FabSwingers.com forum: Why is it?

By *ingdong91 OP Man
over a year ago

shropshire

I'm a 100% genuine male can't get a meet, I have had one social and got a good verification I pay my £5. Every month and still not good enough it's a shame cause this site is ok

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

why does £5 make a difference

good luck and welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it's you positive status on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey little sister, don't shed no tear, no woman no cry

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By *ingdong91 OP Man
over a year ago

shropshire

Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ingdong91 OP Man
over a year ago

shropshire

I do try to be positive but it's hard to keep it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

ps... you've been here a year or more and this OP has probably taken more time to write.

you honestly get out what you put in on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You pay £5 a month!!

ADMIN!! GET THIS MAN A MEET ASAP HE'S PAID HIS MONEY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status states that this site is shit. My people are put off by your negative attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate"

Ummmm....and somehow this entitles you to get meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 line profile and nondescript pictures.

Sorry to say this but couples and single ladies can pick from thousands of single men so you really have to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£5 a month? I only ever use the silver site membership, I don't see the point in gold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously though, women are vastly outnumbered here, most have been fucked about, had abuse thrown at them etc etc so on and so on.

I rarely bother to send messages now, and when I do I seem to automatically forget I sent them. Forum's is where it's at

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate"

And?

Just because you pay the site supporter fee doesn't mean you automatically get more messages or meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate"

Should that garantee you a meet ?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"You pay £5 a month!!

ADMIN!! GET THIS MAN A MEET ASAP HE'S PAID HIS MONEY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The status is so negative would put most off. A fiver a month eh? Most other sites charge at least twice that for full membership, often more. Maybe try the real world rather than a swingers site, you know, real women in the flesh? Or is this your last resort?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I'm a 100% genuine male can't get a meet, I have had one social and got a good verification I pay my £5. Every month and still not good enough it's a shame cause this site is ok

Funny?

You seem to be contradicting your current status update!

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By *ingdong91 OP Man
over a year ago

shropshire

I just want to be noticed as I'm genuine x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"You pay £5 a month!!

ADMIN!! GET THIS MAN A MEET ASAP HE'S PAID HIS MONEY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You pay £5 a month!!

ADMIN!! GET THIS MAN A MEET ASAP HE'S PAID HIS MONEY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want to be noticed as I'm genuine x"

Start a thread in the forums complaining about stuff, that'll get you noticed

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sell yourself more in your profile, get involved in the forum and raise your profile here. Are there any social or clubs that you could go to, that really helps build a network of friends etc etc.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps hes having a bad day. I know I have them but usualky find it best to count to 10 rather than 5 or should that be £5.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I just want to be noticed as I'm genuine x"

Genuinely what?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate"

It's not a fee. It's a donation. You don't have to pay it. It's a choice.

By way of a thank you, Admin gives a few small bonus features to supporters. You get those, the same as all the other donors. That's what the money pays for. It's got nothing to do with meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For £5 a month does that make you more attractive to others and inclined to have a meet? Perhaps we should upgrade to gold!

Entitlement sheesh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want to be noticed as I'm genuine x"

I read that as 'I just want to be noticed as I'm a trampoline'

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should really be a separate

part of the forum for single male advice!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"There should really be a separate

part of the forum for single male advice!!! "

With some 'sticky' (apt!) topics covering the most common questions/issues.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"I'm a 100% genuine male can't get a meet, I have had one social and got a good verification I pay my £5. Every month and still not good enough it's a shame cause this site is ok

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And what????

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate"

all that means is that you have access to certain enhanced features.

Are you suggesting that the women on here should meet you because you've paid £5...really?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I'm a 100% genuine male can't get a meet, I have had one social and got a good verification I pay my £5. Every month and still not good enough it's a shame cause this site is ok

And what????

Ya pay's ya monet, ya takes ya choice. Why's it not working for the OP?

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By *ingdong91 OP Man
over a year ago

shropshire

All I'm saying is in trying

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"All I'm saying is in trying"

Have you thought of going to a social or maybe a club? It can be very difficult for single men and even more so at each end of the age scale.

As you have discovered people don't take too well to anyone who thinks they're entitled to a meet just because they are on here so maybe join on the forums in a positive way, get yourself noticed in a good way.

Good luck

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"There should really be a separate

part of the forum for single male advice!!!

With some 'sticky' (apt!) topics covering the most common questions/issues."

