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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it with this site? Is my profile showing something I can't see!! Hardly ever seen to get a reply to my messages, I understand that women must get loads of messages but still should get luck once in a while, haha what can I do to improve my profile to get noticed more!! Can't afford plastic surgery!!! Haha

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What do you think is wrong with your profile?

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

The text is a bit boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get off your ass and go to a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get off your ass and go to a club"
I'm not actually on my arse, haha im not really sure the club thing is my scene, not saying I won't ever try it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get off your ass and go to a club"
That a offer for you to take him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get off your ass and go to a club That a offer for you to take him "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Je regrette rien...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Another case of bi man invisibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's a standard on this site, women have a lot of men to choose from so can be really picky.

But if you're willing to go with anyone then you should have no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get off your ass and go to a club That a offer for you to take him "

Hell no! I don't do hand holding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the pic from 2010 off your profile you look completely different in the new ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get off your ass and go to a club That a offer for you to take him

Hell no! I don't do hand holding"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get off your ass and go to a club I'm not actually on my arse, haha im not really sure the club thing is my scene, not saying I won't ever try it though"

Relying on this site alone you'll be waiting a long time for more meets. By going to club's and parties you're getting yourself known and you might actually have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think is wrong with your profile? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get off your ass and go to a club I'm not actually on my arse, haha im not really sure the club thing is my scene, not saying I won't ever try it though

Relying on this site alone you'll be waiting a long time for more meets. By going to club's and parties you're getting yourself known and you might actually have fun"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Je regrette rien..."
what would u have to regret?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take the pic from 2010 off your profile you look completely different in the new ones "
suppose that's part of getting older, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here, im getting more attention from men! lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if you want me to be brutally honest...

your profile says absolutely nothing about you.... and says absolutely nothing about the type of people you are after......

If i was part of a couple looking for a meet.... I honestly wouldn't have a clue if we were the people you were after.....

its almost a perfect example of a profile that have lots of words but says absolutely nothing......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take the pic from 2010 off your profile you look completely different in the new ones suppose that's part of getting older, haha"

It is, but there's no end of people complain about meeting people who look completely different to their pics. I know you have current ones but can't get away from the fact you do look different

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take the pic from 2010 off your profile you look completely different in the new ones suppose that's part of getting older, haha

It is, but there's no end of people complain about meeting people who look completely different to their pics. I know you have current ones but can't get away from the fact you do look different "
thanks Karen I've added to my private pics and uploaded a cheeky arse shot, hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take the pic from 2010 off your profile you look completely different in the new ones suppose that's part of getting older, haha

It is, but there's no end of people complain about meeting people who look completely different to their pics. I know you have current ones but can't get away from the fact you do look different thanks Karen I've added to my private pics and uploaded a cheeky arse shot, hahaha"

Can't beat a cheeky arse shot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take the pic from 2010 off your profile you look completely different in the new ones suppose that's part of getting older, haha

It is, but there's no end of people complain about meeting people who look completely different to their pics. I know you have current ones but can't get away from the fact you do look different thanks Karen I've added to my private pics and uploaded a cheeky arse shot, hahaha

Can't beat a cheeky arse shot "
let's hope it makes some difference then, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is it with this site? Is my profile showing something I can't see!! Hardly ever seen to get a reply to my messages, I understand that women must get loads of messages but still should get luck once in a while, haha what can I do to improve my profile to get noticed more!! Can't afford plastic surgery!!! Haha"

some pics of you smiling would probably help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profiles not as at all, your text could probably do with changing it's a but general and the Facebook comment is annoying but your a good looking guy. Maybe a smiling pic would help. I suggest you go to socials as it's ideal to network

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it with this site? Is my profile showing something I can't see!! Hardly ever seen to get a reply to my messages, I understand that women must get loads of messages but still should get luck once in a while, haha what can I do to improve my profile to get noticed more!! Can't afford plastic surgery!!! Haha

some pics of you smiling would probably help. I'm always with some1 in the pic and fab won't allow it, haha "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profiles not as at all, your text could probably do with changing it's a but general and the Facebook comment is annoying but your a good looking guy. Maybe a smiling pic would help. I suggest you go to socials as it's ideal to network "

Removed the facebook comment, thanks!! Where do you find out where and when the socials are on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chewy, the first step you did was raised this issue withi this forum, There you go straight away you have got attention so well done. Second of all the ratio from men to women is uncountable so you have to play the numbers game and eventually the right one will come your way . I have had 1 meet in over a year and i dontb think i am too bad ha Anyway good luck son!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chewy, the first step you did was raised this issue withi this forum, There you go straight away you have got attention so well done. Second of all the ratio from men to women is uncountable so you have to play the numbers game and eventually the right one will come your way . I have had 1 meet in over a year and i dontb think i am too bad ha Anyway good luck son!!!"
lmao tell me about it, my profile has never been viewed as much, ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's.... The hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profiles not as at all, your text could probably do with changing it's a but general and the Facebook comment is annoying but your a good looking guy. Maybe a smiling pic would help. I suggest you go to socials as it's ideal to network

