FabSwingers.com forum: How fast would you meet?

By *lygaid green OP Man
over a year ago

Just a general question. How quick would you meet someone on here?

for example after speaking for an hour or weeks? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends really on what you are looking for and the people. we like to chat abit first make sure everyones on the same page, exchange some pics etc and see if theres any connection

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have met same day for a social if we get on on on skype.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It there is an attraction after seeing pics and they feel the same. Then an early social meeting is great.

If all goes well, in the flesh...then arrange a play-date soon after.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've never met the same day, like to chat for a bit first plus work commitments make it impossible

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By *ranthamThroatMan
over a year ago

Grantham.

"Just a general question. How quick would you meet someone on here?

for example after speaking for an hour or weeks? x"

Joined 5 years ago and has 2 meets within 24 hours (me bad!), both lovely soldiers and have being meeting both since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met within a couple of hours

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm the type that likes to get a feel for people on here first, so I fall into a few weeks category

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

If attracted as soon as it could be arranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person some I spoke to for weeks before then meet and it was only a one time thing.

Others I've spoken too for only an hour or two before meeting and ended up meeting them repeatedly for months.

And everything in between.

Some times you find somone you really click with and you both happen to be free an horny and the same time and it's great to see each other fast.

Other times you click but aren't free to meet up for some time

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'd never judge just by a picture to see if i wanted to meet someone. I'd look at the pic & see if it made me never want to meet them & if i didn't shriek & run away then i'd consider a social asap. Maybe i'm a funny woman but i don't like fannying around talking to people on the internet when you can get to know someone a lot better face to face...

So providing all the essentials are done & i'm fit for public consumption then i'd be off within hours if i was keen enough.

Mrs WD40

ps, for the record Mr WD40 tends to go with my flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its an instant shag and go meet, after chatting 10min

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met the same day.

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

One guy we met that day, one guy we had spoken too for nearly two years.

Depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of hours but was a 1 off meet with a newbie couple

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

We have spoken to and then met within a couple of hours.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I've had a couple of times where I've met within a couple of hours of a first message but it's unusual due to both parties time commitments...on one occasion we were playing within 4 hours (and that included a drink and chat in the pub)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chatted to a girl for 1 hour. Met up and ended up staying the night. Good times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a while,I don't like to be rushed

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I've met a couple of women the same day we started talking. I like women like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met people within a couple of days from speaking because its worked out perfectly with time off and other arrangements to meeting after 3 years of chatting

Time isn't an issue for me,if a meet happens it happens

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By *exymatcplMan
over a year ago

doncaster

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

being single female i prefer to do a social meet first then decide to set another date to play if the feeling is mutual....... do you agree with that or not, a few guys on site think that a female will just stop what doing and go and meet...they just want a quick shag as its only sex....dont you think that there has to be a sort of spark for you to do that

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By *exymatcplMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Arranged a meet for the same day she was only a couple of miles away and said as soon as you like I said give me 20 minutes for a shower and get to yours, next thing I'm being called a timewaster and blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MY shortest was probably 4 hours longest 2 days lol yea they are my only two meets maybe it says something

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Typically a week or two, but I have met the same day or next day, and occasionally been talking for months before meeting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally after exchanging a few messages/pics etc. nay be speaking on the phone.

Fastest? Within 20 mins met with ff couple who had been on site one hour. They were genuine (shows on my verification summary) they were nulls 2 days later lol! (But a genuine ff couple on my list!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet 1 guy from here with in 15 mins of 1st message. He'd not been in front door 1 min before I was sucking his cock

It just felt right xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message at 3 am once x to meet him x jumping out of my warm bed to go to a car park

Cheeky sod even sent the postcode when I asked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on our old account, we met someone that had only joined the site 1/2 hour before lol

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We have done both but have found with experience that the meets where we have spent a bit more time chatting and flirting with the other people work better overall

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Really depends on the person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done both few hours and others weeks of chatting i like to have a phone chat after a few messages back and forth text only tells you so much and can be miss read.

But go with the flow if your both happy

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Depends how close they live could mean travelling 5 mins or 2 hrs so how fast depends on distance

Lmao x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

About 20mph, all over the city

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a general question. How quick would you meet someone on here?

for example after speaking for an hour or weeks? x"

Depends what I want, if I just want a quick no strings fuck then I'll meet straight away. If I'm after more I'll build a online relationship first x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully in the next few hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to arrange my meets in between work and home so I can't do same day, socials have to be planned in advance.

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By *eyondCuriousWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

If we click, I can wait. We've waited 5 months before....she was worth it, just hoping not going to take so long for the second meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"being single female i prefer to do a social meet first then decide to set another date to play if the feeling is mutual....... do you agree with that or not, a few guys on site think that a female will just stop what doing and go and meet...they just want a quick shag as its only sex....dont you think that there has to be a sort of spark for you to do that

Yep totally agree. Tend to chat a bit (day to weeks) and then do a social, then try and get round to an actual meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I clearly don't rush, still waiting!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends upon the person(s) Im meeting. With some there is a period where we seduce each other, till our minds are hard-wired so we want want want! With others we both feel impulsive and strike during the flush of first burning lust...

There s also work commitments etc to factor in.

The shortest time between first contact and skin upon skin is probably about 20 minutes. The longest about 6 months!

Whilst the shortest will take some beating I imagine the longest will be beaten several times as there's those I've had a few chats with over a long time on and off whom I plan on carnally enjoying when circumstances allow...

Foxy minx, for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our record is 5 minutes... We wwere in town and got a msg saying he was in a hotel above the bar . 5 minutes later we were upstairs having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chatted for 4 weeks with the last meet i had. Work commitments etc do get in the way. Got to know him pretty well and was really excited to finally meet him. I need to know i'm not meeting an axe murderer so it's unlikely i'll drop everything and meet. Also find the ones with a bit of patience are worth meeting

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I'm the type that likes to get a feel for people on here first, so I fall into a few weeks category

I'm the same .suss out if there's a rapport .Also surprised what comes to light in the normal conversation that have stopped things dead and saved me meeting people who definitely not what I'm after .

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

It varies on the person and your mutual needs. I've had meets within a few hours of contact and others have taken over 2 years to organise.

There really is no hard and fast formula.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a pretty bad meet with a guy that I met a few hours after first messaging in the throes of lust, so now I'm more sensible and meet after at least a week of chatting x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm the type that likes to get a feel for people on here first, so I fall into a few weeks category

Oh yes, I've had this as well, started off thinking this could be a bit of fun, then bam, they say or do something that makes you think, back to the drawing board and lucky escape, I'll stick to the way I do things!

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