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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know if you have blocked someone they appear on your blocked list. If they disappear from your list does that mean they have left the site or can it mean they have changed their name and does that mean they are still blocked or do they have access to your profile? Concerned as I blocked someone who has disappeared and I am scared to carry on searching for guys in case I might come across a certain guy.

you can pm me if you have any suggestions xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it means theyve left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

search in stealth mode - so you cant be seen to be looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or admin have blocked them from contacting you

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By *ornstudMan
over a year ago

alnwick

it mean thay have left but may come back with another name just to get around the blocks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So did you block them want to unblock them you mean?

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Also, if your block list gets full then they may drop off as you add others

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Also, if your block list gets full then they may drop off as you add others "

That's what's happened to me. I think I must have blocked someone (no idea why must have been iPhone fumble fingers) but I can't find him on my list to unblock him cos it's too long.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have about 6 others on my list. Don't know how many names you can add before list gets too full!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So did you block them want to unblock them you mean? "

I certainly don't want to unblock them. I don't want any contact with them what so ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plenty of room for many more yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"search in stealth mode - so you cant be seen to be looking "

But I don't know what their new name is so looking is a gamble....not one I really want to take. Think the easiest thing to do is to come off this site even if it means the "blocked person" wins

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"plenty of room for many more yet "

So it might mean they have left the site then ...phew!!! one can only hope

thanks for the advice

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By *erseyridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

y not use ur message filters so only verified ppl can contact u ,,also u can use filters so u dnt show on ppls looked at me list ,,gud luk ,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"search in stealth mode - so you cant be seen to be looking

But I don't know what their new name is so looking is a gamble....not one I really want to take. Think the easiest thing to do is to come off this site even if it means the "blocked person" wins"

but they wont know you are looking will they - you will be hidden

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"y not use ur message filters so only verified ppl can contact u ,,also u can use filters so u dnt show on ppls looked at me list ,,gud luk ,, "

thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the worst that will happen if you stumble across them?? You can just block them again.....what is the issue?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"search in stealth mode - so you cant be seen to be looking

But I don't know what their new name is so looking is a gamble....not one I really want to take. Think the easiest thing to do is to come off this site even if it means the "blocked person" wins

but they wont know you are looking will they - you will be hidden"

I realise that but its a shame I have go into stealth mode as others will not see I am looking at them. But stealth mode will now be on for the next few months at least. Thank you for the advice xxx

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By *erseyridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

if u like some one u can always wink at them ,,,,n dnt 4 get put ur pics in friends only ,so new ppl cant look ,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the issue?? Just carry on as normal and block them if you find them?? Does it have to be a drama??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is the worst that will happen if you stumble across them?? You can just block them again.....what is the issue?"

Going to stay hidden so if I do stumble across him I can block him. When you are scared of what someone will do your brain doesn't always think logically. I thank you for answering the post

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I know if you have blocked someone they appear on your blocked list. If they disappear from your list does that mean they have left the site or can it mean they have changed their name and does that mean they are still blocked or do they have access to your profile? Concerned as I blocked someone who has disappeared and I am scared to carry on searching for guys in case I might come across a certain guy.

you can pm me if you have any suggestions xx "
If you reported them to admin they will have blocked you from contacting each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you have such a strong reason to be scared of him - maybe you should report to admin if thats applicable - they need to know of bad types onhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your profile name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the worst that will happen if you stumble across them?? You can just block them again.....what is the issue?

Going to stay hidden so if I do stumble across him I can block him. When you are scared of what someone will do your brain doesn't always think logically. I thank you for answering the post "

If you're that scared remove your profile? Report to police as he must done something really bad. And good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the worst that will happen if you stumble across them?? You can just block them again.....what is the issue?

Going to stay hidden so if I do stumble across him I can block him. When you are scared of what someone will do your brain doesn't always think logically. I thank you for answering the post "

without going into details, clearly enough for you to block them, did you need to report them to admin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you have such a strong reason to be scared of him - maybe you should report to admin if thats applicable - they need to know of bad types onhere"

or the police, he must have done something terrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get the issue?? Just carry on as normal and block them if you find them?? Does it have to be a drama??"

