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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any advice for a single bloke looking for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice for a single bloke looking for meets"

Take a look around the forums, plenty of guys asking the same thing.

The replies there should give you a clue.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Try pretending you are a couple!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Stop looking

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Making an effort is always a start! A one liner profile will never get a response from me, because I look at the profile before I even bother to open the message!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Clubs, effort and Jaffa cakes

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Triple H fella

Honesty

Humour

Hung like a horse*

*this isn't important (it's for views personal picture collection,

)the other two are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 10 word profile indicates a total lack of effort. Your profile is your shop wimdoe but yours's says nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop looking

Start having a laugh

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Making an effort is always a start! A one liner profile will never get a response from me, because I look at the profile before I even bother to open the message!

This!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Making an effort is always a start! A one liner profile will never get a response from me, because I look at the profile before I even bother to open the message!

This, definitely

Effort in = rewards out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think realistically.

Are you attractive in real life?

Are you comfortable in your own skin and social?

Have you made genuine attempts at contact, and your profile? No copy and paste messages.

Are you looking to meet new people? Have you tried breaking the ice online, on forums to give a positive representation of yourself?

Attend socials and clubs, don't be put off by travelling.

Have zero expectations and afford others maximum respect and interest in the other party.

Be patient. Be more patient. Oh and don't expect fab to replace things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared for a very uphill climb or if you want to cut straight to the action forget this site and get an escort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be prepared for a very uphill climb or if you want to cut straight to the action forget this site and get an escort"

Let's be honest though, with the effort that some guys put into their profile, they certainly seem to think they need to put no effort in to cut straight to the action!!

There must be hundreds of threads with single guys asking advice on their profiles, and everyone points to effort. It amazes us that guys come on here, put on a token one line profile, then ask for advice??

The advice is already plastered all over these threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read people's profiles carefully chap. Some people miss the small print it the ones that do who get the rewards that come with being a decent verified reliable single.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Be prepared for a very uphill climb or if you want to cut straight to the action forget this site and get an escort

Let's be honest though, with the effort that some guys put into their profile, they certainly seem to think they need to put no effort in to cut straight to the action!!

The advice is already plastered all over these threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read people's profiles carefully chap. Some people miss the small print it the ones that do who get the rewards that come with being a decent verified reliable single. "

So true!!

Every so often on these threads a single guy will pop up his head and say he is having a GREAT time!

To be fair, they deserve all the fun they can get, and all for just being decent and making an effort!!

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Pretend you are a single guy who can write a good profile and doesn't feel the need to put stupid photos of himself pulling faces on his profile?

Just a thought.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

"Any advice for a single bloke looking for meets"

try a dating site that matches you with a partner..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am having a great time

Granted I have had a few meets with discerning people who appreciate that if you give guys a chance you may find it rewarding.

Listen to all the advice, really work hard on you profile so it sells you

But be yourself. And be patient.

Even the more average looking of us get meets.

My secret is, make a lady laugh. As she laughs her endorphin levels rise, making her feel happier. A added bonus is that if they laugh, they smile. This causes their eyes to naturally close a bit, putting me slightly out of focus.

A good belly laugh and they cry with laughter, then they can't see my mush!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take photos of yourself in a short skirt and watch the offers roll in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't hold your breath, like I did. Guess what, I nearly died? LMAO.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Think realistically.

Are you attractive in real life?

Are you comfortable in your own skin and social?

Have you made genuine attempts at contact, and your profile? No copy and paste messages.

Are you looking to meet new people? Have you tried breaking the ice online, on forums to give a positive representation of yourself?

Attend socials and clubs, don't be put off by travelling.

Have zero expectations and afford others maximum respect and interest in the other party.

Be patient. Be more patient. Oh and don't expect fab to replace things. "

Nail. Head.

Give that man a cake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a difficult one....you should be yourself, and being yourself means coming on here and seeking advice as many have and many more will....but taking that advice and acting on it kinda makes you not you so its a fine line to walk at times.

