Where are all the cheating wives? Lol Jake xx

Jake, ever thought of asking your wife if she is happy with the relationship you are in? .. or even funnier if she was on this site cheating on you, lol ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well Jodie's got it in one, or two lol..

Technically I'm not actually married yet, and I've never done anything so scandalous before.. I've got a few months until the knot istied and I DO want to spend my life with this woman she is the one for me but not so tolerant of this sort of thing.. obviously I have mentioned the idea but sadly she's not keen..

So what's the site for cheaters then? Haha :D

Much love xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Well Jodie's got it in one, or two lol..

Technically I'm not actually married yet, and I've never done anything so scandalous before.. I've got a few months until the knot istied and I DO want to spend my life with this woman she is the one for me but not so tolerant of this sort of thing.. obviously I have mentioned the idea but sadly she's not keen..

So what's the site for cheaters then? Haha :D

Much love xx"

Have a bit of a think about the next possibly 60 years....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if someone loves someone and wants to spend the rest of their life with them they have to put any thoughts of swinging behind them ?

Personally , those who 'cheat' on here are probably scratching an itch in a much safer way than if they were to sctrach it in other ways .

Providing they are careful and it's seen as what it is , it probably keeps many couples together

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"So if someone loves someone and wants to spend the rest of their life with them they have to put any thoughts of swinging behind them ?

Personally , those who 'cheat' on here are probably scratching an itch in a much safer way than if they were to sctrach it in other ways .

Providing they are careful and it's seen as what it is , it probably keeps many couples together "

I have no issue with how he lives his life, it isn't my business, I was really just pointing out that a marriage often lasts quite a long time and as is so often illustrated here sexual incompatability is often the cause of much unhappiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't no why ur struggling with a body like that! Maybe it's ur messages ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I forgot to add "shoot me for being inappropriate"..

Thanks clicky I don't think it's my face lol but maybe you are correct and I need to learn how to write...

Nicecouple thank you for your thoughts. It's not really a compatability issue.. We both love each other very much and the sex is great.. But alas I'm just a dick who wants to "spread his seed" further.. :S I don't NEED to cheat just want to because I feel I could after finding this site.. complete tool..

What can I say? It's driving me a little crazy to know there are so many super horny females out there! lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I forgot to add "shoot me for being inappropriate"..

Thanks clicky I don't think it's my face lol but maybe you are correct and I need to learn how to write...

Nicecouple thank you for your thoughts. It's not really a compatability issue.. We both love each other very much and the sex is great.. But alas I'm just a dick who wants to "spread his seed" further.. :S I don't NEED to cheat just want to because I feel I could after finding this site.. complete tool..

What can I say? It's driving me a little crazy to know there are so many super horny females out there! lol "

You can't say anything....you already said enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sh*t yes you are right I'm sorry!!! Oh well guess it looks like I'll be hanging up the swinging boots before even trying them on.. xxx

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By *om Tom 1969Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Another case of soembody asking a question and being morally beaten up by the righteous army. Guys, if you havent got an answer, just sit on your hands!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sh*t yes you are right I'm sorry!!! Oh well guess it looks like I'll be hanging up the swinging boots before even trying them on.. xxx"

Why....because of a few ppl you will never meet giving it the big allmighty on a public swingers forum. Take no notice and give your time to the people you wanna meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as a full colonel in the righteous almighty brigade, you shouldn't worry. All you need to do is commit completely to your lovely wife to be, stop fucking around behind her back, and one day, just maybe, you too can join our glorious army and fight the good fight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another case of soembody asking a question and being morally beaten up by the righteous army. Guys, if you havent got an answer, just sit on your hands!! "

People can post whatever they like. If you don't like their opinions, just sit on your hands.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Another case of soembody asking a question and being morally beaten up by the righteous army. Guys, if you havent got an answer, just sit on your hands!! "

Dude, it's a forum, look the definition up sometime, we don't need your permission to post our opinions on here!

Cheating isnt swinging, and swinging (within a relationship)isnt cheating, and the sooner those who aren't getting it at home realise that it's there that they need to concentrate their efforts, the better this site will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I forgot to add "shoot me for being inappropriate"..

Thanks clicky I don't think it's my face lol but maybe you are correct and I need to learn how to write...

Nicecouple thank you for your thoughts. It's not really a compatability issue.. We both love each other very much and the sex is great.. But alas I'm just a dick who wants to "spread his seed" further.. :S I don't NEED to cheat just want to because I feel I could after finding this site.. complete tool..

What can I say? It's driving me a little crazy to know there are so many super horny females out there! lol "

I'm not here to judge anyone and what you do is entirely up to you but I can't help wondering whether the future Mrs Wannabe28 will love you quite so much if she were to discover you on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?

when we were playing scrabble once I waited until A was out of the room and put one of my consonants back in the back and took a vowel instead "

Mrs N I am shocked and horrified at your duplicity

Did you win?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sh*t yes you are right I'm sorry!!! Oh well guess it looks like I'll be hanging up the swinging boots before even trying them on.. xxx"

But your not swinging, your cheating.

As most people will say, swinging is between consenting couples, as that is how it started out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My problem with single marrieds is they just aren't flexible enough, most cannot meet at home or they have a really small window to meet people.

To be honest op, your statement about being a dick n spreading ur seeds, is just plain dicky!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"whats with everyone wanting cheating wives lately?? its a swingers site?

when we were playing scrabble once I waited until A was out of the room and put one of my consonants back in the back and took a vowel instead

Mrs N I am shocked and horrified at your duplicity

Did you win? "

Of course not......well I might have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Nicecouple thank you for your thoughts. It's not really a compatability issue.. We both love each other very much and the sex is great.. But alas I'm just a dick who wants to "spread his seed" further.. :S I don't NEED to cheat just want to because I feel I could after finding this site.. complete tool..

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How many men have found out the hard way where this path leads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry 'people', not 'men'. Mustn't be sexist!

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Op - wouldn't it be better to get your future wife's approval before playing away ? Honesty really is the best policy - and if she agrees at least what you are doing won't be considered as cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow thanks everyone. Lot's of opinions and whilst they might not all be on the same page they're from the same book..

I honestly agree with all of you if you know what I mean.

Of course I was expecting to be judged by putting out the post in the first place! So thanks guys but I don't need defending

Like I said I know I'm a dick for even THINKING about it and as you say just being on here is bad enough.. To reiterate though I have never physically cheated on her..

It may well not be the healthiest of life paths for anyone, but fu*k it life's too short. I've lost friends before their time and cheated mr grim myself more than once. I'm not trying to justify my actions with the "hit by a bus" line but I guess I ain't too far off lol

Yes I know I'm a naughty boy.. but why does it feel so good to be bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I guess you have to ask yourself if it was your other half who was doing what you're doing would you be ok with it?

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