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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks "
You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too

Sarah x"

That's some good advice! Got a semi reading it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too

Sarah x

That's some good advice! Got a semi reading it"

Sarah x

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By *34rwbMan
over a year ago

Royal Wootton Bassett

Yes, cleanliness is of utmost importance, but you don't need to go right in. Flick your tongue around and just gently probe, encircle the edge with the tip of your tongue, lick it, get it wet, use your fingers expertly.......like you I was nervous, but it's so satisfying, but as I said at the start, cleanliness (at least to most) is paramount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks "

Then don't do it. It isn't compulsory.

Well actually I used to see one lady where it was compulsory....but it isn't with most people. Why do you feel you need to do something you aren't 100% happy with ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, cleanliness is of utmost importance, but you don't need to go right in. Flick your tongue around and just gently probe, encircle the edge with the tip of your tongue, lick it, get it wet, use your fingers expertly.......like you I was nervous, but it's so satisfying, but as I said at the start, cleanliness (at least to most) is paramount."
Yep. A little douching and thorough drying beforehand, pretty much guarantees a lovely sensual experience for all involved

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't bet a bit off rimming both ways as long as is clean nothink more sensual

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I love rimming a woman so nice to get your face there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ewww not for me mrs...but each to their own... enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too

Sarah x"

They are really good instructions but not sure I have a full grasp of it, any chance you could come and show us how it's done.

just for the purpose of clarity obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love rimming.and fucking.both men and women.is it safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys - great advice - heeded

I know it's not compulsory, lol - nothing is, but I like to please the person I'm with, and if it's something they'd like to do, then I'm always up for giving them pleasure if I can. You never know, I might want them to do something for me, lol

Maybe we should ALL get together to practice, lol xx

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too

Sarah x"

Fuck me Sarah!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

eeewww - definitely not for me lol

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks "

Cleanliness of course but does that involve ViM !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me and I would never do anything I'm not comfortable with, what's the point!? It is a risky pastime. There is no data to suggest that anyone has caught HIV from rimming, although there are other risks to getting even a small bit of shit in your mouth. Hepatitis A is most often caught from rimming and gonorrhoea can also be passed on this way. There are also a number of gut infections you can get from rimming. Even a recently washed arsehole may carry some extremely infectious, microscopic organisms, but there is an even greater risk if you rim someone who hasn't washed beforehand, or who is suffering from diarrhoea. Enjoy

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and

flicking the surrounding area with your

tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too

Sarah x

That's some good advice! Got a semi reading it

I got more than a semi lol

Sarah x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...... but there is an even greater risk if you rim someone who hasn't washed beforehand, or who is suffering from diarrhoea. Enjoy "

Yes, to be honest if ever I get a really bad bout of diarrhoea the first thing I think of is "now who can I get to rim me?"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Start small - just get your partner to sit on you.

Just rim for a second or two a few times till you get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me and I would never do anything I'm not comfortable with, what's the point!? It is a risky pastime. There is no data to suggest that anyone has caught HIV from rimming, although there are other risks to getting even a small bit of shit in your mouth. Hepatitis A is most often caught from rimming and gonorrhoea can also be passed on this way. There are also a number of gut infections you can get from rimming. Even a recently washed arsehole may carry some extremely infectious, microscopic organisms, but there is an even greater risk if you rim someone who hasn't washed beforehand, or who is suffering from diarrhoea. Enjoy "
All good advice. In other words, it's a calculated risk, as are most things in life. Only to be done with someone you know well. Someone that you know has just washed and isn't (to the fullest of your knowledge) suffering any gastro-related unmentionables

Sarah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, to be honest if ever I get a really bad bout of diarrhoea the first thing I think of is "now who can I get to rim me?""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As per the above, the sensation is not just inside but around it.

Personally I love nothing more than a teasing build up before going anywhere near the area, its almost like those charity coin things you used to see. Where the 2p would go round and round getting closer and faster to the hole (except the 2p would drop in!)

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By *ave1977Man
over a year ago

Mid Cheshire

Just close your eyes and think you are licking a 'Balloon Knot'

Onec you have overcome this fear you'll love it....ps it MUST be smooth

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

PDI until the 18th Nov


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too

Sarah x"

OMG if I wasnt horny before, I am after reading that

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks

Then don't do it. It isn't compulsory.

