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How does a 'single' guy get far on here?

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By *avis1525 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Well I'm interested how to get a girls attention. Let's be honest most have hundreds of messages from desperate guys and won't even see yours in their clogged inbox of 300 plus or even read it if they happen to see it. woman with a great profile get bombarded with mail. So how does a guy get a girl to read his mail..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest and lighthearted in the mail..stay polite and ask yourself why they should meet you and explain this...sell yourself lol as such...but the first step is reading the profile...

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By *avis1525 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Thanks for your comment...

Well maybe forums is the only way to get noticed! Come on girls from an orderly queue I'd live you to say hi! haha

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

One may get further if they didn't have pictures on their profile that a quick Google search suggests may not be of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One may get further if they didn't have pictures on their profile that a quick Google search suggests may not be of themselves. "

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

One does not simply walk into fab and get far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

300 messages? I'm about 290 behind the other ladies then .

Best thing as they said just be yourself and read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have an honest profile.

Have pictures that are actually of you.

Have a sense of humour and realistic expectations.

Get out to clubs/socials etc.

Wait for the ladies to message you....

Success will come to you as it does to us all my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One may get further if they didn't have pictures on their profile that a quick Google search suggests may not be of themselves. "

Oh my god..really?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"One may get further if they didn't have pictures on their profile that a quick Google search suggests may not be of themselves.

Oh my god..really?

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It's been sorted out now. They were his photos, but someone else stold them. Unfortunately I can't remove the comment.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"One does not simply walk into fab and get far"

I read that with a Sean Bean voice in my head

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham


"Be honest and lighthearted in the mail..stay polite and ask yourself why they should meet you and explain this...sell yourself lol as such...but the first step is reading the profile... "

This is probably the best advice I've seen. If you come across as respectful and light hearted/fun then you are more likely to get meets (from what I have experienced anyway)

I'd also add, try to find females/couples looking for what you have to offer as that will increase your chances. For example, it's in your favour to message someone looking for a young, single guy who is athletic than try to persuade someone looking for a mature male. You've got a reasonable number of verifications so you must be doing something right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have newbie guys off here been there first meets without any hassle

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I got really lucky and got a verified meet the first day I joined this site. I know that is not at all common so I consider myself to have been very lucky indeed.

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