It isn't a drama, she has asked for advice for something. She has revealed no 'dramatic' information related to the profile she has concerns about. The forums are for sharing, fun, and requests for information......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have about 6 others on my list. Don't know how many names you can add before list gets too full!

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I have over 450 on my block list and none have 'dropped off' the end....

(I have various reasons for blocking, by the way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get the issue?? Just carry on as normal and block them if you find them?? Does it have to be a drama??

It isn't a drama, she has asked for advice for something. She has revealed no 'dramatic' information related to the profile she has concerns about. The forums are for sharing, fun, and requests for information...... "

So you would start a thread about someone that disappeared off your block list?? I don't have a clue who is on mine.....does seem a bit dramatic to me as most people would just block again without a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get the issue?? Just carry on as normal and block them if you find them?? Does it have to be a drama??

It isn't a drama, she has asked for advice for something. She has revealed no 'dramatic' information related to the profile she has concerns about. The forums are for sharing, fun, and requests for information......

So you would start a thread about someone that disappeared off your block list?? I don't have a clue who is on mine.....does seem a bit dramatic to me as most people would just block again without a second thought."

the op has been on here 5 weeks - sheesh im still finding out things about the site after years on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get the issue?? Just carry on as normal and block them if you find them?? Does it have to be a drama??

It isn't a drama, she has asked for advice for something. She has revealed no 'dramatic' information related to the profile she has concerns about. The forums are for sharing, fun, and requests for information......

So you would start a thread about someone that disappeared off your block list?? I don't have a clue who is on mine.....does seem a bit dramatic to me as most people would just block again without a second thought."

She had a genuine concern, she asked for help. To myself and many others, it appears not to be dramatic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get the issue?? Just carry on as normal and block them if you find them?? Does it have to be a drama??

It isn't a drama, she has asked for advice for something. She has revealed no 'dramatic' information related to the profile she has concerns about. The forums are for sharing, fun, and requests for information......

So you would start a thread about someone that disappeared off your block list?? I don't have a clue who is on mine.....does seem a bit dramatic to me as most people would just block again without a second thought.

She had a genuine concern, she asked for help. To myself and many others, it appears not to be dramatic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you know what area he lives In browse the profiles in the search mode for that area and look at all the profiles you may recognise him on a new profile if he has one. If he is still on he will eventually show up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't mean it to come across as dramatic and please accept my apologies to those who thought it did. I was just asking advice which the answers were most welcome. Please don't get angry with each other and me. I failed to word my worries in the correct way No offence meant to those reading my post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"search in stealth mode - so you cant be seen to be looking

But I don't know what their new name is so looking is a gamble....not one I really want to take. Think the easiest thing to do is to come off this site even if it means the "blocked person" wins"

You could however block newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your profile name. "

That's a good idea too plus change pictures and wording

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your profile name.

That's a good idea too plus change pictures and wording "

If they have you hotlisted it won't make any difference, you'd still be on their hotlist with the new name.

If they deleted their profile and came back with a new one they won't be blocked any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your profile name.

That's a good idea too plus change pictures and wording "

She isn't taking sensible advice......hence why I think drama queen.....andI'm the bad guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your profile name.

That's a good idea too plus change pictures and wording

If they have you hotlisted it won't make any difference, you'd still be on Uy their hotlist with the new name.

If they deleted their profile and came back with a new one they won't be blocked any more."

Do just block them again when you come across them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your profile name.

That's a good idea too plus change pictures and wording

If they have you hotlisted it won't make any difference, you'd still be on their hotlist with the new name.

If they deleted their profile and came back with a new one they won't be blocked any more."

Oh yes I had forgotten that, biddy hot list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all your messages and suggestions. Will not go looking for him but if I do come across him all I will do is block him again

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

this is why its good to see a face pic early on in the proceedings..if they come back with a different name (they probably will) u would reconize them

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