Removed the facebook comment, thanks!! Where do you find out where and when the socials are on"

Forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's.... The hat "
yeah I suppose, my bad!! Always buy a shit hat when I'm on holiday, I have a vast collection, haha

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"What is it with this site? Is my profile showing something I can't see!! Hardly ever seen to get a reply to my messages, I understand that women must get loads of messages but still should get luck once in a while, haha what can I do to improve my profile to get noticed more!! Can't afford plastic surgery!!! Haha"
It might help if you listed your hobbies and interests . Would give people browsing profiles a better indication of the type of person that you are .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"if you want me to be brutally honest...

your profile says absolutely nothing about you.... and says absolutely nothing about the type of people you are after......

If i was part of a couple looking for a meet.... I honestly wouldn't have a clue if we were the people you were after.....

its almost a perfect example of a profile that have lots of words but says absolutely nothing......"

This!

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings


"What is it with this site? Is my profile showing something I can't see!! Hardly ever seen to get a reply to my messages, I understand that women must get loads of messages but still should get luck once in a while, haha what can I do to improve my profile to get noticed more!! Can't afford plastic surgery!!! Haha"

The main problem is that you are male

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

profile is rubbish, first para is arsy, second is sports based. You do realise this is a swingers site, not a sport site, right?

photos are ok, though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"profile is rubbish, first para is arsy, second is sports based. You do realise this is a swingers site, not a sport site, right?

photos are ok, though."
haha I only added the sport bit as some1 suggested adding my hobbies, haha I do understand its a swingers site just not really sure how to sell myself, ha hope ur having a good day! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the problem with single guys is that they join a swingers site and know next to nothing about the lifestyle.

they think that they'll join and get lots of shags with minimum effort.

the main point to make is that swinging is not just about the sex, its also about the social side too. its about networking and making friends. trust me alot happens purely by word of mouth in this lifestyle.

so if you really want to be included and increase your chances of fun, you need to socialise and get your face known.

a club or a social is the best way.

there is a club in Leeds and there is a Bradford social at the end of November.

good luck.

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By *y2funMan
over a year ago

DUDLEY


" I won't ever try it though"

think sometimes you have to get proactive on here, I know we have too...

clubs do seem to be the better option as meeting one to one dosn't seem fashionable right now.... who knows the real answer we just keep looking and know sooner or later we'll meet the right people/person

one thing in your favor is at least you don't have loads of cock shots or fannies the size of buckets splashed everywhere, all that puts us off..... at least a little sauce on the steak for starts

and if its any help some of us couple don't get many messages let alone many replies to out messages....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the problem with single guys is that they join a swingers site and know next to nothing about the lifestyle.

they think that they'll join and get lots of shags with minimum effort.

the main point to make is that swinging is not just about the sex, its also about the social side too. its about networking and making friends. trust me alot happens purely by word of mouth in this lifestyle.

so if you really want to be included and increase your chances of fun, you need to socialise and get your face known.

a club or a social is the best way.

there is a club in Leeds and there is a Bradford social at the end of November.

good luck."

Absolutely spot on!!

We love the line;

they think that they'll join and get lots of shags with minimum effort.

It is so true.

We are so surprised they still do it as all the genuine folk on here figured them out ages ago.

We have to finish with one thing though, we know there are some GENUINE DECENT single guys out there and the best of luck to them!

Remember this you good ones, all the idiots will make you decent guys stand out even more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks girls for ur input!!! Think I need to get more creative with my messages and get out there and meet people!! Hope you all have a good weekend and have as much fun as possible!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another case of bi man invisibility "

Speak to the inner sanctum about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the problem with single guys is that they join a swingers site and know next to nothing about the lifestyle.

they think that they'll join and get lots of shags with minimum effort.

the main point to make is that swinging is not just about the sex, its also about the social side too. its about networking and making friends. trust me alot happens purely by word of mouth in this lifestyle.

so if you really want to be included and increase your chances of fun, you need to socialise and get your face known.

a club or a social is the best way.

there is a club in Leeds and there is a Bradford social at the end of November.

good luck."

All good advice

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"What is it with this site? Is my profile showing something I can't see!! Hardly ever seen to get a reply to my messages, I understand that women must get loads of messages but still should get luck once in a while, haha what can I do to improve my profile to get noticed more!! Can't afford plastic surgery!!! Haha"
it does have your face pics on show maybe thats the problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is it with this site? Is my profile showing something I can't see!! Hardly ever seen to get a reply to my messages, I understand that women must get loads of messages but still should get luck once in a while, haha what can I do to improve my profile to get noticed more!! Can't afford plastic surgery!!! Haha it does have your face pics on show maybe thats the problem "
haha maybe that's it!!

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Maybe as your not reading profiles

U winked me 10 months ago and up until days ago my profile stated no wink and only local guys

Clearly you dont read so what the hell are you hoping for?wink at every female and we will all fall over ourselves chasing you?

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