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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks....Im finding it difficult to get messages on this site let alone any meets , does anyone have any advice for me.I always send respectful messages or a wink to people i like but seems i am no ones type.....PLEASE HELP A NORMAL MAN IN NOTTS....All replies welcome xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see any problems with either what you say is your approach nor with your profile. I can also see that you've had several meets. It may just be that you're in the middle of a dry spell? Have you tried going to socials or clubs to meet people in person? There are lots of options available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That should be person to person. If you're meeting person in person I'd say you were achieving your goal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to send loads of messages, eventually one will reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cant go to local social as fell out with the organisers years ago....long story....and im not sure how many ppl are left on this site in notts who i haven't tried contacting....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant go to local social as fell out with the organisers years ago....long story....and im not sure how many ppl are left on this site in notts who i haven't tried contacting....lol"
Maibe you need to consider to travel, might be one option lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant accom

hidden verifications

these are factors lots will look at.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Get yourself to a social or sign up for one of the parties at the Attic in Derby.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"cant accom

hidden verifications

these are factors lots will look at."
cant accom as daughter and grand kids live with me....and veris hidden as all old ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can still show them however old they are ...and mention on your profile why you can't accommodate that will help too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can still show them however old they are ...and mention on your profile why you can't accommodate that will help too x"
not quite as members might left the site so then it wont show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep ..fair enough sugar !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can travel accommodate am single with no hangups. Still very slow. Place is quite odd

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thx for the advice folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your current status doesn't help.

The nonsense about Sydney University puts some people off too, and it is absolute bollocks.

Other than that your profile seems fine. You have had 8 meets in as many months...so compared to most guys you are doing really well.

It took me nearly 3 years to get to the 200 mark...just keep going dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have looked at your profile quickly and can't see any problems, maybe become more pro active in the forums and get yourself to socials

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have looked at your profile quickly and can't see any problems, maybe become more pro active in the forums and get yourself to socials

Good luck OP "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have looked at your profile quickly and can't see any problems, maybe become more pro active in the forums and get yourself to socials

Good luck OP "
t.y...and must say great pics guys xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, your Bicur, a smoker and can not accom, all those would stop us even chatting to you, the text in the first 2 paragraphs is poor and then everything after what you don't want is needless and off putting

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The twaddle about legal action bla blah blah...a waste of valuable fab server space. The warning isn't even grammatically correct so wouldn't stand up in court - nor would you sue someone for nicking anything off your profile because you wouldn't know. If you're asking for profile advice, do you really really honestly think someone would use your profile if it's not working?

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