My best advice is be precisely yourself...nothing more or nothing less and you will get what is meant to be yours...

That was probably of no help but its what advice I have just now

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

A good or average profile including pics is a given but is merely the tip of the iceberg!

Even if well presented it ultimately boils down to choice of others and most swingers don't seek singles!

As a single you need to mingle and be seen for real as one off meets are rare. Lots prefer socials and clubs to see those genuinely and actively seeking fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn gay or bi I only get hit on by men hehe. Happy hallowe'en every one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100 per cent there's a few guys in the forum regularly look at their profiles and learn !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make an effort with your profile. Be honest. Have a cock shot or two, face pic or two and a full body pic. Message couples / females who your attracted to and tell them why. Try to have a laugh. If you get the chance of a meet be reliable and genuine, be clean well dressed and smell nice.

Oh....if your married say so.....couples and women can see straight thru a guy that cant meet/chat etc on evenings or can only do quick meets etc....generally they are married and wife doesnt know.

Also.....dont claim to have an 8 inch cock when its clearly 6 inch. Dont boast brag about sexual prowess, sounds immature!

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By *lare-smith2014Couple
over a year ago

Southend

A nice message is always a start...A girl likes nice complements...

"How about a quick fuck...or where are you and I'll be there in a minute to bend you over"...really dosn't work surprisingly lol.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think as time goes on the succesful single men become more successful and sort after and the others, the 'no effort lot' become more bitter, leave, come back again, get more bitter, leave, come back again etc etc.

The info is out there. It's not rocket science.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its by luck mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do guys post threads to the forums like this for. Just search and plenty of advice will be there. Even if you apply the advice things will still be difficult for you. Expect nowt then you cant be dissapointed. All these posts do is give people that like to give single guys a hard time...just that.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I think as time goes on the succesful single men become more successful and sort after and the others, the 'no effort lot' become more bitter, leave, come back again, get more bitter, leave, come back again etc etc.

The info is out there. It's not rocket science."

This is so true. The info is all over the Forum in dozens of similar threads.

Some of the "no effort" brigade also continually park the same old whingeing posts on the message boards too, readily blaming the culture of the site and everyone else but themselves for lack of success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this advice and no notice taken whatsoever!!

The OP has been back on and hasn't changed a thing.

Kind of says it all don't you think? A definite LOOK AT ME post.

Have to make a comment on something that was said earlier. Things like this do give people the opportunity to bad mouth single guys, but only the ones who deserve it. Look at it the other way, every single guy exposed as a waster gives the decent guys on here a better opportunity!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Any advice for a single bloke looking for meets"

Make yourself an attractive proposition by having a profile which you've put some effort into. After all, if you can't be bothered with yourself, why should any one else be bothered with you?

Ps. I am not wearing a Harry Potter Invisibility Cloak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men are all bastards!

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Any advice for a single bloke looking for meets"

Try going to socials and/or clubs, you can at least meet people and get verified as genuine.

And if you send a message to someone don't just say hi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single men are all bastards!"

Interesting thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice for a single bloke looking for meets"

Read profiles, be polite, both ask questions and say a little about you in messages and don't sulk over rejections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single men are all bastards!

Interesting thought "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single men are all bastards!

Interesting thought

aww not all!! and I'm a men hating, twat licking, strap on wearing dyke (my ex's words not mine - he said it like it was a bad thing!)

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Any advice for a single bloke looking for meets"

yep... i don't think 10 words is really going to cut it (i counted them all.... twice!)

fab hasn't started charging by the word quite yet... so how about a bit of effort and use a few....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single men are all bastards!

Interesting thought

Sarcasm returned lo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're already doing everything you can. Change nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single men are all bastards!

Interesting thought

Sarcasm returned lo

I got your sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice for a single bloke looking for meets

Make yourself an attractive proposition by having a profile which you've put some effort into. After all, if you can't be bothered with yourself, why should any one else be bothered with you?

Ps. I am not wearing a Harry Potter Invisibility Cloak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you're already doing everything you can. Change nothing.

This

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Aim low.

Lol

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