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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

this is going to come across really lame but here goes!!

Having been in the site for a couple of months now I still feel like a bit of an outsider looking in, a bit like a hanger onner at a party or school playground. There seems to be a lot of people who talk regularly in chat rooms and forums and although I try posting always seem to feel daft afterwards. Do I just need to get over myself as I'm sure that's what a lot of you will be thinking or is there a secret (virtual) handshake I should know about lol ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

post and be damned I say! i write some of the most outrageous stuff in forum just for a laugh really. It is after all just a fantasy world. Do with it what you wish. (subject to the terms and conditions of course ....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's due to them actually knowing or have met outside of the rooms and been posting for a long time. Keep being friendly and posting and others will recognise you I'm sure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this is going to come across really lame but here goes!!

Having been in the site for a couple of months now I still feel like a bit of an outsider looking in, a bit like a hanger onner at a party or school playground. There seems to be a lot of people who talk regularly in chat rooms and forums and although I try posting always seem to feel daft afterwards. Do I just need to get over myself as I'm sure that's what a lot of you will be thinking or is there a secret (virtual) handshake I should know about lol ? "

Post away...it gets lost sometimes because of the sheer volume of peeps posting or it's not of interest at that time.

Don't dwell on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's due to them actually knowing or have met outside of the rooms and been posting for a long time. Keep being friendly and posting and others will recognise you I'm sure x"

thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome! Just do what I do and charge in there with comments regardless! Most of what I say gets ignored, but then I'm not posting to make friends. I just use it as a bit of light entertainment while I'm working, normally.

Enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone hates everyone else in the forums, the only time people ever nearly see eye to eye is when they can start to rip peoples posts!

On a serious note, by posting well thought posts and answering when you think you can add to or answer others posts you will soon see how the forumites behave, lots of forums on lots of sites do seem a little unfriendly at first but once you start to 'get' certain types of humour ect then you might find the click

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

We were all new once so just join in and then you'll be a regular

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Platinum membership helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just post what you want if people dont like it or even like it they will let you know. The forum is actually one of the best ways to break the ice and get to know people before you pm them.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Welcome! Just do what I do and charge in there with comments regardless! Most of what I say gets ignored, but then I'm not posting to make friends. I just use it as a bit of light entertainment while I'm working, normally.

Enjoy x"

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I have been posting on the forums for a couple of years now. Most of the time my comments go unanswered/ignored or are lost in the thread. It doesn't stop me posting (often rubbish) and joining in. Can't get rid of me that easily...

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Your reading between the lines too much OP, don't worry and just post away mate. Dont expect replies or for people to even understand you, just express your opinions on any of the subjects or start a new one with your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been posting on the forums for over a year and still feel like an outsider ..lol.. just add your comments and get chatting ..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't assume that everyone knows each other or are friends with each other because thats not always the case

Just join in as much as you want

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

On the forums we are all outsiders...I post mainly for devilment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best ideas I can give:

try not to moan

generalize people

use a keyword search in most cases...we see,timewasters cock sizes bbw bbc squirting kik facetime threads all so often

try not to fawn

and while it may be connected with moaning, do your best not to talk about meets that uve had where its unfair on another party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it takes time to build up. I remember when I first started, you have to start using the forum regularly then they know more who you are and what kind of person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just post away, most people read all comments in a thread, I know I do, if I enter and say something, I rarely get answered I've been in forums a year, I don't post often, I do know a few people.rarely I have time to have a full blown conversation anyway

its not a popularity contest either, there are a few regulars who chat away, everybody is welcome so don't worry we all feel daft at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh thanks to everyone who posted. Lots of lovely comments and encouragement. No negative comments back at all. Love you all X x

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