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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Help me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A right hand friend would help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanking is the new sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But I want the juices of a pussy

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"But I want the juices of a pussy "

Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?

Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.

Those are the only positive points I can see though.

You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.

You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.

Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?

If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.

The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.

You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.

Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.

If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.

Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to some socials or clubs a great way to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I want the juices of a pussy

Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?

Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.

Those are the only positive points I can see though.

You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.

You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.

Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?

If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.

The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.

You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.

Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.

If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.

Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first."

to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.

Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"But I want the juices of a pussy "

I want never gets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to some socials or clubs a great way to meet people."

Very good idea thats how i started

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"But I want the juices of a pussy

Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?

Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.

Those are the only positive points I can see though.

You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.

You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.

Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?

If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.

The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.

You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.

Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.

If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.

Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.

Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality"

If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?

And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.

I don't see why you think it's unfair.

If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.

You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I want the juices of a pussy

Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?

Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.

Those are the only positive points I can see though.

You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.

You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.

Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?

If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.

The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.

You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.

Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.

If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.

Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.

Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality

If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?

And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.

I don't see why you think it's unfair.

If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.

You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)"

I agree to an extent if you're not attracted to someone at all from a picture then it's logical not to carry on the contact as it would be wasting time.

But I do have to admit in the past ive not initially been attracted to the look of someone but something about them and their persinality has built up the attraction.

But it is a sex site after all.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"But I want the juices of a pussy

Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?

Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.

Those are the only positive points I can see though.

You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.

You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.

Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?

If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.

The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.

You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.

Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.

If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.

Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.

Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality

If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?

And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.

I don't see why you think it's unfair.

If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.

You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)

I agree to an extent if you're not attracted to someone at all from a picture then it's logical not to carry on the contact as it would be wasting time.

But I do have to admit in the past ive not initially been attracted to the look of someone but something about them and their persinality has built up the attraction.

But it is a sex site after all."

I don't have time to chat to every bloke on the site on the off chance I might find something attractive at some point.

If the first message and profile are appealing and the photo isn't a definite 'no thanks', I'll send my photo back and carry on chatting though.

My comment is more that I won't send my photo to someone I definitely don't want to meet, even if they have sent theirs, because I don't see the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I want the juices of a pussy

Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?

Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.

Those are the only positive points I can see though.

You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.

You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.

Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?

If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.

The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.

You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.

Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.

If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.

Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.

Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality

If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?

And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.

I don't see why you think it's unfair.

If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.

You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)

I agree to an extent if you're not attracted to someone at all from a picture then it's logical not to carry on the contact as it would be wasting time.

But I do have to admit in the past ive not initially been attracted to the look of someone but something about them and their persinality has built up the attraction.

But it is a sex site after all.

I don't have time to chat to every bloke on the site on the off chance I might find something attractive at some point.

If the first message and profile are appealing and the photo isn't a definite 'no thanks', I'll send my photo back and carry on chatting though.

My comment is more that I won't send my photo to someone I definitely don't want to meet, even if they have sent theirs, because I don't see the point."

Yeah that's what I was saying if there's nothing there in anything not logical to waste time

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"But I want the juices of a pussy "

99p a can at our local garage!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I want the juices of a pussy

Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?

Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.

Those are the only positive points I can see though.

You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.

You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.

Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?

If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.

The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.

You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.

Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.

If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.

Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.

Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality

If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?

And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.

I don't see why you think it's unfair.

If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.

You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's the approach mate you'd be better off paying for sex and getting what you need straight away without any questions...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Help me"

Maybe it's more a case of they don't want you? Ask yourself why.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op u need to send loads of messages and one will eventually be intersted .

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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago

Staines


"Wanking is the new sex "

"New"? Is there another type of sex I haven't heard about yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Help me"

Can't get any one to what .......tie your shoe laces?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanking is the new sex

"New"? Is there another type of sex I haven't heard about yet? "

lol no just another way of doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps going out with the lads and chat a lady up like all 6 packed men should be doing on a weekend instead of whinging on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I want the juices of a pussy

Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?

Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.

Those are the only positive points I can see though.

You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.

You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.

Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?

If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.

The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.

You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.

Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.

If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.

Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.

Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality

If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?

And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.

I don't see why you think it's unfair.

If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.

You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)

"

Curtious if you want to see them then you should show yourself with a polite no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I want the juices of a pussy

Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?

Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.

Those are the only positive points I can see though.

You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.

You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.

Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?

If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.

The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.

You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.

Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.

If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.

Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.

Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality

If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?

And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.

I don't see why you think it's unfair.

If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.

You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)

Curtious if you want to see them then you should show yourself with a polite no thanks "

Why should we? To make it easier to be harrassed in ths street as we said no??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But I want the juices of a pussy

Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?

Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.

Those are the only positive points I can see though.

You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.

You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.

Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?

If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.

The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.

You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.

Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.

If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.

Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.

Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality

If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?

And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.

I don't see why you think it's unfair.

If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.

You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)

Curtious if you want to see them then you should show yourself with a polite no thanks "

I'm confused. Why would you need to send a face pic with a no thanks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to say its nice to be nice im genuine dont pester women but find it unfair and rude to ask for a pic and not send 1 back you can make it clear that a meets not gonna happen but happy to stay chatting as looks are skin deep and personality comes through when getting to know someone.

Yes women do get pestered alot i know this through the ladies i have met but some pics dont do justice as ive found with mine and im told im better in person.

Good luck to the fella who asked the question and as you can see people both blokes and women only go for looks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your help and has been taken on bored much appriciate a thank you so much x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow that took me a while and I'm really really am great full on everyone's feedback and boom I feel like twat so I apolagise with help from some great people out there I have updated my profile and hope thy this comes across much better yes I admit I rushed and hoped and it was the wrong way and pushy and thus not me really I'm a nice genuine guy who likes to make people happy many many thanks once again love to you all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It kinda reads like a woman wrote your profile for you...

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

U have put on ur status lady's not men please.

Firstly if u dont want men to contact u amend ur filters

Also ladies is spelt thus

Also ladies not men please can read as:

Ladies not,want men please

Or

Ladies,not men,please

Lol i think u mean the latter so just be careful of ur punctuation

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo


"U have put on ur status lady's not men please.

Firstly if u dont want men to contact u amend ur filters

Also ladies is spelt thus

Also ladies not men please can read as:

Ladies not,want men please

Or

Ladies,not men,please

Lol i think u mean the latter so just be careful of ur punctuation "

Or simply:

Ladies only please

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"But I want the juices of a pussy

Perhaps focusing solely on what you want is part of the problem?

Congratulations on not having cock photos all over your profile and for writing a little more than 'will fill in later'.

Those are the only positive points I can see though.

You can't accommodate. That will put some women off. Do you expect to go to their place? They might not be able to/not want to accommodate either.

You have one poor quality photo and a profile, devoid of punctuation which says little about you. It's also a bit demanding in terms of what you expect.

Sending a face photo is your choice. If someone isn't interested why does it matter if they send a photo back? You're not going to meet them, so why does it matter if you find them attractive?

If someone contacts me, I expect them to send a face photo first, (though not necessarily with the first message). I will send mine back if I am interested. If I'm not, I don't see the point.

The way you dictate what you expect would put me off.

You must realise there are far, far more men on here looking for meets than there are women so getting a meet means you need to stand out. It takes effort and time.

Without knowing what your initial messages are like, I can't comment on those. One line messages, text speak, sending cock photos and many other things can put off prospective meets though.

If the first impression isn't good, it's unlikely anyone will make the effort to get to know you.

Also, if you dive right in expecting to arrange to meet for sex straight away, that can be off-putting too. Women are here looking for sex, yes, but we're not usually looking to meet anyone who asks and we often prefer to get to know guys a bit first. to ask for a photo and want 1 sent without sending 1 back shows how unfair women treat blokes yes there a ratio of god knows but look go so far more is on personality.

