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"I am a gusher,but all depends on the guy or woman if they know what they are doing.. Paul has now mastered how to make me gush and other women thanks to a lovely couple on here x" was this with practice or a taught technique?? i dont really know what it was that made me gush it just happened | |||
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"yes, not always, but yes...enjoy the bloody inconvenience of it! fresh sheets on the bed today....20 mins on! my afternoon spent doing the laundry. marvellous! took me a good 30mins to iron that quilt cover too...." lol hadnt considered how inconvenient it might be! is there no stopping it once you do it regularly then? | |||
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"I'm not sure if I'm a gusher or a squirter!!!!! What's the difference?????" Could your fella aim you and write his name in the snow? | |||
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"i want to be able to but dont think i can... ,tried what is says on websites all without result maybe im not destined. Is there a special technique i need to get my partner to try ?" I find that my technique works on some girls and not on others. It may be that another technique would work for them but not for others! But some general rules, based on experience: 1) Relax - it might happen, it might not, don't worry about it. Enjoy! 2) No, RELAX!! 3) I'm told that, until you get used to it, the sensation is like having a pee. This tends to put some girls off and they "hold back". If you find that happening, I'd suggest trying it in the shower or the bath, if you can get comfortable (see 1 above!). 4) If at first you don't succeed, (but you enjoy trying), try, try again!! Oh, and the difference between gushing and squirting - think about the difference between spilling a glass of water and firing it at the ceiling using a syringe! | |||
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"i have never squirted or gushed " Me neither... Hug? | |||
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"3) I'm told that, until you get used to it, the sensation is like having a pee. This tends to put some girls off and they "hold back". If you find that happening, I'd suggest trying it in the shower or the bath, if you can get comfortable (see 1 above!)." _havenangel1, As a woman, do you have a better description of the slightly off-putting feeling, rather than mine. Difficult for me, not having experienced it, but that's the way its been described to me. | |||
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"For me it does and once i've started my god does it flow lol. I've now got to the stage where once i've started it carries on through penetration (the male ends up as wet as i do lol)." I squirted once quite recently. It completely floored me and I had to go hide in the bathroom for 10 mins Since then I have gushed loads, unfortunately for me its not the same as cumming the clitoral stimulation but knowing how much it turns the guy on is more than enough pleasure for me. I can't believe I've just typed that on a 'public' forum | |||
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"OK..serious question...does it "feel" better? Particularly looking to the ladies who can but don't always do so... Is it a better orgasm as a result of all this moisture being flung around? I see descriptions of feeling like one is weeing...does that heighten sexual pleasure? " No it doesnt, i always held back as ive no desire whatsoever to pee myself, but when one gushes or squirts, its from the vagina, very strange the first time, and thereafter but i know when it is coming. Trouble is because its on my profile, its expected everytime and if my partner at the time isnt all that, it wont happen Not sure id say it was an orgasm either, to me its just cumming | |||
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"Same here, never did it before till i started swinging and if a guy, or woman for that matter, knows what they are doing, its everytime, just havent managed to do it with clit play only penetrative sex. Had to buy some new sheets though and need plastic sheet for hotel plays too" My experiences of gushing have usually been with fingers but very recently it has been with tongue and penetrative sex. | |||
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"anyone want to share thier techniques ?" There's an obvious answer to that! | |||
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"I have always always wondered about squirting or gushing and its a phenomena that im not entirely 100% sure about. I have never gushed or squirted, I have been very turned on, I have though, had the feeling of wanting to go to the loo and have got a bit scared that I would go to the loo so have held myself back until that feeling has gone. I always cum through gspot touching though and its fantastic and whilst I have been very very wet, ive never squirted or gushed. Ive never seen a real life woman do it either (seen various pornos but I dont believe them). Its like ghosts for me, until I see it with my own eyes then I wont truly believe it can happen - maybe it is urine (ill probably be killed now for saying this lol, well there goes all our future potential meets lol) " I had a friend who thought exactly the same as you until.............she gushed lol. I was really proud of myself as i gave her step by step instructions on telling her partner what to do lol | |||
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"i want to be able to but dont think i can... ,tried what is says on websites all without result maybe im not destined. Is there a special technique i need to get my partner to try ?" Yes relax, dont try to make it come, its uncomfortable, let it happen, dont think about it, its like watching a kettle boil, ive only started doing it since i came on here, not bad for 49 now i love it, just had to buy some more sheets | |||
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"Egg whisk........... pmsl" yes im wondering about that too | |||
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"OK..serious question...does it "feel" better? Particularly looking to the ladies who can but don't always do so... Is it a better orgasm as a result of all this moisture being flung around? I see descriptions of feeling like one is weeing...does that heighten sexual pleasure? " Personally i think coming and orgasm are 2 different things, ive just started coming and gush all over a blokes cock but have never had an orgasm | |||
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"Egg whisk........... pmsl yes im wondering about that too " Just make sure you use the old fashioned stainless steel type with the cogs and handle to turn it - a molineux food mixer just doesn't work | |||
