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Struggle to get that first meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are struggling to find our first meet. Lots of private messaging etc and some nearly resulted in a meet. Any tips or advice to improve profile. We value privacy but will send face pics via pm. Just want a like minded couple for friendship and hopefully fun but losing heart right now am going to hopefully get to VA before Xmas but again so nervous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes a change from a couple......there are thousands of similar threads from sad bugger single blokes.

Can't understand why you having problems tho...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not losing sleep over it or anything just wanted to Know

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Anything we could do to improve profile etc.

thanks for reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck we find meeting couples difficult too, we get maybe two or three potential couples a week message us but fail to strike up good Convo and it kind of falls down at that point. Single men much easier its like an all you can eat buffet of horny men. Perhaps socials and clubs better way to meet couples? Easier to have four way chat face to face x good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck we find meeting couples difficult too, we get maybe two or three potential couples a week message us but fail to strike up good Convo and it kind of falls down at that point. Single men much easier its like an all you can eat buffet of horny men. Perhaps socials and clubs better way to meet couples? Easier to have four way chat face to face x good luck x"

I think you are right, it's a little awkward trying to gage if you click just through private messaging. I think the club scene will be something we try as soon as we are able to. We have no interest in single men we play together but ive noticed the interest from single men is insane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea lots of single men we get used to the 100 unread messages in our inbox lol. I'd like idea of club if it was a bar and not somewhere people expect sex, then you could meet chat and see if you wish to make other arrangements x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 points.. you just been here 3 months and 2nd, there is no pic of the male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easiest thing to do is to get to clubs and meet people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Easiest thing to do is to get to clubs and meet people "

Think you are right any recommendations? Tia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find the same with couples. ...we chat to lots but so much harder to get an equal conversation for 4 people.

Our 1st experience was at a club (V.A) and a lot of people we meet and chat to are thru seeing them at a club xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're keen to attract couples and not single men it'd make sense to have pics of both parties on the profile, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had meets yes but seems to be getting more difficult of late,single guys are not alone in the struggle of getting meets very often we get no response to posted meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hubby is a little shy though happy to skype after a bit. xx think we r gonna go VA x

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