I have suggested this many times on the forum. The same old same old moaning whingeing could be addressed in a separate room or as you say a sticky topic where the advice is permanently available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort your depressing, typical profile out, better pics might help. Go to a swingers club like you ticked in your 'interests'... Be positive!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate"

Nearly spat my coffee out then

I think I've heard it all now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate

Nearly spat my coffee out then

I think I've heard it all now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want to be noticed as I'm genuine x

Genuinely what?

A"
a is for arsehole lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah ! A genuine person ! That's ok then . So many people on here claim they are not genuine. . It makes a refreshing change to hear from someone that is !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silly boy don't you know that it is your personality that is putting people off an I have only had a few meets but I have no expectations of meeting anyone, that way, if you don't get meets its not a disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah ! A genuine person ! That's ok then . So many people on here claim they are not genuine. . It makes a refreshing change to hear from someone that is !

Lol fuckin hilarious hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some decent photos on your profile and try writing a profile more that a few lines. A year and that is all the effort you have put in ... wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please note. . I am a timewaster

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Silly boy don't you know that it is your personality that is putting people off an I have only had a few meets but I have no expectations of meeting anyone, that way, if you don't get meets its not a disappointment "

Bloomin heck no need to get personal. He's young, he's misunderstood the purpose of the site and he's learning by his mistakes.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

£5....hmmmm....that's 20 litres of milk at Tescos.

How about spending half as much time on here and only pay £2.50?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

You would probably do really well if you were gay or bi.. Most ladies find 23 far too young. Silver membership is actually £2:50 a month.. You get to see extra photos for that. It doesnt entitle you to meet..

Join in the forums go to socials.

good luck.. dont be despondant

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Nothing to do with paying your money, your profile is rubbish

Serious work needed on both text and photos

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have no idea where this sense of entitlement comes from with some people on here.

We are not here to entertain you - you have to bring something to the table and you clearly haven't.

Have you taken time to read the forums and look at other profiles and compare yourself to those who seem to be getting out there and meeting people?

Take some time out for reflection and ask yourself maybe it is yourself which is the common denominator not the thousands of people on here who don't know you from Adam.

That said - good luck!

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By *ewexperience83Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Don't want to sound mean, but go to clubs, there not as scary as you may think

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By *ingdong91 OP Man
over a year ago

shropshire

"Don't want to sound mean, but go to clubs, there not as scary as you may think

They are lol I'm shy lol

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By *ingdong91 OP Man
over a year ago

shropshire

I haven't put this up for people have ago, I've worded it wrong I can see that, now people have said what's wrong that's made it much better thanks for the support to the people trying to help

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Don't want to sound mean, but go to clubs, there not as scary as you may think

Not even on Halloween

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Don't want to sound mean, but go to clubs, there not as scary as you may think

They are lol I'm shy lol

Of course you can't, because that means YOU actually have to do something!

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By *ewexperience83Couple
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

I'm shy too, but we go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You pay £5 a month!!

ADMIN!! GET THIS MAN A MEET ASAP HE'S PAID HIS MONEY!

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

....... IMAGINE YOU CAN WIN £1M ......

All you have to do is come up with a great profile.Interesting,funny,actually inviting a woman to stop and read and consider you OVER MANY MANY GUYS HERE... Who are all doing a better job ..

Grasp that and you get alot nearer the `prize`

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

Damn the mans paid his dues..... But do you really want a sympathy shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you've paid a fiver doesn't mean you are guaranteed a meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Don't want to sound mean, but go to clubs, there not as scary as you may think

They are lol I'm shy lol

Something like that us a big step. I felt daunted the first time we went to a large

social and I'm part of a couple. Try and see if there are any socials in your area and make contact with other people who are going first....you won't feel so alone then.

We all started somewhere it's just that a lot of people forget that.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in with a claim form.

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Pops in with a claim form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

"Don't want to sound mean, but go to clubs, there not as scary as you may think

They are lol I'm shy lol

how about trying a dating site to find a partner..??.. connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause I pay my site supporter fee mate"

poor guy its not his fault the blame lays with fabs after all hes paid his money so why shouldnt he expect to have a minimum of buy one get one free meet or even nectar points ........ Oh i forgot its a swinging site not a supermarket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a 100% genuine male can't get a meet, I have had one social and got a good verification I pay my £5. Every month and still not good enough it's a shame cause this site is ok

Maybe check your spelling and punctuation. how about some more photos too. sorry but if I was thinking of meeting you, which I wouldnt, age etc. it would put me off. You have a verification so it's not that bad obviously. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously though, women are vastly outnumbered here, most have been fucked about, had abuse thrown at them etc etc so on and so on.

I rarely bother to send messages now, and when I do I seem to automatically forget I sent them. Forum's is where it's at"

Here here I second that

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