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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

Anyone like to verify me it so hard to on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrrm no. You have to either meet someone or be verified on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone like to verify me it so hard to on this site. "

Cams or socials seem to be the standard advice to break the duck.

Good luck

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

I know that most women won't even chat to newbies. im trying to meet and chat to get verified

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

I don't do cams but would do anything els I'm chatting and trying to meet but they say don't meet unverified or newbies

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't do cams but would do anything els I'm chatting and trying to meet but they say don't meet unverified or newbies "

What's wrong with cams?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

So you expect a complete stranger to just say ok then...what do you want me to say?...

Get real!

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Someone has already said.......organised socials are an easy way to get verified.

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

I don't mean for a woman to just jump into bed with me I'm just looking to chat and get to know someone first . With the possibility of meeting later when both want to. Sorry for not been more clear.

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

Yes but it's hard to get invites

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Oh god....another case of invisibility.

Ignore the bi man *sigh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mean for a woman to just jump into bed with me I'm just looking to chat and get to know someone first . With the possibility of meeting later when both want to. Sorry for not been more clear."

your op was asking for a verification and you can only get that by meeting or by cams, you are clear when you say you don't do cams so asking to chat isn't gonna get you a verification!

clubs or socials as plenty have said up there ^^^^^^

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

In nearly all areas of the country you will find someone is arranging a social, often just a group of people meeting in a pub but sometimes in a club......You don't need an invite, they are often advertised in the forums. All you need to do is put your name down and turn up!

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

It's hard in Ireland to even get invites to them. But thanks anyway I'll keep trying.

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By *erseyridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

y not put ur username on piece of paper hold it up n get admin 2 vry u r genuine ,,,or like others have sed go clubs n socials ,,gud luk

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

Ok thanks ill check it out thank you.

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

Thank you.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

As I just said above.....you don't get invited, you approach the organisers and put your name down in the guest list.

You may not know this as you have only been here a week......in swinging, your success is very closely related to the effort you put in. Sitting here complaining that you can't get verified or can't get invited will most definitely not get you what you're looking for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think will happen when you have one verification?

Nothing will change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god....another case of invisibility.

Ignore the bi man *sigh* "

Happens to me all the time, Steve. Fancy a shag?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Oh god....another case of invisibility.

Ignore the bi man *sigh*

Happens to me all the time, Steve. Fancy a shag? "

Blinking Flip! This swinging lark is easy to get a shag, aint it just? hang on....are you verified? ......oh yeah!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. I got veris coming outta ma ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help me poke them back in someone?

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

Thank you ill try that thanks for all your help

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

No people will chat to you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh they chat. They tend to pm me tho b

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try messaging a bit longer? You've only been here a week....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think will happen when you have one verification?

Nothing will change. "

Now come on we all know that one veri entitles you to platinum membership

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone like to verify me it so hard to on this site. "

Your expectations are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too high. I mean fucking astronomical. You're looking for a meet tonight with a bisexual FF couple?! Good luck with that, you may be waiting a while.

It's not rude if someone doesn't mail you back. And we're not all here for the same thing. People are on here for different reasons.

If you're on here because a mate has told you about it, saying he gets laid by horny sluts every single night.....Well, he's lying. If you saw an ad on a porn site saying "just mail and ask to fuck"......it's bullshit.

A verification is an aid, but that's all. It doesn't mean you'll be deluged in an avalanche of quim.

Chill out, relax, get to a social. You don't have to wait for an invite.

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By *iggerooooCouple
over a year ago

Conwy

Get off here and meet in person, club ... Social etc Most here will not help you, will frown upon your post like they own fans. Few will help and the rest are full of shit lol Do not depend on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a funny post why can i not get the sing desperado out of my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Errrrm no. You have to either meet someone or be verified on cam "

Cam veris are no better than the now defunct telephone veris it proves nothing about whether a person is nice or turns up etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do cams but would do anything els I'm chatting and trying to meet but they say don't meet unverified or newbies

What's wrong with cams? "

Cam veris are worth shit proves nothing about how an individual is in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't do cams but would do anything els I'm chatting and trying to meet but they say don't meet unverified or newbies

What's wrong with cams?

Cam veris are worth shit proves nothing about how an individual is in real life."

Same as meet veri's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone like to verify me it so hard to on this site.

Your expectations are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too high. I mean fucking astronomical. You're looking for a meet tonight with a bisexual FF couple?! Good luck with that, you may be waiting a while.

It's not rude if someone doesn't mail you back. And we're not all here for the same thing. People are on here for different reasons.

If you're on here because a mate has told you about it, saying he gets laid by horny sluts every single night.....Well, he's lying. If you saw an ad on a porn site saying "just mail and ask to fuck"......it's bullshit.

A verification is an aid, but that's all. It doesn't mean you'll be deluged in an avalanche of quim.

Chill out, relax, get to a social. You don't have to wait for an invite.

"

and you will be lying there waiting and waiting and waiting for that FF to come to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would not expect to be verified until we actually meet up in person or with a group...

Thats why we got off our arses and arranged to meet at our next local social...and a sneaky pre-social..social!!

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.


"I don't do cams but would do anything els I'm chatting and trying to meet but they say don't meet unverified or newbies

What's wrong with cams? "

. Nothing I just don't do them

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.


"So you expect a complete stranger to just say ok then...what do you want me to say?...

Get real! "

. No not at all I was looking for a meet and greet with someone but it's ok have had it now

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Oh to be deluged in an avalanche of quim

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Anyone like to verify me it so hard to on this site. "

See? You got verified and it sounds like you had a lot of fun getting them too

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By *ig A300 OP   Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

Yea got their in the end. And I dint mean the way most people on here took it up. Was looking to be verified by meet up.

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