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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......

Clear and honest profile. Check

Pics. Check.

Face pic on request. Check and sent.

Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.

Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.

Being patient. Check.

I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.

Any thoughts?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Well there's nothing for it, you'll have to catch the ghey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you a boring or exciting person?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Well there's nothing for it, you'll have to catch the ghey "

Already half caught it, will accept pleasure from anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......

Clear and honest profile. Check

Pics. Check.

Face pic on request. Check and sent.

Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.

Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.

Being patient. Check.

I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.

Any thoughts?

"

you could always do what I do..? buy some candles..some incense and a prayer mat..and pray hard to your higher power and have faith..it hasn't worked for me yet..but im going to persevere and hope a miracle will happen..?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Well there's nothing for it, you'll have to catch the ghey

Already half caught it, will accept pleasure from anyone!"

Ya know men don't read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you are in your 50s but profile says 44. Profile says straight, but you say you are happy to please and be pleased by both sexes. It's all a bit inconsistent. Plus the only pics are cock pics. And you can't accom. All that will count against you unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its by luck, your time will eventually come, but takes abit longer, like Russian roulete, its bound to land on your profile one day.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah, the age thing needs sorting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You say you are in your 50s but profile says 44. Profile says straight, but you say you are happy to please and be pleased by both sexes. It's all a bit inconsistent. Plus the only pics are cock pics. And you can't accom. All that will count against you unfortunately. "

I have to agree and add that a profile pic that contains more ski of another person is a complete turn off, Especially during play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skin* not ski lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I counted 8 reasons why it would be a no from me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......

Clear and honest profile. Check

Pics. Check.

Face pic on request. Check and sent.

Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.

Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.

Being patient. Check.

I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.

Any thoughts?

"

Confusing profile - check

Not very nice profile pics - check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......

Clear and honest profile. Check

Pics. Check.

Face pic on request. Check and sent.

Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.

Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.

Being patient. Check.

I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.

Any thoughts?

"

Ticking all of those boxes means nothing if people don't find you attractive (disclaimer - I haven't seen the face so this is not a personal comment)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your going to be less then honest regarding your age do make sure your profile text marries up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the help and advice.

Will sort the profile issues.

Cheers

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

You do not have a clear and honest profile!

Your profile says 44 liar, because you text says 50's!

Cannot accommodate? Married per chance?

Straight, but happy to be pleased by both sexes? Really? - You are not straight! So reality check, your total profile is a complete lie!

And you have to ask????

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......

Clear and honest profile. Check

Pics. Check.

Face pic on request. Check and sent.

Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.

Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.

Being patient. Check.

I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.

Any thoughts?

you could always do what I do..? buy some candles..some incense and a prayer mat..and pray hard to your higher power and have faith..it hasn't worked for me yet..but im going to persevere and hope a miracle will happen..? "

God loves a trier

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"I counted 8 reasons why it would be a no from me."

I got 9 .... do I win!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I counted 8 reasons why it would be a no from me.

I got 9 .... do I win!! "

Yep. You win the OP. x

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"I counted 8 reasons why it would be a no from me.

I got 9 .... do I win!!

Yep. You win the OP. x"

Am I allowed to donate my prize!!!!

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

your pics are pretty awful.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Thanks everyone for the help and advice.

Will sort the profile issues.

Cheers"

So, sorting the profile issues means removing the text stating that you are in your 50s, but leaving your age at 44???!!! Be honest!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone for the help and advice.

Will sort the profile issues.

Cheers

So, sorting the profile issues means removing the text stating that you are in your 50s, but leaving your age at 44???!!! Be honest!!! "

But he looks younger than what he is..maybe he's in his 50s but looks 44

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......

Clear and honest profile. Check

Pics. Check.

Face pic on request. Check and sent.

Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.

Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.

Being patient. Check. No face picture or hobbies and interests . On a simplistic basis your profile just says you are a male wanting sex .

I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.

Any thoughts?

"

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Thanks everyone for the help and advice.

Will sort the profile issues.

Cheers

So, sorting the profile issues means removing the text stating that you are in your 50s, but leaving your age at 44???!!! Be honest!!!

But he looks younger than what he is..maybe he's in his 50s but looks 44 "

Ohhhhh I never thought of that, silly me! That makes it ok to lie then!!! Lol

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I am aware that as a single male looking for fun is always going to be a little difficult, but......

Clear and honest profile. Check

Pics. Check.

Face pic on request. Check and sent.

Not sending unsolicited Friends requests, winks etc. Check.

Being a nice, genuine, respectful, friendly bloke. Check.

Being patient. Check.

You need some pictures of face plus hobbies and interests

I don't think that I am that ugly and I do smell nice.

Any thoughts?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all of the above and the biggest problem is NOT being able to accommodate!!! allways sounds like someone playing away!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest turn off for many couples?

Calling yourself SouthWestDogger and picks of your cock... are you trying to meet a man or woman, think about what a woman wants, not what you want

Good luck, I'm sure it'll happen soon... if it hadn't already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all of the above and the biggest problem is NOT being able to accommodate!!! allways sounds like someone playing away!!!!"

So come on OP, don't keep avoiding the question, are you playing away?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I get the impression that the OP may now be regretting his lookatme OP, given the universal negative reaction to it...

Personally, whilst I agree with all points made by contributors, I find this juvenile Supercar-startup sequence of "Check" the most irritating aspect of it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I asked the question, and I got the responses.

Thank you all for the mainly positive comments.

Learned a great deal. I am sure it will help.

For those who were not to complimentary, I can't change your opinion but can say I am not a liar, I have not set out to deceive and I am not playing away.

Thanks again.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

People don't make mistakes about their age, dude. Which is it? 44 or in your 50's? That annoyed quite a few people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

50's

Dude

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

we would be put off by your username, and dink pic's , I know its fickle but that's all it take. but good luck with your search

Connie x

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Think we can leave it there

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