Well actually I used to see one lady where it was compulsory....but it isn't with most people. Why do you feel you need to do something you aren't 100% happy with ?"
I agree,if it doesn't feel right don't do it..

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By *riendly FiresCouple
over a year ago

Beverley


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks "

Mind the Sweetcorn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks

Mind the Sweetcorn. "

That's the best part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once bit the bulit an rimmed a lady in hasting was ok till she let wind put me off rimming but did fuck her in both holes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once bit the bulit an rimmed a lady in hasting was ok till she let wind put me off rimming but did fuck her in both holes "

Class! Pure class!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I once bit the bulit an rimmed a lady in hasting was ok till she let wind put me off rimming but did fuck her in both holes "

Feel a bit ill after reading that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once bit the bulit an rimmed a lady in hasting was ok till she let wind put me off rimming but did fuck her in both holes

Feel a bit ill after reading that!"

just what i thought as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make sure he or her had a shower and not a shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it. also love the musky not pooie smell of a girls bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love it. also love the musky not pooie smell of a girls bottom"

Do girl's bottoms smell different to men's or even women's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love it. also love the musky not pooie smell of a girls bottom

Do girl's bottoms smell different to men's or even women's! "

Yeah, girls use My Little Pony bubble bath, men use Lynx Africa Shower gel and women use French Lime Blossom Bath Oil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love it. also love the musky not pooie smell of a girls bottom

Do girl's bottoms smell different to men's or even women's! "

Never smely a mans and girls i mean women,

I take it your in the im offended you called me a girl camp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love it. also love the musky not pooie smell of a girls bottom

Do girl's bottoms smell different to men's or even women's!

Never smely a mans and girls i mean women,

I take it your in the im offended you called me a girl camp "

You didn't call me a girl, so how can I be offended? I assumed you meant girls and not women, you know, very, very young women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once bit the bulit an rimmed a lady in hasting was ok till she let wind put me off rimming but did fuck her in both holes

Feel a bit ill after reading that!"

I agree. The punctuation is quite upsetting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once bit the bulit an rimmed a lady in hasting was ok till she let wind put me off rimming but did fuck her in both holes

Feel a bit ill after reading that!

I agree. The punctuation is quite upsetting. "

I had to have a lie down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading erotic stories on erotic rimming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boke.....

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Cleanliness is paramount as for picking up infections you can catch gonareha from kissing mouth to mouth with a carrier who is an active phase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too

Sarah x

They are really good instructions but not sure I have a full grasp of it, any chance you could come and show us how it's done.

just for the purpose of clarity obviously. "

I'm the same, I'm sure I'd get it better if I was shown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too

Sarah x

They are really good instructions but not sure I have a full grasp of it, any chance you could come and show us how it's done.

just for the purpose of clarity obviously.

I'm the same, I'm sure I'd get it better if I was shown

"

Naughty people! My fave kind of people

Sarah x

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By *riendly FiresCouple
over a year ago

Beverley


"I once bit the bulit an rimmed a lady in hasting was ok till she let wind put me off rimming but did fuck her in both holes

Feel a bit ill after reading that!"

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"Help please - I'm possibly being narrow minded, bcoz I'm usually up for anything - BUT can anyone help me with my fear of rimming. Obviously it's all about clean, clean clean, and I'm fine with anal, I just can't get my head around putting my tongue down there - thanks You don't have to put your tongue right in - finger, rub and stroke it maybe, while licking, and flicking the surrounding area with your tongue. Sliding your tongue slowly, then quickly , circumnavigating the rim, whilst also alternating your finger rhythm - is a winner too

Sarah x"

I sure this advice is coming from the experience...thanks for passing on your skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, cleanliness is of utmost importance, but you don't need to go right in. Flick your tongue around and just gently probe, encircle the edge with the tip of your tongue, lick it, get it wet, use your fingers expertly.......like you I was nervous, but it's so satisfying, but as I said at the start, cleanliness (at least to most) is paramount."
Well not to me! Cleanliness is the last thing I want! Too much cleanliness takes much of the fun out of oral sex. What is the point of licking or sucking intimate parts of the body which smell and taste like shower gel? It's the natural taste of these areas which make them sexy.