Can look fit as anything and float ya boat but be vain as anything and have no personality

If you initiate the contact why wouldn't you be willing to send first?

And if they don't fancy you what is the point of them sending one back? Either you won't fancy them, in which case, no loss or it'll be a case of 'look at what you could have won'.

I don't see why you think it's unfair.

If I initiate contact with someone, I expect to send my face pic first. If they aren't interested, having their pic in return is pointless.

You send a face pic to establish interest, not to get a face pic in return. If there's no interest, what's the point. (Genuine question - if they don't want to meet you, why do you care what they look like?)

Curtious if you want to see them then you should show yourself with a polite no thanks "

Seriously?

Oookay, well you can expect what you like but I'm not about to start sending my photo to people I'm not interested in meeting.

The things that some people expect on here in the name of courtesy boggle my mind sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well think what you want its rude not to send pic in reply end of

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

I don't understand why we'd send a pic when you aren't what we're looking for and will never arrange a meet with you.....what's the point?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Help me"

Looks like someone has. Compared to your old profile, it's now all spelt correctly, paragraphed, correct granmar and punctuation and sets out what you want and what you're like.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Help me

Looks like someone has. Compared to your old profile, it's now all spelt correctly, paragraphed, correct granmar and punctuation and sets out what you want and what you're like. "

Grammar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well think what you want its rude not to send pic in reply end of "

Prepare to be very disappointed. Why would anyone feel the need to send a pic to someone they had no intention to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would i want to send my face pic to every tom dick and harry that i didn't fancy..we always reply with a nice no thanks,,if i wanted everyone to see my face on here it'd be in public pics. Get over yourself. sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if he expects a face pic with a "thanks but no thanks" message. AND he expects to keep chatting..

..maybe he also expects a quick fuck out of courtesy? I'm sure it'd be rude not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear.

Oh dear, oh dear

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

No face pic = no meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if he expects a face pic with a "thanks but no thanks" message. AND he expects to keep chatting..

..maybe he also expects a quick fuck out of courtesy? I'm sure it'd be rude not to."

It does seem that he's deeming it rude for someone to break off contact if they decide that no interest that way lies, yet should keep chatting on the slim offchance that on one lonely Friday night they might change their mind and invite them round for a shag.

Mental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if he expects a face pic with a "thanks but no thanks" message. AND he expects to keep chatting..

..maybe he also expects a quick fuck out of courtesy? I'm sure it'd be rude not to.

It does seem that he's deeming it rude for someone to break off contact if they decide that no interest that way lies, yet should keep chatting on the slim offchance that on one lonely Friday night they might change their mind and invite them round for a shag.

Mental. "

Or ridiculously optimistic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read all the posts as not time. Op - I'd suggest trying socials and clubs, getting more, clear, public pics - And try re-writing your profile to make it funny but informative rather than demanding? Many women respond positively to humour.

Also send a clear face aand torso pic when you first message someone - some of us get hundreds of messages a day so this is helpful. Good luck hunX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if he expects a face pic with a "thanks but no thanks" message. AND he expects to keep chatting..

..maybe he also expects a quick fuck out of courtesy? I'm sure it'd be rude not to.

It does seem that he's deeming it rude for someone to break off contact if they decide that no interest that way lies, yet should keep chatting on the slim offchance that on one lonely Friday night they might change their mind and invite them round for a shag.

Mental.

Or ridiculously optimistic?"

I was thinking "handles rejection poorly, unwilling to take no for an answer".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Help me

Looks like someone has. Compared to your old profile, it's now all spelt correctly, paragraphed, correct granmar and punctuation and sets out what you want and what you're like. "

Thanks dude it was with many help of from all you guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Help me

Looks like someone has. Compared to your old profile, it's now all spelt correctly, paragraphed, correct granmar and punctuation and sets out what you want and what you're like.

Thanks dude it was with many help of from all you guys "

It has was ment to say

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