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"I'm still a gushing virgin - in that I've never met a gusher yet (to my knowledge, of course)." I'm not sure either. How does one tell? | |||
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"I'm still a gushing virgin - in that I've never met a gusher yet (to my knowledge, of course). I'm not sure either. How does one tell?" Too subtle for you, Jed! | |||
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"i want to be able to but dont think i can... ,tried what is says on websites all without result maybe im not destined. Is there a special technique i need to get my partner to try ?I find that my technique works on some girls and not on others. It may be that another technique would work for them but not for others! But some general rules, based on experience: 1) Relax - it might happen, it might not, don't worry about it. Enjoy! 2) No, RELAX!! 3) I'm told that, until you get used to it, the sensation is like having a pee. This tends to put some girls off and they "hold back". If you find that happening, I'd suggest trying it in the shower or the bath, if you can get comfortable (see 1 above!). 4) If at first you don't succeed, (but you enjoy trying), try, try again!! Oh, and the difference between gushing and squirting - think about the difference between spilling a glass of water and firing it at the ceiling using a syringe! " The way people make such a big deal of this gets on my nerves. tut | |||
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"OK..serious question...does it "feel" better? Particularly looking to the ladies who can but don't always do so... Is it a better orgasm as a result of all this moisture being flung around? I see descriptions of feeling like one is weeing...does that heighten sexual pleasure? " Its a different kind of pleasure, not better just different, almost a total relaxation, smooth and the extra lubrication makes any following activity lush. (in my opinion) xx | |||
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"If a guy says on his profile he has 'magic fingers' go for it, you'll then know if you gush or squirt after! Look for cocks that slightly bend does it for me lol" yes | |||
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" Most definitely a technique. It does require a bit of sensitivity.I can make it happen regullarly. always pleased to give a demo xxx Chris" I would love to experience it, but no one, not even hubby can make it happen Must be a non gusher. | |||
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"There is a certain technique that works with me so if I don't want to squirt I make sure they don't do anything thats going to make it happen " For some reason that made me think of a masonic handshake... "No, I'm sorry, she can't squirt if your left knee is bent at anyhting other than 62 degrees" | |||
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"There is a certain technique that works with me so if I don't want to squirt I make sure they don't do anything thats going to make it happen For some reason that made me think of a masonic handshake... "No, I'm sorry, she can't squirt if your left knee is bent at anyhting other than 62 degrees"" You been talking to people again | |||
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"You been talking to people again " Listening mainly, although there were some very surprising pictures. And a video that made me | |||
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"You been talking to people again Listening mainly, although there were some very surprising pictures. And a video that made me " A video that made you gush....I wanna watch that | |||
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"yes, not always, but yes...enjoy the bloody inconvenience of it! fresh sheets on the bed today....20 mins on! my afternoon spent doing the laundry. marvellous! took me a good 30mins to iron that quilt cover too.... lol hadnt considered how inconvenient it might be! is there no stopping it once you do it regularly then?" Once i start gushing it just builds and builds untill only dehydration stops me. i recently managed to hit a couple playing 4 feet away | |||
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"I just find it odd though that lots of women on here say they do it, now ok im relatively new to swinging but i would say i go very regularly to Chams - over a 2 week period a month ago we went four times a week but now with partners work its had to go down to once a week ,anyway ive been a lot of times and i have never ever seen any woman in there squirt. Ive also been to a club in London and no squirting was to be seen there either, so until i see it with my own eyes i guess i wont truly believe it. " he he I was a skeptic like you until a fem squirted all over my easy chair! Later an experienced couple managed to make me gush but I couldn't do it myself for ages and ages. Took me about 6 months or more of exploration till I managed to do it for myself and it was well strange, so I did it several times that evening, just to check mind! True though, it does not always work so there must be a brain thing there too. | |||
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"If somebody runs a master-class on this technique, put my name on the list? Also can anybody help me improve my two handed backhand? " i have on good authority feel for the tyre track hee hee. The most worrying thing about this thread is that squirting or gushing seems by some to be a sign of greater sexiness.Pleasure should be the point,how that is acchieved is irrelevant. | |||
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"I plucked up courage and asked a doctor about squirting once and he said that women differ in the amount of vaginal fluid they produce and this can be down to how aroused they are, and their age as older women can experience a decline in vaginal fluid, but he said to achieve the amount of fluid to be able to gush out like a fountain can only come from the bladder. im not sure if that is correct and i expect we will hear loads of ladies say thats not correct. i also agree that sometimes its hinted that the non squirters amongst us are somehow not as sexy or as talented as the squirters and that is not the case. As long as its enjoyable then thats all that matters and i dont feel less of a woman cos i cant squirt " your Doctor is talking balderdash and you are right mwah xxx | |||
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"medical and clever boffs say there is only one place that quantity of fluid can come from and thats the bladder, a turn on, a spectacle,a show. whatever you want to call it so long as its accompanied by a lovely orgasm i do not know any women who do not enjoy it. " ok geroff with the "they say" who are they anyway. Give us a source, give us some facts. bla bla | |||
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