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By *azza72Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I had a girlfriend who loved me licking her arse but thought I was disgusting when I drank straight from the milk bottle. Never figured that one out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, cleanliness is of utmost importance, but you don't need to go right in. Flick your tongue around and just gently probe, encircle the edge with the tip of your tongue, lick it, get it wet, use your fingers expertly.......like you I was nervous, but it's so satisfying, but as I said at the start, cleanliness (at least to most) is paramount. Yep. A little douching and thorough drying beforehand, pretty much guarantees a lovely sensual experience for all involved

Sarah x"

Off to get a shower and a douche....

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

OMG... "Circumnavigating the rim" that is the mother of all sayings!!

I need to Circumnavigate the Rim.. I would dress up like Christopher Fucking Columbus if it got me some Circumnavigation of the Pacific Rim!!!

God I'm more horny than a vikings helmet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried rimming obviously cleanliness is important. Don't wanna lick a dirty arse lol

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

Rimming is one of those things that feel dirty but so so fucking sexy

obviously its gotta be a clean ass, but when you spread her cheeks open and run your tongue down her crack.... and then you're licking her asshole, circling it.... and then push your tongue in...FUCK You'll be hornier than a viking raiding party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me and I would never do anything I'm not comfortable with, what's the point!? It is a risky pastime. There is no data to suggest that anyone has caught HIV from rimming, although there are other risks to getting even a small bit of shit in your mouth. Hepatitis A is most often caught from rimming and gonorrhoea can also be passed on this way. There are also a number of gut infections you can get from rimming. Even a recently washed arsehole may carry some extremely infectious, microscopic organisms, but there is an even greater risk if you rim someone who hasn't washed beforehand, or who is suffering from diarrhoea. Enjoy All good advice. In other words, it's a calculated risk, as are most things in life. Only to be done with someone you know well. Someone that you know has just washed and isn't (to the fullest of your knowledge) suffering any gastro-related unmentionables

Sarah x"
Good to avoid someone who is diseased or suffering from diarrhoea The smell from their anus would quickly tell you whether they were suffering from an intestinal infection, AS to Hepatitis A you will have been infected long before you rim them The virus is airborne and is easily transmitted by touching the infected person or sharing their airspace. test this for yourself go to your doctor and tell him you have hepatitis and watch how quickly they will retract from you they will be over the other side of the room as quickly as they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me and I would never do anything I'm not comfortable with, what's the point!? It is a risky pastime. There is no data to suggest that anyone has caught HIV from rimming, although there are other risks to getting even a small bit of shit in your mouth. Hepatitis A is most often caught from rimming and gonorrhoea can also be passed on this way. There are also a number of gut infections you can get from rimming. Even a recently washed arsehole may carry some extremely infectious, microscopic organisms, but there is an even greater risk if you rim someone who hasn't washed beforehand, or who is suffering from diarrhoea. Enjoy All good advice. In other words, it's a calculated risk, as are most things in life. Only to be done with someone you know well. Someone that you know has just washed and isn't (to the fullest of your knowledge) suffering any gastro-related unmentionables

Sarah x Good to avoid someone who is diseased or suffering from diarrhoea The smell from their anus would quickly tell you whether they were suffering from an intestinal infection, AS to Hepatitis A you will have been infected long before you rim them The virus is airborne and is easily transmitted by touching the infected person or sharing their airspace. test this for yourself go to your doctor and tell him you have hepatitis and watch how quickly they will retract from you they will be over the other side of the room as quickly as they can."
But your profile says you rim Jim?

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clue is in the name, rimming as opposed to tongue fucking, gently tease the rim without penetrating. personally I love to do it for a girl, no girl would let you anywhere near it if she wasn't spotlessly clean. I find it very erotic and intimate. I usually do it after giving a good few orgasms from giving oral to give her pussy a chance to recover, more orgasms can be achieved from rimming when combined with good use of the fingers, alternating between the pussy and ass. Get stuck in man it's not gonna kill you and they'll love you for it

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By *exykinkyfuncplCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

i love getting rimmed mmmmmmmmmmmmmm by sexy girls the male half lol always makes me cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rimming a girl is amazing, dont go right in, its called rimming, so you put your tongue on the rim and lick, get it wet, and keep licking away, while playing with her pussy, as she gets more turned on, and you get more hornier, and confident, maybe u can go right in

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